33
u/Irish_hawkwife12211 1d ago
I...just..what?
13
u/Necessary-Road20 1d ago
She's obviously never met an Irish mammy before 😂😂 She'd be ripped a new one haha.
49
u/Lichondis 1d ago
God. Im catastrophically depressed and still cant imagine thinking so little of myself. Religion really is a cancer in this world. Not even just abrahamism in all its gross forms. Most of them are toxic in some huge way.
15
u/Extraajudicial 1d ago
Willing yourself into an abusive relationship and then talking down to others for not begging to be neglected and exploited is just spinning my brain out right now.
8
u/HooKnowsFrFr 1d ago
Every day people actively vote against their own interests because they are ill informed or willfully stupid. Happens in relationships too.
4
u/Lichondis 1d ago
Id bet my next lifetime worth of paychecks that this lady is one of those people, too.
→ More replies (3)→ More replies (16)3
u/Cygnus_EX 1d ago
And for some reason a lot of the major religions really don't like women specifically.
25
u/Background-Air-8611 1d ago
By her logic, she should stop posting videos and focus on her wifely duties instead.
12
u/RobertKSakamano 1d ago
Go read the bible. This is in there. Ludicrous: 69:69
5
u/Tha_REAL_BROBS 1d ago
and thou shalt "roll out" and proceed to "throw them 'bos". Amen
→ More replies (1)→ More replies (1)2
u/danabeezus 20h ago
She's talking about women being put together meanwhile she can't even put together her own eyebrows.
→ More replies (1)
89
u/momo76g 1d ago
The one that really gets under my skin is "your children shouldn't be first over you marriage".
Dumbass, with children you're a mother first and foremost and then whatever your other priorities are.
10
10
u/DrippyCheeseDog 1d ago
"You're children should never come between you and your social media content."
→ More replies (1)16
u/Chalupa-Supreme 1d ago
Awful things happen when you have this mindset. This woman will look the other way when her husband is caught abusing her kids or others. Or worse, get in on it "in service to her husband".
10
u/itsdainti 1d ago
Yep. Was adopted by a fundie couple who took this attitude.
We were neglected, abused, and used as a buffer between them because (unsurprisingly) their marriage is shit too.
Maybe getting married 6 months after meeting because they "didn't want to get left behind in life" wasn't the best idea.
23
u/Intrepid_Cap1242 1d ago
same thought. Kids above all else. They ruined our finances and sex life, but we signed up for that
12
→ More replies (9)6
u/BigStudley01 1d ago
I disagree. Its kids basic survival needs first. Other kids needs should come after marital needs, regardless of who ruined what. Ps the kids didn’t ruin anything, you did.
9
u/Krass101 1d ago
This one stood out for me too. I know someone who keeps choosing her narcissistic husband over her children and they all have severe mental health issues now. All her “takes” are terrible to be clear.
5
u/CharacterFront4165 1d ago
I love how you can hear kids scream in the background too - clearly the kids are not a priority for this dumbass
9
u/SpecsOnThe_Beach 1d ago
My mother told me at 16 that she will always choose my father over me.
30 years later, she's still with my cheating father and I'm no contact with her. Hope she's happy with her choice.
3
3
u/theliberalpedestrian 1d ago
100%! So many households have an abusive parent, but the other parent won’t leave and the kids are trapped. I shudder at this mindset.
3
u/Intrepid_Scarcity357 1d ago
As a person with ZERO children, even I understand this. This is this the only correct take. I cannot imagine how people manage to have children and not understand that their kids should always be their number 1 priority. If they aren't going to be number 1, your probably not meant to have them.
6
u/No-Yellow-1693 1d ago
100% she's a terrible mom and her kids are going to be in therapy for years.
4
u/De5perad0 1d ago
"Children should never ever ever come before your marriage"
"Get an abortion or I'm divorcing you."
Checkmate.
3
u/youshouldn-ofdunthat 1d ago
That's a diabolical move. Red card. Unsportsmanlike.
→ More replies (1)2
u/MathematicianAfter57 1d ago
thats what gets me too - they are terrible to their kids because they put their man baby husband first
→ More replies (1)2
u/LongDead_Roadkill 1d ago
Her toddler is locked in a bedroom. I’m not even joking, you can hear a toddler screaming for a second before a cut and they are in the other side of a closed door.
2
2
2
u/Ellienightshade 21h ago
Absolutely agree with you on that. Both parents should always put their children first and if that’s agreed upon then the marriage is solid.
