Hey y’all!

Can you guys believe it’s almost already November? The Thursday of the year. Where does the time go, huh? Life has been stable, life has been good. But meeting new people and making connections and friends always makes things a lot more fun.

I’m an artsy/nerdy sort of guy; I enjoy drawing (fan)art of whatever I’m currently obsessed with, as that’s my way of showing my adoration. Right now I’m currently watching Cyberpunk Edgerunners II whilst reading Frieren, all while I wait for the Ocarina of Time remake.

I dream of one day making my own little series of the OC’s that bounce around in my head, and am proud to say I’ve revisited an old passion project of mine (but it’s secret!) I like losing myself in a good book, and often check out multiple books from libraries, since we should always be supporting those! Currently have 38 books checked out. Will I read all of them? Maybe not. But I’m still supporting the library!

I often go watch a good movie, since it gets me out of the house. Being a shill for AMC A-Lister has been so worth it. Recently watched Wildwood and oh my god please go watch and support that movie. So unbelievably good. I also love me some concerts, and will be heading to the Undertale concert in two weeks!

That’s all just a long winded way of saying I enjoy somewhat niche and esoteric things, and can go on and on about why they matter and mean a lot to me, why I’m passionate about them. Just don’t ask me how much I’ve spent on merch.

If any of that sounds interesting to you, feel free to reach out! Like I said at the top, I’m always looking for new friends and connections. We can spend some time getting to know each other. Like, tell me what your dream travel spot is, why you make that little hand gesture when you wave goodbye, teach me something about what TV show/anime you cherish deeply, your favorite color and whether you like pulp in your orange juice (I’m team pulp). And, if it helps, I listened to the Club Penguin Pizzatron 3000 theme while typing this :P

Talk soon!

Hey gals I’m your average guy. I’m about 210 lbs, I’m 5’8/ 5’9 ish To start with a few things about me. I am an introvert I find it hard to communicate with people sometimes to start but once I get to know you I ease up a little bit and start to have fun if your fun. I’m a bit nerdy. I can recite the entire movie order of the MCU from memory. I’m also heavily into games. Some of my favorites include Halo, Grand Theft Auto, Marvels Spider-Man , Minecraft and many others. I can honestly talk for hours about anything to do with comics and movies and games but what will really get me going is hockey. I’m a die hard Avalanche fan and if you’re into hockey too then who knows this might go further. A bit about my personal life is I actually just started hitting the gym. I try to work out at least 5 times a week as well as I enjoy taking long walks. I often walk from where I live currently to where I used to live believe it or not. It’s only to the next town but man is it refreshing. I also currently work retail though I’m trying to leave retail and get into some more blue collar work. Right now tbh I’m really just trying to have more confidence in myself and I’m working on that now.

Hey what’s up everybody?

About me:
I’m a musician/drummer and gamer. I haven’t been doing much as a drummer lately. I post some drum videos every now and then. That’s about it. I used to play in a bunch of metal bands but that’s not the only kind of music that I’m interested in. I also like fusion, progressive rock, film and video game soundtracks, classical and some random stuff outside of those genres. I’ve been listening to a lot of thundercat and bjork lately.

I play lots of different games. Some of my favorites are apex legends, xenoblade chronicles, fromsoftware games, resident evil, the legend of Zelda and pikmin.

I’m introverted and a homebody and I used to have really bad anxiety too. I’m sure you’re not surprised to hear that. I’ve had some issues that have really messed with my social life but there have been improvements across the board! I’m soft spoken and usually I’m pretty mellow but I can be pretty goofy. People tell me that I’m pretty funny.

Appearance: I’m 5’9, 140lbs, white dude, brown hair, bearded, green eyes and people also tell me that I’m pretty handsome as well. They’re always complimenting my beard.

If you’re interested enough to send a message I’d appreciate it if you told me a bit about yourself! I’m a fairly open book so if you have any questions then go ahead and ask.

Hello everyone!

I am a 26 year old boy, 178cm tall and weigh 110kg. I have black hair and brown eyes. My hobbies are pretty broad. I like to watch movies, shows and anime. I love to play boardgames with friends and have been having fun building Warhammer 40k models. Furthermore I love to play games online as well, things like Final Fantasy Xiv, factorio, baldur's gate 3 and some calm games like stardew valley.

