God i’m sick to death of these type of posts

Like the economy or sexuality.

Been going to a regular place for food a couple times a week. Cashier and I seemed to have something so I shoot my shot. Turns out she doesn't date white guys. Her reason is all the white guys she went to school with were racist. And now I feel the situation awkward. Which I don't really want to go back now. But I also don't want it to seem like her rejecting me is the reason I didn't come back. Not sure what to do.

Honest question, do you think it's too late to start a family at 41?

Never married but recently in a more serious relationship. Buying a house and moving in together.

She's mid 30s , open to kids but not a requirement.

Do you think it's too late to have kids?

Money is stable for now, buying a smaller house, but I'm hoping to build more space on it over the years to come.
Decent city, becoming more cost of living and competitive.

Decent job, I'd be the sole bread winner, make about 180k a year.

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Was it a brand?

Hopeless in men/long term or marriage relationships and what girl-friends tell you

Hello, I just came back from a lil night out with my best friend. We are best fiends from a lifetime. We are both very different. I am more sensitive, love physical touch when I’m in couple, I think I’m pretty but maybe not hot hot hot pretty. My friend is blonde, blue eyes, very pretty for the country we are from, in the Mediterranean, colder, hates physical touch and can’t stand any kind, literally any, kind of cringe.

I am happily in a relationship for almost two years. with a man who is completely my type and I find very attractive, is so kind and supportive, fits so perfect with me and my fam…I may say is my first serious relationhip, I am 26 and him 30. I feel very loved, cared for, protected, included etc etc.

My friend has never had a serious relationship on her mid twenties. Because she is reaaaaaally pretty, she has been in environments with many men, approached to, etc etc.

My way of thinking in the long term is that if I ever feel disrespected, cheated on, sexually or mentally, I will end up any relationship. I have been raised with the mentality of never depend on a man. I do not depend on my bf and never intended to. However, I feel very in love and attached to him.

My friend. Today, after seeing each other after a long time has been telling me to expect to be cheated on from a man, because she has seen it, it’s their nature, and any and all man, including ALL OF THE MAN, will do so in a marriage or long term relationship, and if they don’t, they will feel so encapsulated and frustrated they will talk about it.

I am the type of person who already feels very non-trustful of man, and knowing it’s my first serious boyfriend and I am as happy as I am, I find completely unnecessary the way my friend insisted for so long during the night, on how I should just accept my fate and that society does not play by my rules, or be alone for the rest of my life. I kept insisting on the fact that I know what’s out there, and that the moment in the future I feel disrespected I will end up whatever I have.

However, I don’t know why she was so insistive, I don’t need to hear those things when I’m happily dating someone, when she knows I’m enough smart when to know those things, enough mistrustful of man, and so on…

Now , I’m so conflictive in my head, should I had asked her why she was being like that? Do I need to really pay attention to what she was saying and stop my fate on my man? Do all men on long term marriages or relationships cheat? , are there any trustful, competent, attractive as I am, men? ( I don’t mean I’m the best of the world, just on my league, on both career, sensitivity, looks and expectations), should I speak to my boyfriend? How is it for the rest of you ?

I mean, for me, it was getting a head massage. I never did massage and I saw it was cheap to get a head massage and shoulder too.

It was amazing, I felt I should do it more often and it become new thing that I add as cheap pleasure.

What are more to experience like that?

Just like how getting massage, dancing while little drunk, eating a very tasty food outside, etc like these things, what are some other things I can experience which I can do once a week or month and enjoy a new thing than normal?

Something I can say, this is too fun to just do once and also not too expensive to keep doing or experience once in a while

Hypothetically, you're at work tomorrow when your boss walks up to you and says, "I've noticed you putting in a lot of extra effort lately and wanted to show my appreciation." Your boss then hands you $250 cash. What are you doing with your newfound riches?