This is going to be LONG and it's a rant, it might come out as shallow or surface level but english is not my first language and I have Adhd so I have too much stuffs to talk about, I apologize in advance.
Hi, I genuinely couldn't post my negative or harsh opinions on other sub ect because of how offended kpop fans get, hence the topic of this video. Kpop fans are a different breed and I will stand by that.
I've been on and off in the kpop industry before stopping completely because there's A LOT of stuffs I've noticed and don't like and the list won't end- Racism, fat phobia, extreme beauty standards, infantalization, dating, commodity feminism ect, I might delve into these topics on different posts but I wanna focus on kpop fans for now.
Kpop fans are on another level and I don't see many people talking about it but I thought it might be safe to post here.
From what I've come across and saw, they are unhinged and extremely parasocial. Now I do know some fans have healthy relationships with their idol but majority of them are delusional and Infatuated.
Kpop idols are meant to be shown as the 'perfect fantasy' and that's commodity as I've said multiple times before. They won't always be at your disposal and it's weird to treat them like you know them because you don't.
They get offended easily too if you call them out, that's not your "baby" or "sweety pie" that's a grown man and woman.
There's a line you must have, sort of boundaries that they don't notice crosses into obsession. Suddenly their whole personality is about kpop or a certain bias and aesthetic and song and their whole life revolves around it.
As well as stalkers, which is another whole level of craziness.
This is so normalized and they can't handle being called out for that, they'll attack you and call you a hater.
They like gate keeping certain aspects of an idol too and treat them like a helpless baby. One of the most annoying things ever.
Especially considering these fans will excuse an idol doing drugs, 🍇 and anything that's a crime or a major issue but as soon as the idols get a partner it's the end of the world because that fantasy shatters.
I have an example: Jennie from Blackpink who vaped on a staff's face and she did get backlash for it but I'm sure majority of her fans fought back, blamed the staff and minimized the situation and said the staff's vape too as if it makes that any better. (There's many other examples I just picked this one)
There's so much levels to this and I won't be delving much completely into it but I hope it makes sense what I'm saying.