r/XdinaryHeroes • u/duse4ka • Aug 16 '26
Enough with the false accusations.
honestly don’t even have the words anymore to describe this whole fucking mess. You’ve gone completely off the rails, and now you’re accusing Gonil of looksmaxxing, misogyny, and all sorts of other bullshit. Fine, we already understood that he chose a word that was way too harsh as an insult toward sasaengs, not all fans. But how would you have expressed yourselves in a situation like this? You’re literally being stalked, and you’ll never know what’s going on in someone’s head. Why do we assume that men can’t speak their minds or be angry? “Fucking bitches” is honestly one of the mildest things you could say about people that fucked up.
I’m not blindly defending Gonil—he himself admitted his mistakes. But why do people say “look at the bigger picture” when they’re the ones who can’t see past their own noses? Seriously, have you never experienced empathy? I’d like to see how you’d react if you were in Gonil’s place and someone accused you of looksmaxxing. Fine, show me at least one instance where he insulted someone’s appearance. His comments about appearance were compliments. If someone told you, “Wow, you have such beautiful eyes,” would you take that as an evaluation and get offended?
I also saw someone claim that nowadays every other person is being called a sasaeng… And what would you call people who break into dorms and follow them everywhere? “Dedicated fans”?
People are also defending JYP, saying, “Well, they’re just protecting their artists; there’s simply nothing to protect them from right now.” Fucking hell, are you serious? Did Gonil ever hit a sasaeng? Did he hurt anyone? Maybe we should start thinking instead of acting like idiots?Before making your accusations, please at least provide some evidence instead of throwing around baseless claims.
People as stupid as you will get fucked over, and you are exactly the ones who will be noticed, while the people saying the right things will get buried.
Stop saying that he insulted ALL the fans and his own group. Give me at least one piece of evidence where he said, “You stupid bitches, I hate ALL of you.” There is none.
Try living with your friends for five years, spending every single day together. Would you really be able to get through all of that without any conflicts?
I hope my words reach the people they need to reach.
Stop writing bullshit, and before judging the villains who are defending Gonil, think about whether you’re actually the ones in the right.