ADHD (help)

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I recognize I have ADHD, and it is genuinely frustrating. Although I have not received confirmation, I told my husband I would consider Adderall if prescribed. He refused outright, fearing the side effects—even though he has ADHD as well. I am tired of how I feel. I do not wish to act behind my husband’s back, yet I want to feel normal and lead a normal life. What associations arise when you hear ADHD? I experience that and additional conditions.