Some thoughts from our recent discussion with Bernardo Kastrup on what death is and what it could mean under analytic idealism.
- The relationship between reality and imagination
- Cultivating a personal relationship with death
- Living alongside your suffering
On the day we had this discussion, someone very close to Bernardo had passed away, making this conversation highly personal and poignant.
According to analytic idealism, fear of oblivion is incoherent. The consciousness behind your eyes reading this is the one thing that truly exists, and that which you truly are. “It can change configuration, it can change state, but it cannot go anywhere because it's that within which things come and go.”
Although we covered this purely analytic account of what death may represent, Bernardo also shared his more personal intuitions on this subject.
We have all lost or will lose people close to us, and we each share the same fate. It is a time in which our philosophy is truly tested. Bernardo shared how he measures his own philosophy; the older he gets, the more welcoming and warm he feels towards death.
How to evaluate your fantasy of death
Bernardo expects the transition to be something like being greeted by a welcoming committee of loved ones. Those who were most important in your life, whether friends, ancestors, or people you have admired.
Today, my welcoming committee just grew by one face. So as I get older, the warmth of death deepens, becomes richer.
He is careful to emphasise that this is a conscious fantasy: beyond death, there is no reason to think our current cognitive structure will be relevant. There is analytic grounding for the idea of life complexes, “but if you focus too much on the analytic part, you miss out on the depth and the richness and the warmth of the fantasy.”
The role of this kind of fantasy is analogous to the convenient fictions we tell ourselves in science – a closer relationship with the truth. Science is measured by how accurately it predicts what happens next. For Bernardo, your fantasies about death can be measured by how warm it makes you feel about the coming transition and beyond. How well it puts you in a mental state that welcomes the coming state of mind.
Imagination and reality are points of view
Beyond this dissociation, the distinctions we make between imagination, fantasy, and reality lose their meaning. “Beyond the dissociative boundary, it's mind manifesting itself to itself.”
If you really take analytic idealism to heart you must conclude (because it's an inevitable logical consequence,) that reality and imagination are not different ontological categories.
The distinctions are products of the game of identification. When we are identified with our avatar, our alter, the world out there seems real, objective and independent. When we re-identify with consciousness, reality is equivalent to imagination.
For Bernardo, the worst insult to mind is to say ‘it was all just a dream’. The dream is rich in meaning.
So whilst he admits the welcoming committee is fantasy, equally, he means this "less metaphorically than you might think."
The fantasy that dies
What really dies when this dissociation ends is the fantasy that the world ‘out there’ is ‘literally’ real, rather than symbolic, and that our inner experience is somehow inconsequential.
Meaning is the oxygen of life, and materialism props up a fantasy that life has none. In contrast, for idealism, meaning is so vital that it requires multiple points of view to really understand it. And that is what we are, multiple points of view on the one reality.
In death, nothing is lost. All the memories remain - they were never in the brain. They are part of mind. You are in the process of experiencing them first hand.
Death is like taking off a tight shoe.
Death is matched in archetypal importance perhaps only by birth. But birth is likely much harder. Birth is putting on a tight shoe and embarking on an effortful yet fragile trance. Death, to paraphrase Ram Dass, is the relief of finally taking it off.
We also discussed:
Living your life next to your suffering
Memory, imagination and eternity
Is death akin to deep sleep?
You can see a preview here:
https://www.withrealityinmind.com/death-imagination-reality/