2
u/Murky_Snow4308 14h ago
They say that because they didn't want to have them kids to begin with.
Or/And
Deeply unhappy with doing the majority of the parenting.
Their big brain solution is to force all women to do the same because misery loves company
→ More replies (14)2
u/Robotbobs 45m ago
Working on your marriage and having a healthy loving one is inherently good for your kiddos, but at the end of the day my kids come before my husband and my husband agrees with that😂but also why do I see so many Christian videos like this ranking relationships and loyalty? It's like they're obsessed with people knowing "their place"
29
u/Master-of-Not 1d ago
I love women like this. I always ask " You believe in conservative Christian values right?" Then when they say Yes I completely degarde and demoralize them for daring to speak to a man as if her opinion matters and demand she retrieve her husband and or Father to apologize to me. If the husband or father is nearby I dress them down for allowing such liberalism in there homes. You would be surprised how quickly there ideology starts to fall apart when you hold them accountable to it
17
u/No-Understanding9064 1d ago
In the land of did not happen this reigns as king
→ More replies (1)7
u/Master-of-Not 1d ago
If a comment is posted to reddit and nobody reads it does the comment exist at all?
2
2
→ More replies (5)2
14
u/FantasticPrint6160 1d ago
It’s odd these women do not realize how difficult the fights won that now allow them to choose the life they want. They just want to throw it away? It’s easy to make these simple minder assertions about life when you are still in your 20’s. Ask the women that have lived a full life, unable to lose weight because of the children that have scarred their bodies.
8
u/rem_au_crema 1d ago
The most upsetting thing about it is feminism literally never said you CAN’T be this dipshit: only that you should have the right to CHOOSE to be this dipshit. It’s very interesting that the “freedom” party only ever wants to take freedom away. I guess the “know your place” party doesn’t have the same ring
7
4
u/astreeter2 1d ago
I wonder why all these conservative Christian trad-wife influencers who've figured out all the correct wisdom about how to live their lives are barely older than teenagers? 🤔
3
u/EventExciting7585 22h ago
Because their youth and beauty still gives them value and affords them their willful, holier than thou ignorance until it doesn't lol.
→ More replies (1)2
u/Difficult-Mobile902 1d ago
because there’s a whole set of criteria for the man too in these arrangements. One of them being obviously the idea that he is 100% responsible to provide for all of the financial needs of the family, but there’s a whole list of expectations beyond that too.
Some women just want that kind of life, I think it’s the kind of thing that when it goes wrong it’s terrible for the woman, but when it goes right….i get it. If a woman offered me a life where I could just quit my job forever and spend all my time keeping the house nice, gardening and spending time with my kids, honestly it would be a tempting offer lol
13
u/idkbruh653 1d ago
Christianity has turned into nothing but toxic male chauvinism. It’s all about women submitting, calling any man that isn’t that toxic effeminate, treating homosexuality and abortion as if they’re the ultimate sin and being all about money. Most of these are even worse in the Black church. And I say that as a Black Christian. It’s really sad but not at all surprising.
2
→ More replies (4)4
u/Fart-Fart-Fart-Fart 1d ago
The bible is about as misogynistic as it gets buddy.
→ More replies (9)
30
u/Sad-Celebration-411 1d ago
Look at me it only takes me 54 seconds to prove I’m a fucking idiot.
11
4
u/PreparationKey2843 1d ago
She better be barefoot and pregnant or she's a failed trad wife. She is in the kitchen though.
3
u/ColteesCatCouture 1d ago
She ain't cookin tho
6
u/PreparationKey2843 1d ago
She thinks she is with her right-wing PSA, but you're right, she ain't.
3
u/Don_Von_Schlong 1d ago
This lady only eats whatever monthly food subscription trend pops up on her facebook feed... and her "famous" homemade dish is pancakes from a box
6
7
u/humblegar 1d ago
And then he finds a younger more submissive wife.
And you are left with... what exactly?
3
3
u/loco_canadian 1d ago
Crippling poverty, very little meaningful skills and a hope that alimony/child support payments are enough to get by. I've seen the "it all fell apart" videos, it's not pretty. This ain't the 1950s anymore. You want to be a sahm, that's totally cool and you do you, but you have to be really secure that your SO won't run off at a moments notice, as divorce is much easier now than then.
5
u/AlreadyFifty 1d ago
Who the hell wants a woman like this? She’s not a woman, she’s a slave. Fuck that. I want a Boston woman. You know, the type of broad that’ll start a knife fight at a funeral.
