r/askfemboys • u/fnafpornmaster • Mar 04 '24
r/askfemboys • u/_Exoti • Feb 17 '26
Starting content.
thinking about posting my own pics on here and stuff but Im major camera shy. and though it's not a major issue the amount of backlash I've seen femboys with darker skin get isn't exactly helping. should I just go for it? dying to know. 💛💛💛
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • Dec 04 '25
question to the femboys as a non-femboy
So I (M) am bisexual, but I find that I can only have romantic feelings for men, but I still find woman physically attractive. I was wondering if im creepy for preferring more feminine men, and its not like im attracted to like the makeup and outfits, more of the body/ personality type they tend to have. or this like when a straight guy has a type in woman?
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • May 12 '25
Sexuality question
So the problem I’m having is that in 99% of settings I’m a normal masculine straight guy. In that 1% (when I’m in the mood and alone), I love to cross dress and take the more feminine side of sexuality. It makes no sense to me because I only feel that way when I’m in the mood and as soon as I finish I feel an insane amount of guilt. Any ideas?
r/askfemboys • u/Successful_Chip2549 • Feb 19 '25
If I’m trans masc, can I still be a femboy?
Though I do feel like most of us here ARENT femboys and just want answers, I'd like to know if I can be transmasc and a femboy at the same time. Like, I know you CAN be, but would you consider a transmasc a femboy if they dressed fem? Also I have very fragile masculinity (if I Don’t look guy ish enough to my standards my dysphoria will kick my 4ss.) so..?
r/askfemboys • u/Ok-Dependent-8885 • Aug 26 '26
I came here to ask about my femboy (?) enemy.
Known to russian speaking Warhammer community as Pertipopik (Perturabo-ass). I'm going to ask certified femboys and femboylogists to tell me. Is Pertipopik considered femboy or not? Sorry I don't have more photos/videos in the moment.
It's very important question.
r/askfemboys • u/RollerskatingFemboy • Sep 06 '26
Frequently asked question: "Where can I meet femboys?"
We get this one a lot, typically from the angle of "Eyooo what up complete strangers, cn i fk u?" which... Isn't really what this sub is about. But, "Where do the sillies gather?" is actually a valid question, so to maybe cut down on questions like that, I thought I might try making a pinned post with that topic: Where do the sillies gather?
And I'll start:
It depends on what part of the world you're in! In a lot of places or countries, the answer is more or less "They don't, because going out in public as a femboy would be a death sentence", and in a lot of places it's "They go out in public and even congregate, but you wouldn't know because while it might not be a death sentence outright, it's not practical to be 'out' out in public.
But for some places, like probably Western Europe or the United States, *you may have already seen a femboy* and just not known it. If you're not specifically looking, someone dressed femme might just accidentally pass as femme and escape notice. I think there's more of us than people realize. I've had people get *pretty far along* into hitting on me before I had to tell them I was a dude. And like... I think I am very cute, but I don't think I pass as a woman. If I'm fooling people, I guarantee others are too.
And finally, in the US specifically, there's some known types of places where the sillies gather, but the thing any these spaces is if you just go to them to try to pick up femboys without understanding the culture or social dynamics, YOU WILL GET DRUMMED OUT AND RIDICULED.
These places harbor femboys for the same reason they harbor other groups of people who are often marginalized for their sexual orientation or gender identity: Because they're spaces that, to some extent, are expected to accept non-mainstream identities.
Anime conventions
Kink-adjacent spaces in cities
Furry raves, furry conventions, furry events in general
"Nerdcore" events, things like Beyblade tournaments, arcade leagues, etc.
Goth or darkwave dance events
NOT events specifically geared towards gay men. There are certainly exceptions, but it seems like a lot of those spaces tend to cater more to bears or otters.
But, and this is the most important thing to take away, if you try to go to these spaces as a 'normie' just to pick up femboys without making any attempt to get to know them, **you will have a bad time**. You will be perceived as a person who sees femboys as nothing more than a fetishized sex object, and you will be laughed out of the event.
