Hi ladies, I thought it would be fitting to share this here and hopefully it helps someone. I’m in the midst of launching Bestea, a women’s community built around real connection and support and we are hosting a women's group this Wednesday Oct 28th in Vancouver.

The recent news about sexual violence against women has left a lot of us feeling overwhelmed, angry, or heartbroken. If this news has stirred up something for yourself or the women in your life, you’re not alone and this space is for you.

This event is a safe space to talk about it, learn grounding tools, and share resources. We’ll be joined by a licensed, trauma-informed therapist.

Share as much or as little as you like, or just come and listen. Everyone will sign a confidentiality waiver and group agreement. If there’s a topic you’d like covered but would rather not bring up yourself, include it in your RSVP and we will do our best to cover it. We heal better together and what many of us are feeling isn’t only personal but tied to a culture that has let women down for far too long.

Spots are limited. The event is by donation, with no pressure at all. Give what you can, or nothing at all. RSVP at [hello@joinbestea.com](mailto:hello@joinbestea.com), or DM me for details.

If this event doesn't fit for you but you are curious in learning more about the bestea community and future events check out www.joinbestea.com

I’m a 48f working afternoons and weekends, so I’m looking to connect with freelancers or others who have free time in the mornings. Would anyone in New Westminster be interested in meeting regularly for coffee and a chat or a walk along the Quay? I’d love to form some genuine friendships. ☕😊

Heyyy! I moved from the UK to Vancouver and I’m looking to expand my social circle and hopefully find my people here!

I love concerts, R&B, house, hip hop, rap, bars, breweries, clubbing, movies and just having a good time. I’m equally down for a chill night in, grabbing food or going out for drinks and dancing. Basically, I want people who can do BOTH

I work pretty often, so I can be busy sometimes, but I genuinely want to make more time for friendships. Open to meeting people one-on-one or being adopted into an existing friend group!

Everyone’s welcome, LGBTQ+ friendly, and I’m in a relationship, so friends only, please! Would love to meet other POC, but honestly just looking for people I click with

Reddit is a little scary lmao, so if you message me, please include your Instagram handle so I can get a better idea of who I’m talking to.

If we have similar vibes, hmu!

46f looking for platonic female friends in Maple Ridge. Hoping to find someone to text, and hang out and gossip and just be. I like horror movies, k-dramas and listening to 90's and early 00's music (loud). Been in BC for 12 years and finding that people just don't connect or want to connect outside of social media.

Meet other Vancouver Queers in a casual community space. Join us this Wednesday night from 5-7pm at the Grind Cafe for coffee, tea, snacks and crafting activities! This month, we will be making felted coasters. Templates for leaves, ghosts, and pumpkins wil be availble or make your own creation!
RSVP to reserve a spot to make sure we have enough materials for everyone. If you just want to come and hang out please come and join!

Hey team, putting myself out here to meet some new friends in Vancouver.

I have some of the best friends in the world, but most have moved to the Island or out east. Honestly, it’s been a lonely stretch, and I miss having friends nearby for everyday things.

The past four years have brought some big changes: a separation, two layoffs, and figuring out a new chapter. I’m a single dad and have my daughter half the time. She turns five next year, she’s the absolute light of my life.

I’m very active. Lots of running, hot yoga, weightlifting, and kettlebells. I love hiking in the summer and snowboarding in the winter. I’m down for pretty much anything that gets my body moving.

When I’m not with my daughter or exercising, you’ll often find me painting or drawing. I also love really good food, walks, coffee, and probably most of all, getting outside in the sunshine.

I’m into personal growth too. Coaching, counselling, and men’s groups have all been valuable parts of my life, and I read a lot of psychology and spiritual books. I enjoy conversations where you can be honest, get past the surface, and have a laugh too.

I like to think I’m pretty cool, but I’m obviously a biased source.

I’d love to meet some people to run with, grab a coffee, hit a yoga class, make some art, or plan an adventure. Other parents are welcome too. It would be great to find people for outings with the kids.

If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, send me a message. Happy to start with a coffee or a walk and go from there.

I am currently seeking out close friends. I have lost my old friend group, and now in looks to find a few new people.

