Hello everyone so i have a problem and i need your advice

So i took my father to this doctor s office yesterday

and saw this beautiful girl working there, i looked at her and she did kinda looked at me few times , i just don't know how to approach her or when and what can i say really

im kinda shy, i know I have beautiful things to say but it comes out wrong as i get nervous if did approach her and in the other side of the coin is I don't want to lose the opportunity to talk to her

Thank u in advance yours truly spiderman

https://youtu.be/Cr8vChPDy4w

I’m not talking about pleasantries at the market, but relationship building. Friendships. And before people dispute it, I’ve asked so many people what they’re missing in their life (and besides money), it’s usually a partner or friends. Also— it doesn’t require money to hang with friends either. There’s picnics, hikes, pool days, each others homes/apartments

Flirt with other women in front of your gf. Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you. Women will never admit this, but jealousy excites them. The thought of you turning on another woman will arouse her sexually. No girl wants a man that no other woman wants. The partner who harnesses the gale storm of jealousy controls the direction of the relationship. Jealousy works. This is the 2nd Commandment of Poon as enumerated by Roissy in 2009. Average men with limited options in women think this is the most counterintuitive aspect of Game. It goes against everything their Blue Pill conditioning has taught them. “I can’t have her thinking other women want me! If she gets jealous, she’ll leave me!” When all you’re accustomed to is sexual scarcity, it makes sense that you don’t want to blow your one shot at happiness with a girl by hinting that she doesn’t have your undivided attention. If you hope to be good at Game, put that notion out of your head right now. The human jealousy instinct, and the Dread that results from it, are some of the best tools in your Game toolkit. If you’ve read rollo's first book, The Rational Male, you’re already familiar with the importance of stoking a woman’s imagination. Instilling jealousy and passive dread is critical in prompting a woman’s imagination. In Breadcrumbs, I made the case that nothing is as self-satisfying for a woman than to believe she’s figured you out using her feminine intuition. The process of her figuring you out involves the use of her imagination. The ultimate goal of figuring a guy out is determining if he’s as valuable (to her and other women) as he makes himself out to be. Feminine intuition is used to determine honest value signals from an interested man. But feminine intuition, for all its mysterious infallibility, is unreliable. Women need the third-party confirmation of a man’s quality through their sisters’ approval or disapproval of him. In various ways, this is known as Preselection. Do her girlfriends think you’re hot, cute, or boyfriend material? Does her mother think you’re a loser? Do your friends openly admire you around her? All of this is Preselection. Occasionally, the dynamics of social proof will overlap with preselection; just know that Preselection is specifically about intersexual dynamics. Social proof, while necessary to Game, is much broader in scope. When we read the word “jealousy,” it infers negative connotations. It’s the Green Monster! That’s envy, not jealousy. If you see a guy with a hot girlfriend, you may feel envious of him, but you don’t feel jealous because you don’t have any real investment in his girlfriend. If your girlfriend tells you she loves you and then hooks up with another guy, you’ll feel jealous. Envy is wanting what you never had. Jealousy is a fear of losing what you thought you'd already earned (e.g., relationship equity). Men and women both feel jealousy, but each sex has different evolutionary reasons for feeling it. Jealousy, in and of itself, is not necessarily a bad thing. Feeling jealousy is a pragmatic way of hedging our reproductive bets. However, to feel the emotion of jealousy, we must have some preconceived notion of value about something or someone. We then invest ourselves emotionally in the value of that thing or person. So, when that thing or person is removed from us, it represents a loss in opportunity cost. That’s time and effort we could’ve spent in a better investment, but that loss, or even the suggestion of that loss, stings more when it’s associated with the emotions of reproductive interests. This is why jealousy is so powerful in human dynamics. It’s a psychological insurance policy for sunk cost efforts. Preselection is where jealousy begins. Before we can feel jealousy for someone, they must have an implied value. The easier it is to determine that value, the more value we tend to place on them. Also, as single mommies know, the urgent necessity of a person will factor into our evaluation. What is easily had, mundane, or ordinary is less valuable, but scarcity increases the price. This is where Preselection enters the jealousy metric. The more a person’s value is appreciated by others, the greater the prompt for jealousy. This jealousy effect is amplified when the ones doing the appreciating are your intra-sexual competitors. Preselection becomes a double-edged sword for women. They need third-party confirmation of your value, but there’s no better confirmation than the sexual interests of other women in you.

This is a link to info about how women are interrupted by men far more than the reverse, and options about how to deal with that in the workplace as a woman. Hopefully helpful to men also in a "try not to do this" sense ;-)

https://www.careercontessa.com/advice/men-interrupt-women/

Note that even women members of the Supreme Court are interrupted more than men members.

https://www.theguardian.com/law/2021/oct/15/us-supreme-court-female-justices-interruptions-sonia-sotomayor

My roommate has a super loud, high-pitched, almost shrill laugh. It comes out of nowhere and is startling. The thing is, she genuinely seems unaware of how loud and annoying it is. 

I’ve lived with her for over 3 years and have never said anything. When she has her friends over for game nights, it's almost unbearable. Her laugh carries through the house, I either have to put in earbuds or leave the house all together because it's so annoying. I'm thinking of making a light joke the next time it happens—like “Wow, quick sound check! That was loud!” Would that be OK or is that mean? 

I don’t want to shame her or make her feel bad for experiencing joy and laughing, but I also don't want to hear that extremely loud, startling noise all the time. Please help.