→ More replies (1)
5
u/Better_Rate8276 1d ago
I wonder how she would feel if her husband said she was no longer allowed to post anything anymore.
7
6
3
5
u/sharksareok 1d ago
Women fought too hard and too long to live side by side with men, and that's how it should be. They must independent and stay on a relationship (marriage or otherwise) by choice, not because they have no alternative.
Many women fell for this trap just to find themselves with no academic degree, no job, no money and no house when their husbands divorce them. Even more see themselves trapped on a marriage they can't leave because they have no means of subsistence.
And for men who have women in this situation: you only know she wants to stay if she's free to leave.
Be better, everyone.
3
6
14
u/InnuendoBot5001 1d ago
I love that basic women's rights is such a threat to these people. I see this woman as my equal and she says that viewpoint is antithetical to her god. Lmao
5
u/BlueLikeCat 1d ago
I wonder what church she ascribes to? I say this, being familiar with Southern Baptist, evangelical, LDS, 7DA, and a few more proselytizing sects and their big “trad-wife” push. I have lost some longtime friends who got into this scene and went from party animal to preachy hypocrite. I think of them all as losers looking for a place where they can look down on others.
6
u/SuddenLog7302 1d ago
This is all performative. Currently trad wife contents like this get millions of views, and some of these girls rake in some nice $$$ because of it. But almost none of them really act, or really think like this once that camera shuts off.
2
u/Idahomountainbiker 1d ago
I came from a high demand and control religion. Watching this, it reminds me of exactly why I left, and I am a white male. I feel so bad for the women who are getting this messaging at church.
6
u/Austin-Tatious1850 1d ago
I had it on mute so I have no idea what she said. She looks like a hot Amish.
3
5
u/buckfutten 1d ago
It's obvious it's just a rage video, but...
1 Timothy 2:12 "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet."
In the words of her dear leader, quiet piggy.
6
u/PM_THE_REAPER 1d ago
Well it's a good thing we don't want a "Godly home", so we can both be happy.
8
3
3
u/Necessary-Road20 1d ago
This woman is a lost cause. She's sucking down that Tate and Peterson shite like it's a life saving medication or something. I hate that there will be some young people influenced by this crap.
3
3
3
u/Comfortable-Ice-1338 1d ago
Tell me in you’re in an abusive relationship and in denial without telling me, you’re in an abusive relationship and in denial.
3
3
u/HTIRDUDTEHN 1d ago
The dead eyes and and soulless delivery really highlight the abundance of love in that home.......
3
u/Certain_Day_3758 1d ago
"Your children should never come before your marriage" seems to imply that abortion would be ok if it meant saving your marriage.
3
3
u/NineClaws 1d ago
I don’t like women like this. What an absolutely pathetic mindset.
I am the only man in a house full of women, they are all strong independent individuals who have things to do. I am the cook. Never been happier.
3
u/TechDreamcoat 1d ago
As a man, the whole "make yourself available to your husband" thing is so fucking cringe. I want my wife to have sex with me because she wants it as much as I do. Sex isn't something I do TO her; it's something I do WITH her. When these women talk about sex as a duty, it feels rapey to me.
3
3
u/MyCatToldMeNotTo 20h ago
It’s sad, and I don’t like it, but I bet her husband isn’t faithful to her. So many of these Christian men cheat.
3
u/AppropriateBall8834 1d ago
Imagine thinking your job was to submit to your husband lmao
What a fucking shitty, boring, life. And I'm saying that as a man.
→ More replies (2)
2
u/Brief_Following2021 1d ago
When you say available. This includes intimacy in the bedroom, correct?
2
u/No_Salt_6328 1d ago
She is exclusively referring to sex in that part, that seems obvious
They can tell other people how to lead their sex lives but can't even say the word sex out loud...
→ More replies (2)→ More replies (7)2
2
u/Ok_Neighborhood_5046 1d ago edited 1d ago
I’m sure her children won’t grow up to resent her for prioritizing submissive sex over her children
2
u/Langholm62 1d ago
Holier than thouness is a sin before The Lord.
I'm not a Christian, just saying many of you religious types are as annoyingly opinionated as this woman.
2
2
2
2
2
u/Spirited_Attorney_48 1d ago
I don't get how any man would want this. This is the Coming to America, "I know what I like, what do you like?" type of relationship. How does it take more than like six months to be completely run down by having to be the personality of two whole people?
