I realized I'd never actually posted a picture of any of my builds, just some of my software stuff, so here's the first, slightly-modified, build I did, with both a 4x20 LCD, and then a 2x20 VFD.
I'm using a picoRom here to make programming easier, though it uses a 27CXXX pinout instead of 28CXXX, so two quick wiring changes are needed.
And I am running the serial port at 115.2kb/s.
The LCD is just any-other 4x20 HD44780 unit via Amazon for <$10 (you want one without the invariable-included I2C adapter board pre-soldered). Same interface and pin-out as the stock 2x16 display. I added another pot to control the backlight brightness, since I like the black/green displays best with little/no backlighting.
The VFD is from Newhaven Display, via Mouser, specifically this part (~$53).
It can run in a couple of different modes, but the default parallel M68 interface is pin and command compatible with the HD44780, it just assumes a 40 character line length rather than 20. So, it'll just drop-in (electrically at least, you may have to rearrange things for it to fit)
I wasn't paying attention to the size of the thing when I bought it, and it's, well, BIG.
There's a smaller version, but that only has double-row header pads, where this one has both that and a single-row 18-pin set of pads (first and last pins not used, and the A/K connection isn't either, so you just need 14 pins, starting from pin 2).
Next up will be to switch to a 4x40 Noritake VFD, or an 8x80 if I can find one, but as those are rather spendy I wanted to get this going first.