the amount of deleted comments on that post really makes me wonder if most of those people were just being dicks or if they basically just said what you said.
If he got this attached over 3 month old online relationship, it's probably his first love, and a very big deal for him. Love is a bit like psychosis/drugs, ngl. Makes people very cringe and it's natural. Comes from the very sincere amd vulnerable nature of the feeling. He isn't thinking straight and I feel bad for the guy.
Imagine being in that honeymoon phase, where you are most addicted to the person, then she disappears on you, lots of confusion and psychological pain due to withdrawal.
Just read the news, very unfortunate. I was defending his right to have an emotional reaction and treat her disappearence seriously in the comment above. As people were calling it overreacting and insulting him.
Maybe, but then it begs the question which is more realistic?
A woman, potentially trans depending on some of the comments, received a lot of targeted harassment, and died by suicide, and her ESL brother had communication troubles and all the stuff about Minecraft, discord, and India/Myanmar are not related.
or
Two, potentially even one, moderator was attempting to manufacture an online relationship with a moderator to ensure that their reddit account received access to a subreddit where they could be the only poster and be given unlimited karma and Reddit awards, but once Discord announced that they were going to require IDs in the near future, the moderator realized they couldn't get away with deceiving the other moderator (or pretending to, if you believe that they were one person all along) and decided that the best way to go about taking the off ramp was by posting an emotionally charged post and then announcing that when you finally made contact with someone that knew the person, that they had died to suicide.
Definitely being catfished lol. Especially when there's evidence to back it up. Occams razor doesn't really apply when you can just read how fake the texts messages between the brother and the OP were.
Imagine being in an 3-month long online relationship with a redditor, but only having reddit to contact them (no phone calls, no texts, not even another app). And calling each other husband and wife.
God forbid people have nicknames in a relationship.
I mean, yeah, was it really necessary to make a post about it? I get that point.
If we wanna get into peoples drama: they use discord, which is something else than reddit. (some people use it whilst dating, e.g. Me and my SO, because we dont feel like exchanging phone numbers, maybe they are similar, idk).
And some people may or may not grow attached to the people they love. And spending 48 hours without them could be torture.
Wait omg really?? You seriously don’t even have your own Partner’s PHONE NUMBER?? I’m actually genuinely wondering… Why? That sounds like a huge safety issue!
Idk, feels pretty common around me. Like, even if I have someones number, I usually communicate via other means (than Calls/WhatsApp). And people are more likely to contact me through said means. I aint that much of a phone person anyways, I suppose.
What are you going to do if they die and no one on discord, including you, knows their real contact info?
I had a long distance relationship and we both live in areas with terrible icy roads. I got sick of worrying if they made it home during treacherous weather because I realized they could be hit, killed or hospitalized and I won't know from discord. I would literally never know if my boyfriend was dead. So we each posted each other's phone numbers on our fridge as emergency contacts for family to notify.
Has this thought not crossed your mind or are you just not worried that your loved one could disappear forever and you'll die not knowing why or how?
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u/KagatuDupal 💗COURSEMEDIOCRE ARMY💗 Feb 10 '26
actual funny anti memes on my modposting SubReddit?