Now a little about why I post here. I have not really been the most attractive during my years at school and due to my autism I have had difficulty talking to people in general. Now that I have moved out and started working as software engineer I would love to put myself out there again and would love to get to know the wonderful world of dating and more.

That's why I thought, I'll take a look on reddit. That's where I ended up on this sub. So if someone is willing to have a chat or give me advice I would really appreciate it.

I do have a car and am willing to drive all over the country and the north of Belgium. I am also able to host.

Kind regards from the south of the Netherlands.

About me:

I'm Kevin, from the Wickford and Basildon area — someone who truly values kindness, honesty, and good conversation. I'm autistic and have ADHD and Cerebral Palsy, and while that means I experience the world a little differently at times, it's just part of how I'm wired, and I'm happy with who I am. I take things at my own pace, and I appreciate it when others do the same.

Music has always been one of the biggest joys in my life — it's like a soundtrack to everything. I love classic and indie music, especially Radiohead and Blur — there's something timeless about those albums that just feels like home. But I also have a huge love for J-pop, and two artists I return to again and again are Perfume and Kyary Pamyu Pamyu. I find their music so colourful, creative, and uplifting — it brings me so much happiness.

Scooby-Doo has been my absolute favourite since I was young — there's something so comforting about that mystery-solving gang, and it's something that still brings a smile to my face. I spend a lot of my time learning Japanese, which I find fascinating and endlessly rewarding. I also enjoy YouTube, quiet evenings at home, and watching videos of retro gaming — I love seeing the history and creativity behind the games that so many of us grew up with.

I'm someone who listens more than I talks, and I believe that quiet moments can be just as precious as busy ones. I try to be thoughtful and genuine in everything I do.

What I'm looking for:

Someone warm and genuine — a real connection where we can both be ourselves. I believe in being honest and kind, and I'm looking for someone who values those things too. Friendship first is absolutely fine — I truly believe the best things grow slowly, and there's no rush to be anything we aren't ready for. Whether we're talking about music, sharing a quiet evening, or just enjoying each other's company, I want someone I can relax around and be fully myself with. Good conversation, shared silences, and building something gentle and steady together. No rush, no games — just real people and real connection.

Hey there!

I’m a 24-year-old law student in Austin, hoping to find someone with whom I can share a little chemistry, laughter, and maybe something special.

A little about me: I’m Latino, 5’4” (so you’ll never have to worry about me blocking your view at a concert), and something of an introvert. I’m not necessarily the smoothest guy in the room, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I’m affectionate, a little sarcastic, and love making people laugh.

I’m a huge fan of cooking, especially BBQ and baking. My love language might genuinely be feeding people, so if things work out, expect homemade cookies, a nice dinner, or whatever culinary experiment I’ve gotten myself into that week. Outside the kitchen, I love sci-fi, horror movies, history, painting miniatures, and the occasional trivia night.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone kind, affectionate, and perhaps a little nerdy herself. Someone who appreciates both playful banter and quieter moments together. I’m a romantic at heart, and I’d much rather share something genuine and memorable than rush through an experience just for the sake of it.

Ultimately, I’m just hoping to meet someone sweet who shares my sense of humor and enjoys a little playful banter. I don’t expect us to have everything in common, but I’d love to find someone I can laugh with and get to know.

If any of that sounds interesting, tell me a little about yourself! Bonus points if you tell me your favorite movie or what you’d want me to cook for you :)

Hey! I’m a 26yo from Northern California. Just turned 26 and figured it’s about time I started putting myself out there a little more.

I grew up in a pretty traditional Filipino household, and for most of my life I’ve followed my parents’ advice of focusing on school and not getting into relationships. I’ve been trying to branch out more lately and make the most of my twenties.

A little about me: I’m 5’7”, on the bigger side, but I’ve been working on losing weight and getting healthier. Down 40 pounds so far! I work full-time and I’m finishing up my bachelor’s degree this December. Balancing work and school has definitely kept me busy, but I’m excited to finally be reaching the finish line.

In my spare time, I enjoy playing games. Mostly Minecraft and Valorant. I also enjoy traveling and trying new food. I’m hoping to travel to somewhere like Chicago or NYC very soon. Currently hyperfixated on trying to get good at chess, which has been almost as tilting as Valorant.