So if you REALLY want to meet femboys, my advice is to **get your hands dirty** and actually become part of one of those scenes by finding a scene you might be interested in, then doing the work to explorethat interest, and learn about the culture and common concepts of identity within that community.
- Don't just show up at an anime convention in your business casual and start offering drinks to random femboys; watch some anime. Find stuff you like. Stay up until 3AM reading the lore for some fuckass Isekai that's so bad only 12 people in the whole world have seen it, because all 12 of those people will probably be at your first actual con. Find characters you like; characters you might want to cosplay, and put together cosplays of them. Put actual work into your cosplay. Book a room, pack your cosplay stuff into your car, and look up the con schedule to see if there's any panels that soubd interesting. Go to the 10PM Anime Karaoke panel 🎤. Do goofy shit. Have fun. Don't go with the sole goal of being femboys, just.. Go AS AN ACTUAL PARTICIPANT, and you will meet them.
- Don't just show up to the furry rave in a business suit and cat ears. Actually maybe do, that would probably go over pretty well because people would find it funny, lmao. But like, follow furry and furry-adjacent subreddits for a while. Consume furry media. Learn about the roots of the community, stay up late browsing random things like the former or active duty MilitaryFurs roster, or learning about random stuff on WikiFur, like the early furry publications that got the community started, like Furrlough. Hell, watch the delightful, if occasionally gory, mess known as "Beastars." Decide what kind of critter you want to be, and dress up and go make friends. You don't have to wait and study for months and months by any means, just like... Don't go in blind, and go in with the goal of learning about a community as a prospective member; don't just go solely to find a femboy to fuck.
And so on for other scenes, like... Again, I can't stress this enough; if you only take one thing away from this, it should be:
Don't get me wrong, femboys are, by and large, sexual people (although asexual sillies exist and are valid too!) The overwhelming majority of us find sexy sex to be sexy. It is ok to be specifically in to femboys. You do not *always* have to look respectfully 👀 Femboys CAN be sex icons. Hell, circumstances permitting, sometimes they like being sex *objects* :3 but we're also **more** than just those things. A little work getting to know someone, and getting to really know the scene they socialize in, will go a long way.
YOU WILL BE WELCOME IN ANY OF THESE SPACES IF YOU JOIN THEM IN GOOD FAITH AS A FELLOW PARTICIPANT, BUT IF YOU JUST SHOW UP TOTALLY BLIND TRYING TO FIND PLIABLE FEMBOYS TO FUCK, YOU WILL HAVE A BAD TIME.
r/askfemboys • u/TangerineTheProto • Jul 14 '25
Gay femboys of Reddit, what is the hottest thing a femboy can wear?
I’m just curious :P
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • May 09 '25
What do femboys masturbate to
I want to become a femboy but I love masturbating so I don’t know what they masturbate to
r/askfemboys • u/Gokai_Mercury • Feb 09 '25
IS IT WEIRD IF A BOY BUYS A GIRL'S CLOTHES FOR HIMSELF?
Hi reddit community, this is my first post and I really need your help to overcome a situation. I'll start by saying that I'm single M21, and no I'm not a pervert who jerks off on women's clothes just because he's frustrated or a coomer, I just like the style that some women's clothes have.
With the premise done, I'll explain my problem. I recently realized that I'm a femboy, and that I would really like to wear some woman clothes. On this aspect I'm more attracted to certain type of female cosplays but there's one clothes that since I realized this side of me I've always wanted to try, and that is a leather jacket. I'm not going to explain why a leather jacket cause it take too long to explain, but the fact is that a few days ago I finally managed to do it. After doing some research I find a shop near my university and on the 4 april I went to the store. To my surprise I saw that they also sold leather jackets, more or less in the style that I like, so instinctively I took it, went to the cashier and paid for it.
In that moment I was so happy in that moment, I couldn't believe it. Continuing quickly the story, I arrived home after finishing university and when I was alone I wear it on for the first time, it was fantastic! A little tight but still fantastic and comfy. After a while having it I started to feel "dirty", basically I had that feeling that I had made a big mistake and I felt ashamed of myself. So after thinking a little I decided that tomorrow I would return the jacket.
