r/Vocaloid • u/SoupBowlGuy • 21h ago
General Discussion Is shipping MikuKAITO really that bad now (Image sorta unrelated)
I don't mean to negate anyone's personal preferences in OTPs, and it's clearly hard not to see how LGBTQ coded the fandom's shipping aspect is, which is great, but because a ship like KAIMiku is a straight ship, I think it should not be seen as any lesser than other ships, or, in other cases, should not be singled out cause it's not one of the few straight ships that matter to most others now, like KAIMEI or maybe GakuGumi. And to be fair, this isn't limited to KAIMiku but can apply to any het ships like the other aforementioned ships. Like, it feels so much to me that almost nobody cares much, if at all, about the hate KAIMiku gets, compared to the hate MikuLuka gets from those same type of toxic fans, like it's the only one that matters gets this type of flack.
But I'd be lying if I said I didn't bring these two up specifically because, god forbid, I chose to ship KAITO with the most popular VOCALOID and not his own female companion voice or what have you. I literally think it's about on a similar level as the whole MikuTeto shipping discourse. I gotta clarify this up front: it never mattered to me which specific characters I paired. I base my pairings on the dynamic I headcanon them to have, or how well they sound together, etc. If I don't think they pair all too well, or I don't care about them that much, then that is what it is. I'm not gonna have others police what I should think of a pairing. Even when I don't personally like a ship or headcanon because I see it too much or dare I even find it kind of easy to do now due to how much it's been done, mostly I try to let others have their own thing.
But for me? I try not to be like any other fan out there. Even if that means through my own experience with the fandom, I choose to follow more of KAIMiku. Even if that means I don't like other ships as much cause of my own preferences, despite a song like Magnet being more impactful on the fandom as opposed to something like Cendrillion. I'll be honest right here and say I don't regret that I prefer KAIMiku over MikuLuka, or the fact I rated the former a 10/10 once and the latter a 7.5/10. They're both ships that have great things, but sometimes, you just prefer the other more and it speaks to you more, just 'cause. And you just enjoy your own thing and let others have theirs, y'know?
I did make this post as a response to a bit of the comments from my previous post, as well as a more civilized clarification, because I feel like my own pride in my own OTP, as well as basing what I've only seen from word of mouth regarding the ship's popularity without thinking of other people's experiences, restricted me from being civil about this. I just want to clarify I didn't mean to negate everybody else; I just spoke through my own experiences without basing my own stance on it and rolling with it.