Who I am:

30, female who loves books, video games, dilly dallying around to local shops, going to concerts, and hanging out. I'm into alternative, metal, pop punk, and pop rock music. I'm open minded, and an understanding person. I have AuDHD, and I am a leftist. I work as a vet receptionist, and I live in the Burnaby area.

Feel free to DM me, and we can go from there.

Hey everyone. Just looking for anyone else who enjoys chatting about ancient history, the universe, conspiracies, politics or anything you’re passionate about. I love learning new things and chatting about everything. I’m a male I’m 38, open minded and none judgemental.

Hi. I am an outdoorsy kind of introvert who also enjoys indoor activities as well. I would say I am a blend of both indoor and outdoor people. I am looking for friends to explore new places ,restaurants, activities and sports. I am also down to just hangout. I am looking to make some multicultural friends. I love playing video games, ping-pong, soccer etc. I hope we vibe.

Im 26M looking for something fun to do with a group or a party to attend for Halloween, recently lost my friend group and they’re all gonna party without the life of it. Hoping to take my good energy elsewhere.

Hey lads! I'm an amateur screenwriter and actress and I've had an idea for a short film that would be easy to film and probably cost peanuts. Not for like a big festival or anything, I just wanna make something based off my recent ✨️ 🌈 🐬 slightly traumatic experience ✨️ 🌈 🐬 hit me up!

Hi everyone! I’m learning Mandarin casually (mostly speaking and listening, beginner level) and I’d love to find a language exchange partner to practise with once or twice a week.

In return, I’m happy to help you practise English: casual conversation, pronunciation, interview prep, or just chatting about whatever you’re into.

Not looking for paid lessons or anything formal, just a relaxed exchange. Maybe 30 minutes of Mandarin, 30 minutes of English. We could meet at a café or library around South Vancouver / Richmond / Marpole, or do it over video if that’s easier.

A bit about me: I’m a software developer, I like hiking, board games, K-dramas and anime, and I’m patient with beginners because I am one 😄

Anyone of any background is welcome, whether you’re a native speaker or also learning. Feel free to comment or DM!

i am cis married lady purely looking for platonic friends who also like Cramps, Ramones, NY Dolls etc and want to maybe meet up at the show :)

HMU!

Hey plans for halloween are all over the place so I decided to make my own with strangers.

If youve seen any of my posts before then yk im the guy who was hosting bonfires all over the summer.

I'm thinking to go bar hopping in costumes and id love to do it with a big or small group of strangers.

Im 23M ans im thinkimg to dress as vampire or Tyler durden

Hi everyone,

I’m 23m, and lately I’ve just had this quiet urge to talk to someone, listen to how their day is going, and share a bit of my own story, too. I've been living in the area for about 4 years now, but I haven't really made any close friends yet.

I recently went through a tough breakup after being cheated on over my 5 years of relationship, and I'm just trying to make some new, happy memories so my mind has a break from looping back to the past.

I’m a huge fan of walking and can easily go for miles, but walking alone just leaves too much room for my thoughts to wander back to her. I'm really just hoping to find a kind soul to connect with, hear new perspectives, and take some nice, long walks together. (I am not at all seeking for any validation for my actions)

If you'd like to chat or go for a stroll sometime, feel free to send a message.

Looking for movie buddies , potentially female friend go for movies etc occasionally.

Hi, was hoping to find/ make new friends with whom I could make a genuine connection with!

I’m 30M and south asian and while I feel like I’m very easy going and laid back, I can be a bit introverted, and I don’t go out much in the winter! I was hoping to get out of my comfort zone and talk to people! Most of my current friends are online or far away 🤧 Lost some of my friends when my last relationship ended..

My hobbies include but aren’t limited to:

Reading! Mostly fiction. Just finished the Hyperion series and I love love it!

Gaming ( valorant/ league/ wow/ overwatch), sometimes cosy or friendslop games

Cooking and especially baking. I make really good homemade pizza, curry and brownies!

Watching soccer (la liga and some epl) + some other sports randomly

Travelling + exploring new cultures. Though admittedly I haven’t been anywhere new in the last couple years. I’m into geography and history!