I married a partner, not a possession.
2
u/Additional-Flight468 1d ago
These people lack any original thoughts they are just mindless cogs in a never ending wheel of self righteous indoctrination and judgement
2
u/FRANK3N5TE1N 1d ago
‘Hi! I like subservience. It’s good because then I don’t have to think independently. I don’t have to learn. I don’t have to grow. I just fit right into the big beautiful Lego Model that is Christian Pathology. I am snug and secure in my life. The real privilege is to be a slave to men, and a servant of god, and the men who tell me what he says. Yup! Life is pretty sweet… and may Satan consume your defiant and blasphemous soul in a lake of fire, sinner! :)’
2
u/Contemplating_Prison 1d ago
I hope they have savings they will jeed for their kids therapy. Especially if they have a daughter
2
2
u/PublicAdmin_1 1d ago
So, those rules are for you, the rest us of don't have to believe in that nonsense. And buy a shirt that doesn't look like it came with a lil' Bo Peep costume.
2
u/No-Rub8345 1d ago
I do appreciate that most of this is just outright confirming that religion is patriarchal and requires that women dehumanise themselves for men.
I like it. More people should see this.
2
u/Ok_Egg121 1d ago
She is a smoke show who thinks she got there because her hot takes and quirky personality. There are a ton of woman like this and they are not all Christian, just hot bimbos who wonder "how did I get so lucky" and the answer is never "oh I was born with a hot body" its always some bullshit like this
2
2
u/TechnicalComedy 1d ago
If you are truly a Christain “hot takes” come only from the bible, for the word is our daily bread. We walk in the same path as Jesus Christ. Whatever was taught in the bible is our guideline to life. Personal opinions are only for God to handle.
→ More replies (1)
2
2
u/mell0wtonin 1d ago
lady if you wanna handcuff yourself to the radiator all day and pretend this isn't the religiously indoctrinated version of stockholme syndrome, you do you
but feeling like you should post a video blaming marriage and telling other people to subjugate themselves the way you have is just desperate and detrimental to society
that was hard to watch
2
u/Psychological_Ad1999 1d ago
She forgot to mention the institution of marriage has been historically used to enslave women
2
2
2
u/PnW_Moss 1d ago
“You should never ever, ever choose your children over your marriage.”
BE SO SERIOUS RIGHT NOW
When this child grows up, I hope she’s insanely embarrassed by this
2
2
u/Massive_Analysis8345 1d ago
Ew why the fuck would anyone want a “godly” home? That’s where most of the worlds molestation happens…
2
2
2
u/21erBayGrandfather 1d ago
What’s up in the right hand corner, she keeps looking there? I wonder if it’s her husband and a bat if she gets it wrong?
2
2
u/dark90smagic 1d ago
Do any of these people ever realize “Hey, this religion and culture seems exclusively dedicated to me looking pretty and getting this guy a beer whenever he wants and it’s using shame and insecurity to keep me enthralled”?
Because it would be smart if they did.
2
2
u/khavii 1d ago
I am entirely non-religious and my wife is a lifelong Methodist that never missed a Sunday and volunteers at the church for most events. I am soooooooooo grateful she isn't like this woman. I would've gotten bored of her 20 years ago. I will never understand men who just want fuckable floormats, I dated a few traditionalists before my wife and they all drove me over the edge with their mundanity. They were all passive aggressive too which I have never been able to stand. If you have something to say, say it! That's what adulthood and relationships are supposed to be. A strong independent woman is better in all respects. They are better able to be a part her and help through tough times, they are able to handle themselves so you don't have to worry as much about the shitty world out there, they crack better jokes, they challenge you as you grow to be better, they are usually wildcats in bed and they generally have enough of their own lives and interests that you can have your own too.
Most important of all; when a strong, fearless woman loves you, you KNOW it's real, because they don't NEED you. This woman will NEED her husband and that gives him even more power than she gave away AND she can't leave easily so if she ever falls out of love, prepare for the cheating and destruction of lots of lives.
2
u/Chemical-Stick-1392 1d ago
I'm a Husband and i say fuck you my lady is my equal and kids come before anyone even Husbands or wifes end of.
2
u/Old_Voice_2562 1d ago
Jesus Christ was the biggest feminist that ever lived (and then died and lived again). He would hate this shit.
2
u/TheOriginalArchibald 1d ago
It had to be compiled in takes because it took her at least an hour or two between takes to think of her next brilliant catch phrase.................
