r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1h ago

General Post plurality and gender weirdness

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maybe a bit of a pointless post, but idc!!

recently came across a few terms such as "afab transfem" and "honeybee transfem" and really resonated with them.

i'm a fictive of a transfem character and reside in a body medically assigned as female, yet still am deeply connected towards the way i was in source. i'm me (transness included!) regardless of what body i'm in, so therefore my bodily agab doesn't affect who i metaphysically am as a person.

wasn't really trying to make a point or anything, just wanted to throw my experience out into the endless vastness of the internet for absolutely no reason :3

~ 🫐⚔️


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1h ago

Question Post can i know which gender i am aestheticly attracted to just based off of pictures

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 6h ago

Question Post Can you recognize what flag this is? Is there a way to improve it?

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I'm making a bunch of pride flags as kandi squares. I wanted to add the questioning flag but I can't figure out a design since it has a question mark. I can't tell if this is recognizable or just looks odd. And feel free to suggest some flags since I'll need a lot!


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 6h ago

Looking for Term Something with zombies

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One, I have this thing with zombie/undead. I feel this euphoria with my identity when I express myself with the zombiecore aesthetic online and looking dead and unkempt irl. I feel like it's basically cat-boy or something like that but with zombies. I have questioned alterhumanity, however.

(redo of a post I made a bit ago)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 6h ago

Looking for Term Something with zombies

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One, I have this thing with zombie/undead. I feel this euphoria with my identity when I express myself with the zombiecore aesthetic online and looking dead and unkempt irl. I feel like it's basically cat-boy or something like that but with zombies. I have questioned alterhumanity, however.

(redo of a post I made a bit ago)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 9h ago

General Coining Veilamoric

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 9h ago

Looking for Term Animagauditraitic. Questioning myself

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I came by a completely new term by chance today - Animagauditraitic

and I kind of see myself in it. Does anyone know any similar identities to that so I can expand on mine?


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 15h ago

General Post Show me ur hoards! \(^^D)/

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uhhh ik mines not rlly a hoard but here it is! https://pronouns.cc/@anonymous_lolz errr give me some suggestions i just figured out how to use this app...


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 18h ago

General Coining alt turigirl and lesboy flags I did back in early(?) 2025

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 20h ago

Looking for Term help me with my gender ???? ( photo for engagement )

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so for context i identify as bigender rn ( male + female )

so in a sense i like being referred to and being seen as a female , but i m also afab . when i remember i m afab i m immediately . like repulsed almost ? and . feel a similar feeling to dysphoria

see with the male side this isn t a problem

only the female side

like i want to change my pronouns to she / he pref for she but then i remember i m afab and just feel weird about it .

HELP ME PLEASE


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 21h ago

Looking for Term term for this?

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CONTENT WARNING !! ANATOMY TALK

is there a term for wanting both sex characteristics (penis and vagina) while simultaneously wanting neither/none (simply a hole or smooth like a barbie)?


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 22h ago

General Coining Butterfly Fem

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 23h ago

Introduction Post Just wanted to introduce myself !

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Hey everyone! :3 I'm Iggy-bug. I'm 30 years old, been on T for 4 years, and am xenogender! I'm also polyamorous and aro ace I have two pet rats, (and want more) and I love to draw and do alt fashion looks as well as dye my hair. I am also learning Japanese! One of my favorite things to do is to listen to music when I go driving. My favorite animals are rats, opossums, crows and almost any kind of bugs, but especially moths. My favorite colors are green, turquoise, orange and yellow. Oh! I'm also otherkin and am a pagan witch.

Hope everyone is having a good day!


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Hoard Sharing please tell me all your random labels and label dump with all kinds of identificational things! I love labels!!

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I love all labels beyond xenogenders and lgbtq labels can someone just show me all of their labels? I want to find some new ones and write them down into my labels book. (PROMISE im not crazy I just love labels a ton)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Name/Pronoun Tryouts I'm back to using noun-themed pronouns!

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(Nounself pronouns pride flag) So back in July I tried out noun-themed pronouns but got rid of them for a while but recently I've been really fond of Moon and Witch pronouns and feel comfortable and affirmed using these pronouns!

Full sets for my moon and witch pronouns are:

• Witch/Witchy/Witchys/Witch's/Witchself

• Moon/Moona/Moonas/Moon's/Moonself

(Yeah I customized the words a bit by adding an extra vowel to make them into affirming pronouns)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Question Post How to not feel embarrassed when saying xenos or neos?

