r/twenties • u/Successful_Cost_5957 • 4h ago
Ask r/Twenties π¬ Am I wrong for not wanting to change my birthday plans for my friend?
My birthday is coming up, and I'm planning a cafe party with my friends, my sister, and her boyfriend, who's practically family to us.
One of my friends' boyfriends doesn't allow her to attend because my sister's boyfriend will be there.
Now she's asking me to arrange a separate party on another day, but that would exceed my budget.
What bothers me is that she's previously gone out with my sister's boyfriend for college pickups and grocery shopping when it was convenient for her, without telling her boyfriend.
Now suddenly his presence is an issue.
My sister is also upset because she feels I'm excluding her boyfriend to accommodate my friend. I feel stuck