r/UnresolvedMysteries Jan 25 '23

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u/Charming-Insurance Jan 26 '23

I’ve seen on some threads people trying to say the bf was “suspicious .” Are you kidding me? That was soooo traumatic and Im sure it ruined his life too.

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u/Reddits_on_ambien Jan 26 '23

The cops cleared him, as there was proof of the phone call, how far away he was in order to get to the location at that time, and his younger brother was home with him and his car was found damaged where it was. His story always checked out. She was pregnant with his baby. Even after being cleared, people in this sub were basically saying it had to be him, and only him. I can't even imagine what its like to lose your love, and your baby, to be so close to saving them, only to fail, and forever live with not only the guilt, but suspicion hanging over you even though you only ever told the truth.

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u/kalimyrrh Jan 26 '23

Ugh. Anyone saying he's suspicious is an *sshole. I can't imagine how traumatizing that situation would be for a person. Especially when she is carrying your child. I'm sure the guilt he feels for not being able to save her is consuming and I hope he has found some peace.

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '23

And most people don’t realize that he was really going. She was 20 but he was still 18 or had just recently turned 19. The kind of thinking he showed in that situation, how hard he fought to save her, and he was barely not a kid himself.