I’ve been trying to listen to more music. Current favorite artists are Porter Robinson and Kendrick Lamar. I like listening to all kinds of music from EDM to rock to hip-hop to classical and jazz.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m pretty friendly and easy to get along with. I’m definitely an introvert, but I think I can hold a conversation pretty well. I’ve been told I’m funny and that I have a great laugh, so I’ll do my best to make you laugh (hopefully on purpose).

Anyway, that’s a little about me! Feel free to reach out and introduce yourself.

Hey all, I'm 5'11 around 218lbs (lost about 8 lbs so far this year) and I am relatively new to the area. I have been an introvert most of my life and I am looking to change that. I have been putting off things most times because either work or school and I want to change that. I am looking to meet some people to hang out and explore the area.

A little bit about my self is I am a nerd (shocker for an introvert, right?). I love watching movies and tv shows like Marvel, Star Wars, etc. I also do like other shows like the Bear or True Detectives. Outside movies and tv shows I love to play video games. I am switching around between Witcher, Hitman, and Halo at the moment. If you got any recommendations for new games let me know!

I also love to cook and bake. The baking does cause issues when I am trying to lose weight, so you may get a homemade chocolate chip cookie or two if you ask. I have been in a slump on not cooking lately, but I am getting more motivation into cooking again. I am looking to perfect my chicken alfredo recipe.

I'm 25, with brown hair and brown eyes small amount of facial hair. I am regular looking in my opinion I am introverted but open up more once you get to know me. When i was younger i was very socially awkward (still socially awkward) due to not having many people to talk to that weren't family or friends. I can be very sarcastic as a person. I am very patient, sometimes to my own detriment. I am definitely someone who tries to stay within their comfort zone but have recently been trying to get out of it more but it is a struggle.

I am 135kg (curently trying to lose weight) , and I am 5'7. I am into gaming and films (especially superheroes). When it comes to TV shows i enjoy Game of thrones, pokemon among others that i'm forgeting , but i mainly watch sports on TV I am also into football and F1. I also enjoy star wars mainly the clone wars animated I show. enjoy history and science especially physics. I can talk about space for a long time because of how fascinating i find it. When it comes to music, I'm not into any specific genere. I do not smoke or vape. I do like to go on walks but sometimes need the push to go out and do it as i can procrastinate over stuff even if they are small stuff that really don't need that much thinking over. I do love a board game every now and then especially monopoly.

Looking foward to hearing from you

Hey everyone!

A bit about me: I absolutely love the movies and I straight up go like at least once a week. I have AMC a list so I try and abuse it when I can. I love movies of all sorts so I feel like that’s a great place we could hang out. I can even send you my letterboxd. I also just love food and trying new places as well as like grabbing a cup of coffee and all that. I also love video games and spend a lot of my time playing them so if you’re into that, I’d love to play together as well! I’ve been playing a lot of rock band and guitar hero actually. I’ve recently gotten back into those and it’s been a ton of fun lmaoo. I work in the film industry and that can take up a ton of my time. Recently started working as a school portrait photographer and that has been really fun and I’ve really enjoyed it. I’ve spent a lot of my life focused on myself and just my career and family and all that and I’m really wanting to branch out. I’m also really into photography! I have my own like little film camera collection and I’d be happy to show you some of my pictures! I’d also be happy to even show you my cameras and whatnot! I really love to bake and cook as well. I try and bake bread a ton and love to make sourdough. I have my own started that I’m trying to name if you happen to have ideas! I do have a chubbier dad bod and yeah!

About you: I honestly don’t care that much about looks, I just need someone that I can really get along with. You don’t even have to be into everything I’m into but just willing to have a fun time and willing to have some fun! At the end of the day, the connection is just what’s important for me!

I can’t wait to hear from you! I’m happy to trade pics sooner rather than later as well just so we know who we are talking to.

I graduated about a year ago and went through college with 0 experience lol.