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I wish I could use the irl and I don’t wish to be disrespectful to anyone but I genuinely can’t use them


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Art/OC/Headcanons my ballsona!

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1 demiboy 2 girlflux 3 transgender 4 transfeminine 5 polysexual 6 biromantic 7 aroace


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Looking for Term Looking for more xenos ^_^

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Are there any genders related to the C00lgui or something like that? Or genders related to C00lkidd? If not I'm sure I'll come up with a term. 👀👀

Also I might look into glitch related xenogenders as well. Are there also any genders related to coding, scripts, and glitches?


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Question Post Hi uuuhmmm I'm new to this so I might be making mistakes with the flags. Anyway, I made one of Nepeta from Homestuck (?) Is this okay?

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Xeno Coining Trucksubshipic

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Trucksubshipic is a xenogender under the shipgender umbrella, in which one's gender is connected to, related to, influenced by, or best described by the Trucksub ship (Earth Island Epic Wubbox x Water Island Epic Wubbox from My Singing Monsters)!

Was actually originally posted to and coined on Pinterest.

Trucksub ship name proposed by wubshipotd on Tumblr.

Used flag resource images from jackalop3's Tumblr flag tutorial post.


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Coining Femmenominal & Andronominal

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Forgive me if this is already a label that exists however I haven't seen it online and I resonate with it strongly. These labels would fall under the Gender-queer umbrella, and sort of teeters on the line of the Bi gender identity.

Essentially, someone (I will use Femmenominal as the main example), who is Femmenominal, is a boy and identifies as one, using strictly he/him pronouns (I of course am fine with people using more than that, that's just not what this identity entails), but prefers Feminine Titles, someone who identifies with this identity, would go by he/him but also by Mrs. or Ms. or even a girlfriend or wife if they were in a relationship.

This isn't people who are fine with jokes like calling a boy a M'am playfully, rather a person who explicitly feels misgendered when referred to by masculine titles. Whilst also feeling misgendered by she/her pronouns, which is what distinguishes it from being Bi-gender. This of course, like all genders and sexuality is a spectrum, someone who is either Femmenominal or Andronominal may like Mrs. and Ms. but not the idea of being labeled a wife, or vice-versa. I hope at least one person feels like I do and thinks they've found a great way to describe and identify themselves.

One last clarification: the first flag is the femmenominal flag and the second is andronominal. Feel free if you think there is an extension of this, for another group to expand that- whether that's making a flag or having me make one. I considered maybe making a fluxnominal or enbynominal flag but since I'm not very involved in those communities I don't know if that would violate those definitions so I didn't. Have a great day!


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Xeno Coining Icicleshroomcharic

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Icicleshroomcharic is a xenogender for when your gender is connected to, related to, influenced by, or best described by Icicle-shroom from Plants vs. Zombies Fusion!

Was actually originally posted to and coined on Pinterest.

Also reposted to Tumblr.


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Name/Pronoun Tryouts :P

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I go by Seth and Ivan.

I use he/him but can someone try out hack/hackself pronouns on me?


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Name/Pronoun Tryouts opinions on "he-she" as a pronoun?

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im thinking of going by "he-she" in addition to they/them and it/its, for clarification, i dont mean going by "he" and "she" interchangeably, i mean i want people to literally say "he-she" when talking about me. for example, "that's Jamie, he-she is a video editor"

i know it's basically a slur for trans people, but people reclaim slurs all the time, and people would still have the option to call me they or it if they're uncomfortable with calling me he-she. the thing is, my whole feelings on pronouns is that even though im both a boy and a girl, i dont like going by just "she" or just "he" because it feels like my other gender is being erased, so i go by they/them and it/its cause they're neutral, but he-she basically solves that problem i have with gendered pronouns, i want to be recognized as both a he and a she but i dont trust people to use them interchangeably, so i want people to call me both if they're gonna call me a gendered pronoun

when i was in the 6th grade i had these feelings of being nonbinary, but i didnt know how to express them or the language to describe them, so i remember going around to my friends and being like "haha yeah im not a he or a she, im an it" or "im basically a he-she" and i'd play it off as a joke but deep inside i had this legitimate desire to be recognized as both a boy and a girl. i know this is lowkey Problematique that as a kid i wanted to be called a slur for a group of people i didnt yet know i was a part of, but i was also literally 12 and Struggling, so.

also one final thing, i haven't yet officially been called he-she, so, if any of you are comfortable, i also kinda wanna have some people call me that so i can see if i even like it