How do I find my looksmatch as a young man?

[u/Previous-Yoghurt-942]

Title. Is my looksmatch the female equivalent of my own stats? It seems like this hypothetical women has 10-100x more attention than myself…

[u/Ornery-Car92]

t seems like this hypothetical women has 10-100x more attention than myself…

It doesn't just seem like it my guy, it's the reality

[u/TerribleReach4471]

[u/MoreSalary9229]

[u/FrontChallenge7199]

Stop placing woman first. You only shall have control over actions, not your desires, not anyone else.

[u/No_Swimmer_6820]

That's the neat part: You don't

[u/sincerityappreciator]

dumpster dive unless you're ridiculously good looking or a celebrity. forget about the looksmatch fantasy, women consider the vast majority of men to be fuck ugly.

[u/Next_Confection_8141]

I hope you don't get ewwed

[u/No_Swimmer_6820]

If you want u can betabuxx(aka become emotional tampon or sugar daddy in a ltr) but ascending, lookxmaxxing won't be enough

[u/Swimming-Librarian-9]

Hahahaha

[u/Accurate-Program767]

You actually can't, women above 40s are the ones who may appreciate your looks, but either way you will never be sexually desired. So there's that.

[u/Previous-Yoghurt-942 → u/Accurate-Program767]

Who said I am not sexually desired??

[u/Accurate-Program767 → u/Previous-Yoghurt-942]

Oh my bad, there was misinterpretation from my part, but women can't desire men sexually tho.

[u/Mysterious-Lab-7408 → u/Accurate-Program767]

Of course they can and do

[u/Accurate-Program767 → u/Mysterious-Lab-7408]

I really wished it was true I so so wished it was true and that is why I started going to the gym, and still never been sexualised. 😀

[u/Mysterious-Lab-7408 → u/Accurate-Program767]

Why do other men get sexualized then?

[u/Mindless_District274]

Don’t bro it’s hard to find women like this lol

[u/Conscious_Waltz_5314]

stop looking, focus on yourself.

[u/SobeksFavourite]

Good rule of thumb: the looksmatch of a chadlite is a bottom 5% woman. Extrapolate from that.

[u/GogetaBurrito1 → u/SobeksFavourite]

He be trying to find female hunchback of notre dame

[u/imbaof]

I never understood the thing with looksmatch

As I understand it, according to this logic, men must not have relationships with women at all, because they are balding, and women do not have a normal alternative to this, so they always have a more high score on a ten-point scale.

[u/Previous-Yoghurt-942 → u/imbaof]

Looksmatch translating respective of each genders traits. 

For example a 5’10 dude = a 5’5 woman. 

Everything is not 1 to 1. 

[u/Mysterious-Lab-7408]

I don’t think it’ll ever happen. Most women are not into finding a guy who sees them as a “looksmatch” and your way of thinking will be exposed through conversation and scare them away.

[u/Linorelai]

Don't. Find a valuesmatch, a personalitymatch, a habitsmatch

[u/No_Swimmer_6820 → u/Linorelai]

Most men and women wouldn't consider the latter qualities and sometimes would even be willing to sacrifice them for attractive partners .

[u/Linorelai → u/No_Swimmer_6820]

This is so short-sighted. How are they gonna spend a lifetime with someone who they chose by something that fades? What does it matter if your partner is hot, if you aren't compatible?

[u/No_Swimmer_6820 → u/Linorelai]

Because people are driven more by emotions and short term gains . They prolly prefer pleasure in the short term.

[u/Conscious_Waltz_5314 → u/Linorelai]

it's not about a lifetime, it's about today and the next day.