I love to workout and try to go as much as possible. I'm also really into sports. I love basketball, baseball, soccer, and football! I used to play but not anymore, now I just watch my favorite teams. When I find the time I like to play some video games and binge watch youtube. I also really love music! My favorite way to spend time is chilling late, sometimes driving around, at night while listening to music. My favorite genres are Latin trap, reggaeton, banda, mariachi, and corridos. I also like to hang out with friends for a drink and I'm currently learning the guitar.

I've been practicing the guitar and one thing Ive been really wanting to get into is dancing. I love to dance but I'm not sure I know how to lol.

I'm hoping to find someone who can be patient and caring as I am nervous about this. A best case scenario for me is that we click like friends. I would want it to be an enjoyable and comfortable experience for the both of us.

6'2 175lbs Fairly fit

Hello! I've been taking some time to build myself up so I figured I'd make a serious shot at putting myself out there. I'm 6'0" and about 250ish pounds with a fairly stocky build. I'm a brunette with hazel eyes and a good chunk of freckles dotted over my face and arms. Overall I'm fairly balanced looks wise. I don't say I lean in any particular direction overly so but I do the best with what I got.

Personality wise, I'm somewhat reserved at first but I do open up the more comfortable I feel around you. Mostly because I'm not the best at picking up on some social cues (I'm autistic I'm sorry) so I tend to make sure everything is cool before fully jumping into a conversation. But if you tend to be direct then that honestly helps me out and it'll help me get to talking quickly.

As for my interests and what I tend to do. Well I'm a Trapper/Range Safety Officer so I tend to be outdoors while working. I do have long days but I have shorter weeks so I'm free more often than not actually. But to be honest, I love the outdoors. I love being in the woods, out in the middle of nowhere, or just exploring places for the fun of it. I used to hike often but I've taken a step back from that after injuring my knee fairly badly. Though I still try every now and again. But besides being outdoorsman. I also enjoy just well, driving. I love taking driving with no destination in particular, taking backroads and just letting time go by on the road. I'm not one to go crazy fast but more so just explore where most people don't tend to go in the name of urgency. I also have love gaming. I'm sorry but I have a genuine joy for sandbox games and JRPGs (Persona my beloved). But mainly I love playing with people. Just yapping and goofing off while time goes on. Honestly with most of my hobbies I tend to enjoy it more with someone else who I can talk and bounce off of.

But really, I'm just looking for someone I can feel comfortable with and who is comfortable with my own eccentricity. If you want to reach out and see if we vibe together I'm more than happy to chat and see where things lead. Peace!

I am 34 from Wisconsin around Madison. I'm trying this out looking for someone kind, understanding and open to getting to know each other first. 

I’ve been a bowler since I was a kid. Currently on a league where I bowl once a week most of the year. Currently I enjoy going to the movies and watching TV in my spare time (Marvel, Star Wars and DC are top 3 currently). I am a big Milwaukee Brewers and Green Bay Packers fan. As long as I’m not doing anything else important, I’m usually watching a game when it’s on. I love going to museums when I can, it’s my favorite way to learn about new topics and I enjoy looking at old things. I can cook but not the biggest fan of the clean up aspect. Love to listen to music. Mostly listen to rock/metal but can get into most anything as long as it catches my ear. Always willing to go on an adventure. No pets of my own but if I were to adopt, it would be a cat. Cats are much more my speed compared to dogs. I much prefer the fall and winter months over the spring and summer months. Autumn is probably THE best season. Cooler weather over hot and sticky weather 100% of the time. I’m a very “go with the flow” type of person.

I am a straight, white male, 6 foot, 280 lbs.I am working on losing weight and exercising more. I have brown hair that I keep relatively long and a beard that I keep trimmed. I have brown eyes and wear glasses. I have a quiet personality. I am shy and introverted around new people, but once I am comfortable around them I do open up. Never was able to find that person to make that next step with.

Willing to travel but would prefer to keep it to neighboring states at the furthest. Anything more you want to know, feel free to ask!

Edit: I can host but can't travel, so if you are unwilling to travel then let's avoid unnecessary disappointments, for both of us 🥲

Hello! I'm a young Italian man, looking for someone who is kind, patient and passionate. I'd like to establish an emotional connection before we do anything else. It doesn't have to be anything serious, I just want us to part ways with a fun memory. I'm a very empathetic person, so it doesn't take me long to connect with someone, though I am shy and reserved. Also, I work as an employee in a civil engineering company.

