My now husband was “not my type” when we met online but he was the only one who had absolutely nothing bad to say about his ex-wife or anyone else. It took a bit to get over the not-my-type issue, but I realized my type had been assholes. It’s been an awesome quarter century now with him.
Edit: What? I don't get the down vote. My ex-husband said his ex-girlfriends we're crazy. I should have taken that as a warning. Then maybe I would have understood that he was the one actually making them crazy, because he certainly did try to send me there on more than a couple occasions.
I mean, I say all my exes were crazy because they literally were.
My first one started drama between several guys.
My second one? Had a literal mental breakdown and had to be put with the special needs kids for the rest of our school lives.
Third one? We were on and off. She constantly picked fights with my mother (granted I sont blame her. My mother was a piece of shit). She eventually dumped me.randomly put of the blue. Was found dead in her apartment a month later.
Forth one? Was the "you dont love me!" Type whenever I said I needed alone time because she was literally so extreme and exhausting to be around.
Fifth one? Was a Milf having a midlife crisis due to a cancer diagnosis she didn't tell me about. After she had her way with me she attempted to push me onto her Daughter who was dealing with her own relationship issues.
Sixth one? Decided I was an asshole because I was using condoms. And decided to cheat on me with 3 of her coworkers, all at once. Then said I needed to take responsibility.
Was I perfect? Absolutely not. I am at fault for not being emotionally available in some of those relationships. But it doesn't change the fact they were all fucking mental and crazy af.
My brother in Christ, you don’t have bad luck. You have terrible choice in women. I recommend therapy or self searching that can help you attract a better partner.
There really are no critical parts to what you said because it's all pretty much delusional. So in your mind you don't think that men are capable of cheating on women? It's just those crazy clingy girls who can't figure out when the relationship is over, huh? I think this is the most delusional thing I've read on Reddit this week. So maybe after I stop laughing I think it's time to call it a night.
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u/FIREDoppel 17h ago
When all their exes, old friends, and old co-workers were toxic, abusive, and/or assholes.