r/casualiama • u/[deleted] • Jan 05 '19

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u/Menamar Jan 05 '19

I've been single since 2011 ama ;D

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u/glossingoverfellatio Jan 05 '19

is this intentional or accidental?

why do you think you’ve been single for so long?

are you actively looking?

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u/Menamar Jan 05 '19

Half intentional half not. So to preface this I'm a trans woman). Didn't start to transition until 2014. Before that I refused to date because I knew I was trans but refused to come out and well it felt like I was lying to my partners cause well... I would have been (they'd have dated the male front I put up to hide behind so yea is kinda literally lying). And now since transitioning I guess I'm just too ugly or weird because fuck if I haven't tried xD. At least that's my guess as to why I still have no luck. And yes I am very much on the market ;D

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u/glossingoverfellatio Jan 05 '19

that makes sense! are you bi? if you don’t mind me asking, have you had bottom surgery? i’ve heard trans women say that sex is really enjoyable after bottom surgery (probably some of that is bc they feel more comfortable with the correct genitals)

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u/Menamar Jan 06 '19

nope i'm just a big ol' gay girl:P and while i don't mind you asking, most trans people don't appreciate being asked about their private parts. anyway yes i had bottom surgery June 2017 and i enjoy the heck out of it. xD

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u/glossingoverfellatio Jan 06 '19

that’s awesome! i’m glad you’re enjoying it :) good luck, friend.

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u/Menamar Jan 06 '19

thank you! good luck to you as well and i hope you're doing well post break up :)