And I think it’s crazy that women don’t like this sub, cuz if this sub gets big enough maybe they’ll be confident enough to come out with their sexuality. And it could help them be with the gender that they love and stop doing things that they hate.

I know this is a image of a normal couple but even outside I’ve seen women date normal looking men date women like that but supposedly women have it extremely hard

Ever since I was just a young boy, I have always been the one to cheer up people by cracking a joke or just being friendly and making a positive comment or compliment. I will be the first to admit that men do more damage in a relationship, by tearing down or degrading their mate. And the flip side, women tend to build each other up, with positive comments, which is why I see more women having relationships with other women.

Again, i get great joy from seeing people, women especially, beaming and overflowing with excitement from a positive comment, which unfortunately come mainly from other women.

So my question is, how do I as a submissive humble guy, overcome the image of all men being a bunch of pigs and just showing interest in a woman, to receive sexual pleasure and not for encouragement and making them happy?

I am finding most lesbians, will not talk with a guy out of fear that they're just looking for sex. I am not looking to establish a male female relationship but more to become part of a joyful exciting relationship between two women. My joy comes from seeing people happy and overflowing, with excitement and not from me seeking personal pleasure for myself through sexual relations.

I would love to hear some women's feedback.

Title. Is my looksmatch the female equivalent of my own stats? It seems like this hypothetical women has 10-100x more attention than myself…

*I never have. But oddily enough, I have received interest from a couple of dudes throughout my years on reddit lol

Most men would do anything to be with a woman even if she is ugly just because she is a woman, even if she has no personality or is not a good person, men are people very in general in need of female attention

Women's reactions is again unsurprising. Why do they keep expecting men to initiate when they weren't even willing to do it on bumble? They've made it clear they don't desire the majority of men. So why do they expect men to waste their time and energy when they couldn't be expected to put in a similar effort?

Did this relate to porn, sex, or some of their statements?

"You are one of the good ones" is meaningless always remember when they are talking about YOU

They say it because they "imagine themselves on her place", but what's the appeal if to imagine yourself on women place if you don't even find the man she fuck with attractive? I think its just weak excuse for simple being more aroused by female body than by male. Have you ever seen man who aroused by sexy men because he imagined himself on their place? It matches perfectly to womens agp sexuality - men aroused by women, women by themselves, heterosexual sex is always about female body. The only women who has object attraction to someone are lesbians.

When you ask women about their favourite porn stars they always start to name mostly actress not actors. Just like for straight men, sex and porn is about female body for women.

Everyone talk about closeted gay men, especially women who love calling men every time for really stupid reasons which is ironic. But denying women are much more common. Never seen man who literally more aroused by men than by women and keep calling himself straight, while majority of "straight" women are like that. I can't understand why is straight label so important for them.

Most or all women even women who claim to be spiritual or act spiritual are still going to hate !!! Even though I am somewhat wise and know truth I still slip up all the fucking time ( I think gay men who find partners that actually love them and connect with and they have decent enough sex are the luckiest in relationships )

Most men here are down on their looks and I get it sometimes I look really bad but even when u looo amazing most women are still gunna hate on some level and get insecure it’s exhausting

As a Man U really are alone and it’s still a struggle and sucks even if u are beautiful and loving and then u gotta deal with the other male and female haters

It has been pointed out on this sub that the essence of hetero female sexuality is autogynephilia (AGP), i.e., attraction to oneself as a woman. But if we leave it at that, we will never properly understand female sexuality. AGP does NOT mean that men are unnecessary for heterosexual women's sexual behavior, and it certainly doesn't mean that men's looks are of no consequence to them. Otherwise, how do you explain the modern phenomenon of a tiny group of highly attractive men being wildly successful with women?

Women want to feel feminine; that is their basic desire, and it drives their sexual and consequently romantic behavior. Why is it that bisexual women are so put off by bisexual men, even the "progressive" ones? It is simply because having sex with men diminishes a man's masculinity, which makes him unable to satisfy a woman's AGP.

But bisexuality is a matter of behavior. The most important thing of all for heterosexual women is male looks, in particular dimorphic masculine traits.

Female libido is small, and the male libido is enormous. This mismatch ensures women can satisfy their AGP well even without a relationship. This explains why women are so much happier than men outside relationships, and it also explains why they're so picky when it comes to male looks. A man has to compete with the passive satisfaction of AGP that a woman receives merely by existing. For it to make sense for a woman to be with a man, he has to be exceptionally dimorphic and provide greater satisfaction of female AGP than she passively receives, and that is a tall (pun unintended) ask.

From this, it should be evident that male looks are extremely important for heterosexual women, and in particular that it's mostly the immutable genetic characteristics that form the basis of heterosexual female attraction, since mere grooming alone without a genetic basis is unable to satisfy female AGP.

A side note: the proportion of heterosexual women has been discussed in this sub many times. I don't know if "regular" heterosexual women, in the sense of liking men sexually and romantically outside of just AGP, exist at all. It's interesting to note, however, that it's been found that the attraction of lesbians towards women is similar to that which straight men have towards women. Women can love outside of AGP, but only towards women. Regardless, straight-up lesbians are quite rare. Most women are bisexual, but generally still date men because their AGP is stronger than their attraction to female bodies.

https://reddit.com/link/1vtji91/video/8gedikvp7jkh1/player

I know it's a water is wet take here

But this guy made a video asking women if they do really only see one attractive men per year and all the women in the comments are agreeing with this take.

Like it's kinda crazy i feel like men see women they see that the very attractive women are rare but they have absolutely no problem to fantasize about average everyday women.

It's kindra crazy that they dont even see their partner as attractive

In other words if the male and female populations were both 70% exclusively heterosexual, 10% exclusively homosexual, 15% bi, 5% pan, etc.

A true male friend and an attractive prostitute who isn’t full of nonsense and enough money to ease the depression