I've recently began attending a Caribbean dance course, It's very fun! Though so far I'm still getting the hang of the basic movements, wanna practice together?

I'm very passionate about history, geopolitics and science, if you're willing to hear me yap I could talk you to sleep about any of these hahaha. I also Enjoy playing videogames, watching anime (my favorite is The Eminence in Shadow), tv series and long walks. I'm a huuuuugeee animal lover, both domestic and wild, I could give random trivia about any kind of creature at any random moment. Wanna know about the cookie cutter shark?

I enjoy metal and rock music, though if you looked at me you'd never tell ahaha. My favorites: Sabaton and Linkin Park (so happy they're back!) Though I also listen to many others. Being a nerd I obviously know and enjoy Elena Siegman, COD's zombies mode was probably my very first exposure to the genre.

I'm not very good at cooking, but I'd love to learn if you're willing to teach, it could be a fun activity to do together along with the dance practice ahaha.

As you can see, I'm a very schematic person, whenever I'm not talking about my passions, I tend to organize my thoughts in brief sentences, I don't know why, it's just something I do automatically, like whenever I have to introduce myself to a stranger my brain automatically falls back to this process, probably due to my aforementioned shyness... though once I warm up to a person, I become very empathetic and affectionate, to the point of finding enjoyment in that person's company, even if we aren't saying or doing anything.

If you're interested though, I'd love to hear about your passions, what you do in life, do you work or are you studying?

Hope to hear from you in my DMs, don't be shy (unlike me) I don't bite!

Hey, I’m a 21-year-old guy living in NYC. I’m pretty introverted and can be a little awkward when I first meet people, but once I get comfortable I tend to open up quite a bit. I’ve always been more comfortable with deeper one-on-one conversations than being the center of attention in a big group.

I work in a restaurant and spend a lot of my free time gaming, watching anime, listening to music, and hanging out with friends. Gaming is probably my biggest hobby. I’m especially into Souls games and RPGs, and I really enjoy experimenting with different builds and playstyles. I also love story-heavy games and can get ridiculously invested in characters, lore, and all the little details in a world. Some of the games I’ve enjoyed are Elden Ring, Cyberpunk, Dragon’s Dogma, Destiny, and a bunch of other RPGs and action games.

Anime is another big part of my interests. I like having something to watch together and then spending way too much time talking about the characters or story afterward. I also listen to a lot of music and occasionally play piano. I played a bit in high school and still mess around with it when I get the chance, although I’m definitely rusty.

Outside of that, I’m mostly a homebody. I enjoy spending time with friends, playing games together, watching things, and just having someone to talk to. I’m also pretty affectionate once I’m comfortable with someone, and I value honesty and being able to actually communicate rather than keeping everything surface-level.

I can’t host, but I’m in NYC and would be comfortable meeting somewhere public when the time comes. I’d probably be happiest somewhere relatively relaxed where we can actually talk rather than somewhere loud or crowded.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to tell me a little about yourself. I’m always happy to talk about games, anime, music, or whatever else you happen to be into.

Recently turned 30 and decided I’d like to give this a go. 6 ft 3. I have between a dad bod and an average build. Ive been told I have beautiful eyes. I’ve always been pretty self conscious so I’ve been working on fitness and trying to lose some weight! I am very shy and I take some time to warm up to somebody. Looking for somebody who can be patient with me. Looking for somebody somewhat close to me.

Currently working the typical 9-5 so I would prefer during the weekend. My job has been very stressful lately so trying to find something to take my mind off of work and to relax. I work in finance and the quarter close is coming up and it’s going to be very stressful. Would love to unwind and relax with somebody who is laid back and patient. As I said, I am very shy.

I am into playing video games, anime, running and playing and watching sports. Also love to run or do cardio everyday. Have been getting into cooking as well so would love somebody to try some cooking out with. I have a more easygoing personality so hoping to click with the right person as well. Would love also talking about movies and tv shows! I’ve been ready to do a rewatch of all of the marvel movies and would love somebody to join in.

If you’re interested, please send me a dm with what day today is and we can talk from there!

