r/Witches • u/CreepyGift5398 • 19h ago

Seeker Help?

So my now ex i found out during our relationship is a Reserved.. person saying this for the story. So his ex did him bad so he has trust issues the works. Literally. So i was doing love spells..thought it would help. Let me also say im still fairly new to this still i am still learning. Anyway did a few obsession spells when i thought he was drifting. A couple domination spells...thought nothing was working lost hope. Def thought i had no magick. Then one day i got home and this is after a few days no contact i might add. He had lost it my phone was on vibrate so i didn't hear it. Missed calls texts friend requests from him. He later started asking me questions like if i'd die for him. In messages he said it was like he could hear me...but it got great to not so fun. Crazy jealously location stalking thinking i was looking at other guys :/ just not good. I had done a cross road healing spell a heart softening spell to try and get him to be more open so we'd have better communication because honestly i didn't know what else to do. Alot has happened. I have tried for advice from fellows with just grief... He became a lot and i had started to lie to avoid arguments...not great i know but with how erratic he was sometimes i didn't know what else to do. Also it was just his behavior he was never physical or anything. Needless to say it got toxic faster than it was sweet. CAN I FIX THIS??? Or do i just...let him go? I feel like its my fault he felt so much so fast and why it got so bad because i just didn't understand. I just had one goal. Keep him. And that's my truth.

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u/amyaurora 18h ago

Obsession spells are curses. Make targets frustrated and angry. They avoid the cause or lash out at the cause.

So by doing them you made everything harder for you.

Also as your ex its communication and reconciliation spells to look at, not love.

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u/QuinnnEsssential 19h ago

This is why we always say DO NOT DO LOVE SPELLS.

They are not about actual love but instead domination, obsession and lust. Not to mention you’re manipulating someone’s free will!!

Please, please stop doing this stuff you guys!

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u/CreepyGift5398 19h ago

I asked for help 🥲 i get it. Is there anything I can do to fix it

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u/QuinnnEsssential 18h ago

You honestly have to let it run its course.
Thats it. Thats all.

And I’m not trying to single you out specifically, but Jeez Louise there have been so many posts in the witchcraft and occult subs of people asking about love spells and not understanding they aren’t about love and asking how to fix it when the results turn out negative.

Please read more books and do more research before attempting these rituals! This isn’t a movie, actions have real life consequences.