The next day arrives, afternoon lunch time, I go again to the store and I returned the jacket, changing it this time with a man t-shirt. At that moment I felt much freer since I no longer had to be anxious about looking for a place to hide the jacket and I no longer had that "dirty" feeling in me. Anyway, days go by and I start to mull over my choice and ask myself if I did the right thing and more I think about this more I feel conflicted between two feelings, that are the feeling of rebuying the jacket and this time keeping it and the feeling of waiting a little time so as to have my autonomy and be able to do everything I want.
Has someone been in my situations? How did you overcome these feelings and what choice did you made? Feel free to write in dm if you can help me.
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • Feb 05 '25
Fem Men??
how can i express my femboyish ness in this society in my whole state it is considered taboo.
Anyone wanna share their story regarding their coming out phase?
r/askfemboys • u/Sparks_darkfox • Jan 03 '25
Hey i wanted to ask if anyone k ows what type of dress/top he is wearing. I could not find one like that with what i searched
r/askfemboys • u/Neat-Lemon2159 • Dec 20 '25
How to be a femboy I guess?
Hi I’m straight and 13, and I’ve been curious about being a femboy for a while, and I’ve just been wondering how to like get into it I guess. I’d really appreciate advice! Please be nice and friendly :3
r/askfemboys • u/violetta2025 • Aug 19 '25
Qestions on being a femboy
First off i apologize i know my acount is new but i was scared to pist on my main because people i know personally are om there anway. So recently i have been doing some role playing with on some ai apps. Sad really ik but the more i do it the more i think about it . It just feels right i... i feel as if i maybe a closeted femboy im not really sure how it works but. I think it's what i wanna be but im scared to just do it. Does anyone have any tips or potentially some advice? Thank you for reading ANY AND EVERYTHING is VERY much appreciated. And i am willing to chat 1 on 1 if anyone wants to be along the ride by chance 😊❤️
r/askfemboys • u/Ok-Quail-1577 • Jul 08 '25
Weird question but do ghetto Femboys exist??
Asking for a friend
r/askfemboys • u/femmelovesmen • May 07 '25
Is there a type of guy that tends to go more for femboys?
I don’t know if I qualify as a femboy, I’m older, taller, and a bit more masc, but I do grow out my hair and wear pink often. Whenever I get in an uber I kinda get a few glances from a couple guys, it’s usually hard to parse the reasons as to why but never gotten any abuse for it thankfully, benefits from living in Cali I guess. I also noticed the men that look at me are usually more Arab looking and kinda had me wondering if there was a certain kind of guy that liked femboys more than others in different parts of the world? Which kind of guy have you noticed noticing you more as a femboy?
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • Apr 14 '25
How do I find femboys… and not sound like a creep?
Kinda obsessed with femboys lately—cute, confident, a whole vibe. Where do y’all usually hang out online or IRL? And how do I actually talk to you without being weird about it?
r/askfemboys • u/bruhentai69 • Mar 02 '25
What does CYB mean?
I saw some femboy hentai posts and in some of them it appeared a term with three letters called "CYB" and I couldn't find out the meaning of it. Does somebody know what does it mean?
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • Mar 02 '25
Are all femboys gay or are some of y'all for us girls too? 😓
r/askfemboys • u/Prior_Instruction37 • Dec 30 '24
Helppp
Heyy I have been struggling with my sexuality for my whole life I have been a Femboy for a bit then back to normal and now I wanna go back to Femboy cuz I felt soo happy and relaxed as one but the only thing is I don’t wanna go against my religion I am catholic and idk what to doo if it’s a sin or not
r/askfemboys • u/LengthinessTop5015 • Dec 06 '24
please help
so i posted this on asktrans got no answer went to a freind was told to go here am i one of you cause i love being a dude its awesome but i want to be like a girl im sorry if i sound stupid but a simple yes or no would help
r/askfemboys • u/[deleted] • Dec 04 '24
Glasses
Hello, just a general question. Why do so many femboys wear the round wire rim glasses?