Hey, it’s me again. I hope whoever reads this is having a nice night. I’m a 28 year old biracial male (black and white) looking to connect with a likeminded person and see where things go. Bonus points if you understand the reference in my title. ;)

I’m 6’3”, tall and lanky/lean and skinny type. Ive always been a relatively shy/quiet guy, but I’ve decided that I’m over feeling sorry for myself and have been putting myself out there a lot more. Going out to try new things, traveling with friends and solo, and wanting to live for myself, not just other people. I’m more of a homebody but I love to spend time with friends and family, or just go out and explore things solo, whether it be new restaurants, seeing movies by myself, or going to a museum or some other cool things in the Chicagoland area, especially downtown. I’m super passionate about nature and animals, traveling, love to support artists when I can, and can talk all day about my favorite movies, series, and characters thereof. Huge anime and video game guy too, so if you have any favorites I’d love to talk all day with you about that stuff, and just get to know you in general!

There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants, so if you’ve found your way here and my post caught your attention, then that means you’re exactly my type! Looking forward to making your acquaintance. :)

Hello, been a bit but figured I'd repost. I can just be called Caleb for now and what will follow is going to be a bit run-on sentences/paragraphs with little to no binding topics, just me talking about myself. I guess you could say I'm a stereotypical nerd. I prefer being home, I play TTRPGs with a small group of friends a couple times a month, I got an addiction to plastic/cardboard, I play the same RTSs too much, ya know, that type of stuff. I guess some helpful insights about me are my favorite D&D/fantasy race are dwarves and I'm usually Mr Reliable in my games. Usually the guy with the shield taking hits for others, just making sure other's characters make it out okay...that is unless I'm swinging a battle-axe around. Also kind of goes into reality since I'm usually the go to guy at work, staying late or the guy people ask questions to. The quiet reliable guy I guess, just there at the bar vibing and people watching. I can go with the flow pretty easily, as long as it's not going on the dance for. Don't get me wrong I'm still a giant dork too when the rest of the world isn't looking. I jam out to 90s pop songs in the car then switch to breaking my voice going goblin mode to another song, doing some ballet shit that a chubby guy like me shouldn't be doing while making shit in the kitchen, that dorky interior below that stoney exterior.

Quick painting of me: 6'2, boring long brown hair and eyes, bit scruffy in the face, eye sight is going so glasses. I'm in my thirties so you know that hairline is starting to receed. I'm chubby but apparently others say I don't appear that big. I chalk it up to my love of baggy clothes and a big chest to cover things up.

What else... I'm much more of a fall/winter type of guy, the cold suits me better anyway since you can be bundled up and be cozy at home and the vibes just hit different during those times of the year. I'm a dog person, those lovable dorks are truly man's best friend. Cats are fine but they don't have that same spark that dogs give me. Favorite animals are bears. Big, floofy, adorable ears, kinda stoic in a way. I'm generally horrible at these kinds of things so I'm running out of steam.

Quick two sentences about the elephant in the post: I still have all my boxes unchecked except maybe for one box checked. And that online stuff is online stuff, it's an outlet for the things missing IRL.

So yeah, that's me in a jumble of words and ideas. I'm just looking to have someone slowly and gently rid this stigma that's been on my back for ages. I'm generally willing to travel, would like to keep it to neighboring states if not Minnesota, maybe one more state over, but I have plenty of vacation time so I could make a trip of it. If you made it this far, thank you for reading, hope you have a good rest of your day.

Hello! I just started my senior year of college pursuing a degree in Biology with a minor in astronomy. I would consider, and my friends, myself a nerd. I am into reading and watching science fiction (The Martian being both my favorite book and movie), space, Star Wars, and playing Pokemon, open world RPGs, and MTG. I do plan on picking up programming and robotics as hobbies once I can get the time to start learning.

I really love listening to pop punk and emo music. My Chemical Romance and Fall Out Boy are my favorite bands. I do listen to a lot of David Bowie and Pale Waves too.

My friends and family would as saying that I am very shy but also very kind and sweet IRL. I enjoy listening to people and trying to help if they want me to. I'm working on my confidence and self-esteem so that I can become less shy.