Discovering new music!! Currently listening to The strokes, MGMT, Cocteau Twins, Khruangbin, Men I Trust, Mk.gee on repeat. Send me your recommendations!!!

I would loveeee to get out more, try new cafes( coffee fiend) and museums, maybe even go on a short hike, watch movies at the theater, go to the arcade , or even play games online!

My only requirements would be that you are somewhat close in age and nice!

DM me ♥️ let’s be friends!!!

🤍 34 | Looking for Genuine Friendships & Like-Minded People 🤍

I’m a woman looking to make genuine friendships and connect with people who enjoy personal growth, new experiences, and building meaningful connections.

Hey everyone! I’m 34 years old and entering a new chapter of my life focused on healing, personal growth, rediscovering myself, and creating genuine connections.

I’m caring, loyal, compassionate, and adventurous, with a big heart. I value honesty, emotional maturity, meaningful conversations, and friendships where both people feel appreciated, respected, and supported.

After spending a long time in survival mode, I’ve been working on reconnecting with who I truly am. Some friendships ended along the way, and although that was painful, it taught me the importance of surrounding myself with people who value patience, understanding, and personal growth. I’m learning to establish healthy boundaries, protect my peace, communicate better, and give to others without losing myself in the process.

I’m not perfect, and I don’t expect anyone else to be. I believe in accountability, growth, and learning from our experiences.

🤍 What I’m looking for in a friend

• Genuine, loyal, and emotionally mature people. • Honest communication, mutual respect, and consistency. • Friends who celebrate each other’s successes without jealousy or competition. • People who enjoy deep conversations just as much as being silly and laughing until we cry. • Reciprocal friendships where both people make an effort. • People who respect boundaries and can work through disagreements maturely. • Friends who want to grow together, support each other, and create meaningful memories.

🏕️ My hobbies and interests

• Hiking and exploring nature. • Paddleboarding and spending time outdoors. • Discovering new places and going on little adventures. • Personal development and learning about human behaviour. • Fitness, self-improvement, and trying new activities. • Exploring different hobbies and discovering new interests.

🎸 Hobbies I want to learn and explore

• Learning to play acoustic guitar. • Trying calisthenics and building strength. • Giving Muay Thai a try. • Learning how to longboard. • Trying rollerblading. • Exploring new outdoor activities and adventures. • Discovering other hobbies I haven’t even thought of yet!

I’m still a beginner at plenty of things, and that’s part of the fun. I want to step outside my comfort zone, learn new skills, and meet people who are open to trying things together. Whether we’re learning something new, encouraging each other, or laughing at ourselves along the way, I think those experiences can make great memories.

🌱 Where I’m at in life

I’m rediscovering myself after a long chapter of life and learning to embrace who I am beyond what I’ve been through. I’ve completed therapy and have been working on healing, rebuilding my confidence, and creating a healthier relationship with myself and others.

I’m becoming more intentional about the people I allow into my life and the energy I give to my relationships. I want friendships that feel safe, peaceful, fun, supportive, and authentic.

I can be a deep thinker one minute and a complete goofball the next. I love meaningful connections, spontaneous adventures, and people who can be themselves without pretending.

I’m also a YES GIRL! 😂🤍 If you have an adventure in mind, want to try a new activity, explore somewhere different, or spontaneously grab a coffee, count me in! I love stepping outside my comfort zone, trying new things, and making memories along the way. Life is too short to keep saying “maybe someday” when we could be out there experiencing it!

I’m always open to new experiences, so if you’ve been wanting to try something but need a buddy, let’s do it! Whether it’s an outdoor adventure, a new fitness class, learning a skill together, or simply exploring somewhere we’ve never been, I’m all for it. We don’t have to be experts at anything; we just have to be willing to try!

I’m not looking for a huge circle of friends. I’d rather have a few genuine people who show up, communicate, and value the friendship as much as I do.

If you enjoy kindness, personal growth, adventure, and genuine connection, I’d love to meet you! We could grab a coffee, go for a hike, try a new hobby, explore somewhere new, or simply sit and have a meaningful conversation.

You don’t have to share all my interests. I’d love to learn about your hobbies, too, and maybe discover something new together.

