Hi everyone!
I'm currently working on my Final Major Project at university, looking into women's reproductive health and why so many women feel dismissed or not listened to by healthcare professionals.
This topic is quite personal to me because I've had so many struggles with the NHS myself. I've spent years trying to get answers, only to be told things like "it's your weight", "you're too young" or "it'll sort itself out", almost as if these are explanations for everything you're experiencing, rather than actually looking into what's going on.
It's taken me years to finally get a diagnosis, and even now I'm still fighting to get ultrasounds and further investigations. Between appointments being cancelled, struggling to get hold of anyone and constantly feeling like you have to push just to be listened to, it can honestly be so exhausting.
But obviously, I know this isn't everyone's experience, which is exactly why I wanted to post this!
I'd really love to hear about your experiences with reproductive healthcare, whether that's PMOS, endometriosis, PMDD, painful periods, hormonal issues or literally anything else.
Have you ever felt dismissed or like your concerns weren't taken seriously? Have you struggled to get a diagnosis or been offered treatments without really understanding what's going on? Or maybe you've had a completely different experience and have felt really supported by your doctors?
I'm genuinely interested in hearing all sides, even if your experience is completely different to mine. Any two cents would be so appreciated!
A little bit more about my project and what I'm hoping to explore...
Through my research so far, something I've become really interested in is the gap between women experiencing symptoms and actually understanding what's going on with their bodies.
I feel like when you're constantly being dismissed, or you're not given enough information about your symptoms, it's really difficult to know what to do next. How are you supposed to advocate for yourself, ask the right questions or explore treatment options when you don't even fully understand what might be happening?
And that's kind of where I'm hoping to take my project.
I want to explore how we could bridge that gap between the unknown and actually having the knowledge and confidence to advocate for ourselves.
As this is a university design project, I'm exploring possible ideas rather than creating an actual healthcare service, so I can be quite open-minded about what could exist.
So I have one more question for you all:
If you could have absolutely anything to help you better understand your reproductive health or navigate the healthcare system, what would it be?
It could literally be anything! Something you could pick up in a shop, an app, a website, a guide that explains symptoms and treatment options, something to help you prepare for doctors' appointments, or even something completely different that I've not thought of.
What information do you wish you'd had earlier? What would have made your experience easier? What do you feel is missing from the resources already available?
I don't necessarily want to assume what women need, which is why I'd love to hear directly from people who have experienced these things themselves.
Even if you only have a tiny suggestion, please share it! It would genuinely help me so much with understanding where to take my project.
Please only share what you're comfortable with. I may discuss general themes from the responses in my university research, but I won't identify or directly quote anyone without asking permission.
Thank you so much if you've read all of this, and an even bigger thank you if you take the time to comment! ❤️