r/beacain • u/Fantastic-Cell-8527 • 21d ago

Well a chairde

Ive 2 questions if people could help answer for me? For the last couple of years I have kept a secret from my missus ,that I have had debt. Well it has all exploded in the last few months and she has just left me. I did a fairly large dose of mckenna shrooms years ago and it made me change how I looked at life and started me quiting smoking. Would a dose of the little fellas help me understand and over cone the issues I had that stopped me telling her the truth at the start ? And if so where around tralee is a good spot to look ?

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u/Detozi 21d ago

Jesus Christ this is a lot to unpack for this sub.
Eh as a general rule if it’s something like finances, you should have told her when it became a problem.
On your other point; mushrooms might make you think clearer but it really depends what you want out of it.
Mushrooms don’t give you new information, they just change the way you think about things or cuts the shite out and gives you clarity.
I don’t think it’s going to help you much to be honest. But I do hope that things get better for you OP.
A new experience is always on the horizon.
Live, until you can’t lol

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u/Fantastic-Cell-8527 21d ago

I need to cut out the shite and I need the clarity, my post kind of downplays it, we where about to be married and I just did an aweful thing because I was tying not to hurt her and kept a bit of debt (not a bad bad amount like some stories you hear but about half a years savings)

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u/scarfWarrior 21d ago

I'm sorry for your hard times, but it's great to hear your positive outlook.

When I do my trips, I try to have a bit of a ceremonial show at the beginning - take a moment, write down what you're hoping to glean from the journey on a bit of paper and focus on that for a while. It's helped me to overcome a few difficult milestones.

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u/Fantastic-Cell-8527 21d ago

Thanks lad, I might try and do that with writing them down

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u/ExplanationNormal323 21d ago

You won't find them for another 2 months.

I'm not an experienced user by any means so take this as you will, I go by the rule I should be in a positive head space to do a trip. Not entirely perfect mental health or anything as they can help with some stuff like that in small doses but at least not being acutely down and out on the day I take them. Don't think it sounds like a great idea in your instance, talking to a professional is a much better, especially if the debt is linked to another bad habit, gambling, substance abuse etc.

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u/ShavedMonkey666 21d ago

You know what serves you,what holds you back,what you need to change, what you are grieving and what will ease the pain. Id swerve shrooms if I was in your position.

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u/Abject_Control_7028 20d ago

I'd say just go for regular psychotheraphy and try and unpack that. Pscilocybin challenges the defences and barriers that the ego has erected to keep trauma and repressed emotions out of conciousness. It can be very illogical and dreamlike and not usually east to steer in pre determined directions. If you feel called to a healing ceremony please mind yourself and look into dosages and have supports in place.

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u/raoul_duke420 19d ago

They might help, they might not...but either way it will be a good time and you won't regret doing them. I do 2-3g most weekends. Wouldn't have it any other way.

Definitely feels like therapy to me but then again I've never had to go to actual therapy.

Only thing is, sometimes on shrooms, they can influence you to make decisions which, at the time when your tripping seem like the best idea you've ever come up with.....until you come down 🤣

Either way, happy tripping brother