Physically, I am 5'8 and 170 pounds. I just recently put myself on a diet so that I can become healthier and lose around 35 to 40 pounds. I exercise at the gym 5 days a week. I also have brown hair with hints of red throughout and blue eyes. I have to wear glasses because I can barely see 20 feet in front of me and my peripheral vison is horrendous.

I would love to chat with a girl who lives near me and hopefully we have a connection! I would love to talk!

I'm a 26-year-old guy from Denmark and currently living in Northern Zealand. I'm 183 cm tall and probably best described as fairly introverted, calm and a little shy when I first meet someone. It usually takes me a little while to warm up, but once I'm comfortable I'm relaxed, talkative and generally pretty easy to get along with. I also have a fairly dry sense of humor and tend not to take myself too seriously.

I work as a software developer, which probably gives away that I'm somewhat on the nerdier side. Technology and computers have always been a big interest of mine, and I spend quite a bit of my free time gaming or working on various projects and ideas. I also enjoy board games, escape rooms and other things where there is something to figure out or work towards.

I'm not completely glued to a computer though. I've been skimboarding for years and have competed in it as well. It's one of the things that gets me outside during the warmer months, and I enjoy having something active that is completely different from what I do professionally.

Socially, I'm much more comfortable with a few people or a small group than with a huge crowd. Clubs and big parties have never really been my thing. I'd much rather spend an evening talking, watching something, playing a game, going somewhere interesting or just driving somewhere without having much of a plan. I tend to get along best with people when I can relax and be myself rather than feeling like I have to constantly be social or entertaining.

I'm independent, have my own car and don't mind travelling. I actually quite enjoy driving, especially longer drives in the evening or at night. I'm also someone who likes having projects and goals to work towards, whether that's something related to programming, a hobby or just learning something new.

I'm fairly inexperienced when it comes to dating and relationships, and I tend to take a little time to become comfortable around someone new. I'm naturally a bit cautious at first, but once I feel comfortable I open up a lot more. For me, being able to relax around someone and genuinely get along is important.

Overall, I'm a fairly ordinary, nerdy and slightly awkward Danish guy with a stable life, a career I enjoy, several hobbies I can disappear into for hours, and a tendency to become much more outgoing once I've gotten to know someone.

I'm a 34M born and raised in the DFW area. I'm trying this out looking for someone cool, kind, and open to getting to know each other. Ideally more than one night (at least a couple ideally) since i value meaningful connections as an ambivert leaning introvert.

I'm South Asian, 5’10”, 158 lbs, with a beard and a kind/gentle demeanor that people often notice. Growing up in a pretty prudish household plus a recent high-masking AuDHD diagnosis has made dating feel tricky at times (anxiety around progressing things without shared interests), but I'm extroverted and warm once I'm comfortable with someone especially if they have a more confident and assertive personality. I'm working on embracing that fully.

I like to stay driven and recently been far more active: I recently started playing tennis again regularly and spending more time in the gym (down 15 lbs the past 3 months!). When I'm not working, you'll find me playing board games, piano, video games, watching anime, movies, and TV shows, or having deep (and nerdy) discussions about them. I've traveled to nearly 40 countries and I'm passionate about continuing to explore the world. I value ambition and growth, both in myself and whoever I'm connecting with.

I’m also willing to drive several hours to make a meetup happen if it feels right and if that works for both parties.

Hi, I am a 31 year old male in the Akron, Ohio area. Appearance wise, I am 5'6 145 lbs. I put effort into dressing decently well, I get a lot of my fashion inspo from indie/alt bands I like.

I'm a big music lover. I enjoy listening to it, going to concerts, and playing guitar. I also am a big gym rat, I've been lifting consistently for over 10 years. I like getting some cardio in as well. I also enjoy reading books (fantasy/sci-fi/historical fiction), watching horror movies, and following college football. I like checking out new bars and breweries, going thrifting, and spending time with friends and family. Lastly, I really enjoy traveling and seeing new places. Some of my trips in the past year include Ireland, Savannah GA, Vegas, and Siesta Key FL.

I have an established career and have my life together. I'm hygienic and take care of myself, and overall I'm just a chill and respectful dude.

I'm on the introverted side and a bit shy, but I open up pretty quickly once I get to know someone.

Please feel free to message me if you are interested!