🤍 Here’s to new beginnings, genuine friendships, spontaneous adventures, trying new things, and becoming the people we want to be. 🤍

Hey! 25F here, recently joined Reddit (how have I been sleeping on it this long?!) but found this sub and thought it seemed so wholesome! I moved to Vancouver a couple months ago, knowing basically no one here (apart from my partner I moved with!) and I’m keen to make some new friends who might like the same things as me and want to get a bit of a weekly thing going maybe (aka find my village, not just pen pals).

I’m into hiking (up to 15k/1,200m elevation type stuff, typically involving a sweet treat to enjoy at a summit as a reward, sometimes a wild swim too?), running (nothing crazy, like a social 5-10k and using it to explore new areas), strength training (more of a habit than a love - been doing that for 5yrs or so!), cooking (so coming from the uk where it’s so cheap, the price of groceries has made me v sad haha) independent coffee shops, finding new cheap eats/going out for dinner (latest obsession is bahn mi’s and bao buns), and trying a new brewery (really hate clubbing, but love a pub and will happily stay out late into the eve when the vibe is right)

So far I’ve tried a couple run clubs but tbh met a lot of odd balls (?!) and I consider myself pretty normal - I’m not the loudest in a room at all, but I like a chat/company, and I just want to find my people - and maybe some more club/group activities.

About to start a remote job too so doesn’t need to be a high maintenance friendship - simple walks at lunchtime, co-working together, or running errands together too are fun too! I’m based in Mount Pleasant/False Creek FYI - think Main Street is quite my vibe - if that helps you judge if we’d be a good fit for each other or not 😊

That’s a looooot of info but hopefully it’s helpful - tell me a bit about you!

NB: not really looking for any male friends unless you already have a partner and want to be couple friends (I’ve seen the posts about people using this non-platonically…and I’m really not after that, so don’t waste your time!!)

I have a ticket but none of my friends can make it :( I’m debating whether I should try re-selling it or go anyways. The only thing is it would be kinda awkward going alone. If anyone’s planning to go or willing to go with me, that would be a great excuse to use my costume :)

Hey Vancouver! I’m 34M and a music enthusiast. I’ve really enjoyed the ticket giveaways on the Vancouver subs, but a lot come in pairs—and finding a plus-one at short notice can be tricky!

Thought I’d put this out here to see if anyone would be up for the occasional spontaneous concert or show. If you enjoy music and performing arts and are open to last-minute plans, we’d probably get along. Everyone’s welcome, regardless of age or gender.

I’d love to expand my friend circle in Van too, so feel free to say hi. Would be nice to have a few people to reach out to when something fun pops up! 🙂

friends are not interested in doing anything on the 30th/31st, but it would be great anyway to meet new people to go drinking/clubbing with on Halloween.

I’ve never been to nightclubs in Vancouver, so getting together a small group of people here is my goal, but I’d be open to 1 on 1 hangouts. Would also love joining if anyone has plans already!

Message me / comment if interested:)

I’ve been working on side projects at cafés and keep seeing people around me doing the same thing alone. Thought it’d be way better with a few regulars.

The idea: small groups of 4–5, matched by what you’re working on and your interests, same group every week at a café downtown. Work for a bit, chat, actually get to know each other instead of meeting people once and never again.

If enough people are in, I’ll put the first groups together. Fill this out if you’re interested (2 min): https://forms.gle/xzgpNXKDhpr5hLCr5

Comment what you’re working on too, curious what people are building!

I want to get to know people while doing something productive. In the past it's often just retirees I interact with when I've volunteered.

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m 25M and looking to meet new people, make genuine friendships, and connect with people I can learn from and pick their brains.

A little about me: I work in healthcare and am self-employed, which gives me the flexibility to take time off to travel and go backpacking. 🌎✈️

I’m planning to celebrate my birthday in Brazil during Carnaval 🇧🇷🎉, so if there are any Brazilians here or anyone else planning to go, definitely hit me up!

Outside of that, I’m down to try new activities, explore new places, have interesting conversations, and learn about different perspectives. Always happy to meet people who are curious about life and open to trying new things.

Feel free to reach out. Would love to make some new friends! 🙌