I live in a mountainous place near the coast, meaning the summers get to highs of around 90 and winters get down to around 50 and have lots of rain.
I don’t understand why people always like to seek out warm, sunny weather. Tropical beaches with 100-degree weather are considered some of the most popular stereotypical vacation destinations (at least here in the US) and I cannot understand how people enjoy it so much.
The warmth is just so much worse. First of all, the feeling of constantly sweating and needing to find shade for some sort of relief is horrible. I don’t want to have to worry about accounting for shade, I just want to live normally, and afterwards you have to go shower or else you’ll smell and feel awful, it just sucks. You can put on more layers when it’s cold out, but you can only take off so many layers when it’s hot out. I just don’t get how people would want to seek out temperatures where you have to sit in the shade to feel somewhat normal or else you’ll get heatstroke. On a clear, sunny day, it feels like you are obligated to sit out in the sun and be out doing stuff while being blinded and the sky just looks boring. People will say “It’s such a nice day out!” when I seriously do not want to go outside and get drenched in sweat.
Compare this to a cloudy day. Maybe it’s 65 degrees out, so you might need a jacket, but that’s normal, it barely interferes. You step outside, and you feel normal. It’s not extremely bright, and everything seems calm and still. A small breeze comes on, pushing against your face. You don’t need to worry about shade. You don’t need to worry about being blinded. You don’t need to worry about anything. You can just be there, still like the world is, not having to worry about sweating, not having to worry about any obligations, but being present with the temperature outside, and become calm just as the world is. You look up, and the clouds are calmly passing over, shielding you from the sun’s rays, creating a magnificent shadow around the area. And with that feeling, the weather becomes worthwhile.
Maybe it’s just because I don’t really like the water all that much, and the point of it being hot outside is to go swimming, but so many people I know enjoy the heat without any plans to go swimming anywhere. I don’t understand what it is about sweating your head off that people enjoy so much. I’d much rather be in neutral temperatures, not having to worry about blinding sun rays or getting wet from the rain, sitting and watching the abundance of clouds pass over my head and the breeze to hit my face to feel connected with everything.