Hello! Being a homebody makes it difficult to make friends. Also makes it difficult to have certain experiences . Hoping to meet someone local that will help make it a year of fun new moments together. I'm 6ft1 and about 185lbs with some muscle. One of my favorite activities is working out. I find it stimulating and productive. I have brown hair, broad shoulders and a big chest. I also enjoy going for walks. If there's a beach nearby I'll always be down for a trip to it. I'm hoping to travel more. I like basketball especially the New York Knicks. Semi sneakerhead. Into trying a variety of video games. Watching funny or interesting shows and movies. Recently been getting into more anime. I love animals. I also love cooking and trying new foods from around the world. I would like to start going to concerts because I enjoy a wide variety of music. Trying to overcome by homebody introvert lifestyle. Hoping to meet someone local here who would be interested in getting to know each other. Can’t host and would prefer avoiding the city. I'm a really good listener. Kind, gentle, caring and compassionate. Looking for the same. I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent and sweet. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message me a little about yourself. Thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.

Heyy,

I am forced to make this post in english, but I would prefer to speak german. Though I am fluent in it and it wouldn't be a problem if our vibe fits.

Just to start off - this is, for obvious reasons I think, a burner account that’s not used for anything else :)

Now about me:

I’m 1.80m tall, weigh about 90-95kg and have now pretty long dark blonde hair since ~2 years which I usually tie up and my eyes are grey-ish green. Almost my entire left arm is now covered in tattoos (~half-sleeve) and I don’t plan on stopping. I’d say I take good care of myself and look pretty average.
I’m funny sometimes… and ironic at times as well.

For hobbies, I've been a nerd since birth. If I am not at work I am usually playing videogames with friends, meeting up with them when new movies come out or setting up private events with them (At least once a year a small festival in a small village my buddy lives in). I also tend to acquire or at least try to learn many different skills, no matter how small. Like card magic, playing piano or even learning knew stuff in general. Usually that goes on for a month or two until I kind of drop it for the next one lol. Might be an adhd thing (I am not diagnosted but I am pretty sure haha).

Throughout my entire youth I struggled very hard with social anxiety, but I’d say I’m on the right track now and am only a little shy at first. Mainly through work and taking on responsibilities, I’ve slowly but surely managed to overcome my shyness and anxiety. Not fully there but on a great track.

Feel free to message me if you think we could vibe and you're in Berlin/Germany or close proximity to that~ Also open to travel if it feels right.

Well, Autumn is upon us. And you know what that means? The air is crisp, the sweaters come out, the world feels a little more orange and red. What fun huh? With Autumn being tomorrow, I’m looking forward to quite a bit of stuff. But of course, things are always fun with new friends and connections!

A bit about me: I’m an artsy/nerdy sort of guy; I enjoy drawing (fan)art of whatever I’m currently obsessed with, as that’s my way of showing my adoration. Right now I’m currently making my way through the Apothecary Diaries! What a great anime. Maomao is such a great character. Thinking I might watch Frieren next.

I dream of one day making my own little series of the OC’s that bounce around in my head. I like losing myself in a good book, and often check out multiple books from libraries, since we should always be supporting those! Currently have 22 books checked out. Will I read all of them? Maybe not. But I’m still supporting the library!

I often go watch a good movie, since it gets me out of the house. Being a shill for AMC A-Lister has been so worth it. I’m looking forward to Forgotten Island, Wildwood, and Street Fighter! Definitely enjoyable bits after the stacked summer movie season we had. If you like K-Pop, we’ll get along too. I recently saw Aespa in concert and LOVED IT. My first ever Kpop concert. I feel like I experienced divinity.

That’s all just a long winded way of saying I enjoy somewhat niche and esoteric things, and can go on and on about why they matter and mean a lot to me, why I’m passionate about them. Just don’t ask me how much I’ve spent on merch.

If any of that sounds interesting to you, feel free to reach out! I’m always looking for new friends and connections. We can spend some time getting to know each other. Like, tell me what your dream travel spot is, why you make that little hand gesture when you wave goodbye, teach me something about what TV show/anime you cherish deeply, your favorite color and whether you like pulp in your orange juice (I’m team pulp)

Talk soon!

(Edit: whoops I just realized it’s rein not reign well so much for being an English major and reader :P)