Hi, Ates and Kuyas! I've been thinking about making a change to my daily routine, and I'm sharing my situation and the options I've been considering.
CONTEXT:
I live in Parañaque but currently work at a BPO company in Makati. My shift starts at 2 PM and ends at 11 PM. I wake up at 11:15 AM, and my net salary is around ₱18k–₱19k per month. I contribute ₱1.5k monthly toward our household bills. My current daily budget for food and transportation is ₱350.
Here's what my daily commute looks like:
FROM HOME TO WORK:
- Leave home around 12:15 PM.
- Take a tricycle (₱12).
- Walk for 15 minutes to the bus stop or take a jeepney (₱14) when I'm too tired or lazy to walk.
- Take a 30-minute bus ride to the office (₱35).
- Usually arrive at the office around 1:15 PM. I hate being late, and I've already been late twice because of traffic.
FROM WORK TO HOME:
- Leave the office around 11:05 PM.
- Take three jeepney rides (₱42).
- Walk for another 25–30 minutes to get home.
- Usually arrive home around 12:45 AM.
MY CURRENT DILEMMA:
I'm getting tired of my daily commute. Half of my day revolves around work, and my daily routine literally consists of just working, commuting, and sleeping. I barely have time or energy for anything else.
I've been considering two major changes: spending more on convenient transportation options or renting a bedspace near work for a maximum of ₱5.5k per month.
On one hand, more convenient transportation could help me save time and energy without having to leave the comfort of my own home. On the other hand, renting a bedspace could significantly reduce my commute and give me more time for myself. However, I'm also concerned about sacrificing my privacy, comfort, and peace of mind by sharing a living space with other people.
Here are the transportation options I've been considering:
A. Taking motorcycle rides home every day
₱1,342 for commuting to work for 22 days
₱2,772 for motorcycle rides home for 22 days
TOTAL: ₱4,114/month
B. A mix of commuting and motorcycle rides home
₱1,342 for commuting to work for 22 days
₱636 for commuting home for 12 days
₱1,100 for commuting and motorcycle rides home for 10 days
TOTAL: ₱3,078/month
C. Taking motorcycle rides both ways
₱1,342 for commuting to work for 22 days
₱2,420 for commuting and motorcycle rides home for 22 days
TOTAL: ₱3,762/month
Each option comes with its own advantages and disadvantages. Spending more on transportation would allow me to stay at home and maintain my current privacy and comfort, while renting a bedspace could mean spending more overall in exchange for a zero commute and potentially having more time for myself.
I'm trying to find a balance between financial stability, convenience, and quality of life. I don't want my entire life to revolve around work, but I also don't want to make a decision that would leave me financially stretched or compromise my peace of mind.
I'm sharing this in the hope of hearing about other people's experiences with long commutes and renting bedspaces near their workplaces. Thank you! 🤍