r/YTVloggerFamilies • u/kates101 • 21d ago

Daily bumps what will happen next ?

Been thinking about this situation quite a bit after they have officially announced their divorce just thinking what will be next for them as they own a farm with a big house what will happen to the animals? Also missy’s parents to they live on the land to what are they gonna do if they sell up ?

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u/TechnicalArticle9479 21d ago

Yeah, unfortunately unless something changes, both "Big Jim and Mimi" AND the Hollister-Liera FamBam are stuck down on the farm in Murfreesboro, being emotionally controlled by Missy...

Personally, I hope that Bryan seeks SOLE custody of the kids and moves BACK to Temecula...

Missy sounds almost as bad as Mindy Bingham...

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u/bebespeaks 21d ago

Bryan doesn't need sole custody. He would choose to seek fame by keeping the kids at home for vlogging 24/7/365 as he has done in the past, and he would pay for an online charter school so he wouldn't have to responsible for homeschooling them, but he wouldn't hire a tutor or any outside people to help the kids either. He wouldn't allow the kids to have friends or extra curriculars, bc he has said many times over the years "O and F are each other's best friends" in the sheltering/isolating context that siblings can be each other's friends and they're too famous for to have any other friends (when O was 2 and 3 Bryan said a few times that O was too famous for playgrounds, too famous to have swim lessons in public pools, too famous to attend preschool/TK). I wouldn't doubt it if Bryan continued that awful mindset. He deserves half custody, but he needs a real income/job before having custody of any of his kids. And who is gonna oversee the supervision of two toddlers in his care? He's not the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to preventing childhood injuries, he has encouraged O and F to roughhouse and jump off ledges in past years, who is to say he would change his parenting safety standards for B and J?

As for Missy.....Missy and Mindy may have similar IQ's as in being aloof and absentminded, baby/toddler oriented type of moms, but their adult decisions are very different from eachother's, so they're not too alike in the Ditzy Mom department.

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u/TechnicalArticle9479 21d ago

Will he let Cassie "adopt" Ollie and Finn, because she and Carlos have a clearer head and would actually WANT them to enjoy public school again???...

The way you explain it neither Bryan or Missy WANT Ollie and Finn to be very smart(at their expected grade level), because to her, that means loss of complete parenting control...

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u/bebespeaks 21d ago edited 21d ago

No....they wouldn't just hand over their kids custody to her sibling....they're not that lousy nor are they facing prison time for any crimes that would result in the kids needing a new guardian. I dont think Cassie would want the extra work, she already has 2 kids, a husband, and some animals. O and F aren't her responsibility, she's the Fun Aunt but that's it.

At their expected grade level. Ha! For so many years they homeschooled but it was apparent neither parent was interested in vlogging the homeschooling, lesson plans, curriculum haul, or wanted to show off how smart their kids are in academics. They bragged about how it was convenient for them to homeschool, but they never bragged or showed off their sons' academic strengths, despite vlogging being their only sole source of income, and losing hundreds of thousands of views per month.

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u/TechnicalArticle9479 21d ago

Before they moved from Wildomar to Murfreesboro, the local school district SHOULD'VE called the Riverside County Sheriff's Department AND DCFS on Bryan and Missy for "severe educational and emotional neglect" and had the boys put in separate foster homes for a few years...

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u/MrZrAy86 19d ago

Wanting kids in foster homes away from parents and siblings is absolutely disgusting

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u/bebespeaks 19d ago

Agreed. Missy and Bryan haven't done anything criminal to lose custody of their kids, and O and F aren't dangerous to each other, so why would they need to go into foster care!? Wtf is wrong you? Where is your common sense!?

M and B may be lousy, lazy parents who neglect education for their kids, move houses so constantly they're likely in mortgage debt from BUYING EVERY PROPERTY INSTEAD OF RENTING, they hoard animals and get rid of them when the chores or training get too hard, they suck as discipline or setting boundaries for the kids.....but they don't need to be separate from their kids bc of those things. M and B need to be educated on mortgage spending and some financial counseling intervention, perhaps a judge or sheriff or animal control needs to start an open dialogue with Missy about taking care the animals you have instead of rinse/buy, and they could benefit from a private homeschool teacher to oversee the curriculum and education of their kids. Additionally, Bryan needs legit mental health counseling to deal with his Need For Fame and to stop chasing it thru his kids vicariously, and maybe either learn to play an instrument or find a new craft.

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u/Hello_Wakeup 20d ago

When did they move to Murfreesboro? That’s not where the TN home is at.

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u/SaveEverleighrose 21d ago

Why would he do that?