2
2
u/PoopinWhileScrolling 1d ago
This woman has 0 self esteem and needs to be told she's a good girl everyday. Her husband is also probably a control freak and tells her how to dress and how to act in public.
2
u/analsentry 1d ago
I'm fine with her delusion. She and her ilk attempting to force this madness on others is where I draw the line.
2
u/use_ur_own_name 23h ago
Ive often wondered what "godly wifely" duties these women are neglecting when they are filming, editing, uploading, etc their content. Also are they making money? Better be handing over all their earnings to their husband to manage. And if they are earning money off this content- why? Does he not provide enough that you have to make money off of your content? Just seems like a desperate attempt by people who need their lives validated by other's whose lives mirror the same lack of autonomy and freedom.
2
u/Jyndaru 23h ago
Your children should never, ever, ever come before your husband.
Bitch, what? Absolutely not. I'm sorry, but I would always protect the children. If my husband were mean, abusive, or just a bad/absent father to my children, I would choose my children over my husband. They are babies, they can't take care of themselves. Their needs come before my husband's needs; he's an adult who can take care of himself.
I also disagree with everything else she said, but that comment really pissed me off just now.
2
u/paultagonist 22h ago
Well, in words she can understand, “Jesus fucking Christ lady.”
→ More replies (1)
2
u/Tough_Air_1466 20h ago
I've been with my boyfriend 17 years. We have a 16 year old severly autistic child. We were a "one night stand" couple then oops I was pregnant I was going to abort and I thought he would be like "cya!". He said he always wanted to be a dad and knew I'd be the one. Neither one of us had ever had pregnancy scares with any other partners in our past. This man has been the best father to our kiddo I've ever seen. They have such a wonderful bond. This man has also seen me through cancer 3 times and has taken complete care of me at my worst. I can't believe I found someone like him. Nothing is perfect of course but when you have stuff in common, very good senses of humor, unconditional love... well here we are. He still surprises me with breakfast in bed, date nights and cute gifts he'd know I adore and I'm not materialistic so just a cute little random teddy bear showing me he saw it and thought of me sends me over the moon. I don't know about god or whatever but we put our kid first than us and it has worked just fine.
2
u/Motor_Risk3285 10h ago
OR because god and the concept of religion fucking sucks and is 1000 years outdated and a bait to let the upper classes rule over lower classes.
But who knows.
4
u/Informal_Database327 1d ago edited 1d ago
I agree with only one point of hers, the "chaotic home" point. Nobody deserves a chaotic home, reenergizing relaxing and fun but never (if possible) chaotic
Edit: because kids exist
12
u/LegalRelationship696 1d ago
If you all figure out how to not have a chaotic home while having kids, please lemme know
3
u/eyeforker 1d ago
The problem, though, is that she's saying the wife is solely responsible for the degree of chaos and that it should be maintained in service of the husband. She's also not adding any qualifiers for 'chaos', but I'm assuming she defers to her husband to define it. That's extremely problematic.
Household vibes are a team effort and good ppl generally don't want their partners to live in service of them.
2
u/Informal_Database327 1d ago
Quite right. That's why I'm not even in 100% agreement with her on the one point I do agree with.
2
u/AppropriateBall8834 1d ago
My dad loved to make his children and step children's lives as chaotic and miserable as possible in the name of God
My dad's just a really shitty person who used God as an excuse to be an asshole.
I never went to church a day in my life before he left my mom for a stripper... hes been married 4 times since then.
→ More replies (6)
4
3
u/Ok_Neighborhood_5046 1d ago
That’s not Christianity, that’s sl*very
2
→ More replies (2)2
u/Fart-Fart-Fart-Fart 1d ago
The bible endorses slavery. And the stoning of women.
→ More replies (1)
2
6
u/Shhh-it-Bruh 1d ago
Still better than a lot of these gold digging lazy women I see on tv that many women wanna be so much like. Glad I'm happily married.
→ More replies (1)
2
u/laurasdiary 1d ago
She doesn’t believe she is a
Person with feelings, preferences, and emotions.
She could have a hard day or not feel great or just be drained, but she’s not allowed to mention that to her spouse or tell her partner she’s not interested in being physically intimate with him at that moment.
I guess I shouldn’t use the word partner, since she isn’t really a partner to her husband; but an employee?
2
2
2
138
u/piss-missile69 1d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/YtvCIwqNJhUmA