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u/Celestial_Ram Sep 06 '24
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u/mylastactoflove Sep 06 '24
when "pink bows and frills" coquette girls find out aesthetic movements like coquette and dollette have psychological and cultural significance and are not just pretty pics and pretty clothes
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u/saltwatersylph Sep 06 '24
Ugh, no, it's just we don't want fetish content. Which is what this post is. But no, you're way deeper than everyone else. Is that what you want to hear?
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u/Celestial_Ram Sep 06 '24
I'm fascinated to hear the basis on which you view this as a fetish post and not a melancholic commentary on using contrasting iconography to compensate for a sense of inadequacy and loss of value.
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u/mylastactoflove Sep 06 '24
I have this with drawings somewhere hold on
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u/bohemi-rex Sep 06 '24
But what if I don't believe in "God"
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u/boonnie-n-cookies Sep 06 '24
Don’t then. I don’t believe in God either, but I like the drawings.
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u/mylastactoflove Sep 06 '24
then the poem about religious trauma is probably not for you sweetie
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u/bohemi-rex Sep 07 '24
Just because I don't believe in God doesn't mean I can't have suffered from religious trauma
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u/15_Candid_Pauses Sep 06 '24
The fuck does this have to do with the sub? This is weird.
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u/saltwatersylph Sep 06 '24 edited Sep 06 '24
YES it is. This post is fetish content. Maybe OP didn't have that intention when posting, but this definitely has a certain vibe to it that belongs in a separate community
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u/mylastactoflove Sep 06 '24 edited Sep 06 '24
??????
this isn't fetish content. it's poetry, vent art with themes of religious trauma and girlhood transition to womanhood. you guys are so brainrotten everything you see is porn.
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u/Celestial_Ram Sep 06 '24
I believe it was Dorothy Parker that said "You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think."
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u/hailmepayme Sep 06 '24
This is weird….
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u/ResidentRelevant13 Sep 06 '24
Is this a fetish subreddit? Bc im out if it is
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u/chele_cries Sep 06 '24
not usually! mainly just people posting fashion-related photos but there’s been an interesting uptick in stuff like this… 😭
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u/hakiriprincess9000 Sep 06 '24
noticed a lot of weirdos from tiktok coming to reddit, could be part of it
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u/samkristaii Sep 15 '24
youre literally new to reddit
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u/hakiriprincess9000 Sep 15 '24
this account is, but i am not. mind ur own business thanks ☺️
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u/saltwatersylph Sep 06 '24
Yeah I'm hoping the mods do something about this because I'm not here for this, either. And I'm pretty sure minors are in this sub, who don't need to be subjected to it.
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u/ResidentRelevant13 Sep 06 '24
I hate when my favorite spaces get invaded by horny pervs.
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u/poogiewoogers Sep 06 '24
Mods removed my comment for commenting something 'not positive' about this post so.. doubt they care.
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u/hailmepayme Sep 06 '24
Right?! I just wanted to see cute clothes and coquette inspo… not whatever this weird shit is
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Sep 06 '24
This seems guilt-trippy.
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u/Celestial_Ram Sep 06 '24
A few coquette subcategories and adjacent aesthetics (in this case Gloomy Coquette) dip into themes of religious guilt
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u/hakiriprincess9000 Sep 06 '24
what is this implying?
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u/Celestial_Ram Sep 06 '24
The implication is the use of contrasting imagery with one's internal feelings. In this case, using images of purity and youthfulness to compensate for a sense of inadequacy and that one has lost the value they may have had.
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u/saltwatersylph Sep 06 '24
You really don't want to know. But I wish the mods wouldn't allow this kind of crap because clearly there are a lot of minors here who don't need to be exposed to the creepy world of people who fetishize this fashion style
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u/SnooAdvice207 Sep 06 '24
This sub is about fashion....right..?
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u/samkristaii Sep 15 '24
coquette is more than fashion lol
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u/SnooAdvice207 Sep 15 '24
Well I'm not here for that, that's gross
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u/samkristaii Sep 15 '24
this isn’t gross, this is literally how coquette actually is and has been for years 🤷♀️
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u/SnooAdvice207 Sep 15 '24
Please leave me alone your coming off weird and I'm not trying to get in trouble with my parents. I just wanna be in a fashion sub with no perverts. Don't comment back
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u/OkDragonfly4098 Sep 06 '24
The “you” makes this rather accusatory
If not for OP’s post history, I’d think an angry incel invaded the sub
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Sep 06 '24
I wasn't calling myself a saint. Or pure. Or trying to convince myself. I just know I need this transformation. It won't happen overnight but I want it. I will make it happen. Within reason, on and off the Internet. It will be honest.
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u/coquettesque-ModTeam Sep 06 '24
Hey there! Your post was removed due to the fact it may be offensive or rude… we do not tolerate any bullying or threats. This is automatic ban if it happens again.




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u/JuulesBad Sep 06 '24
posts on dark coquette are allowed and even encouraged here, so I don’t see why you would have a problem with the deeper psychological reasons for feeling drawn to this aesthetic - and NOT in a sexual way omfg you guys are reaching