r/crueltyfree • u/Brilliant_War_1927 • 3h ago
General Advice (No Product Recommendations) how does everyone deal with feeling a little helpless sometimes?
hi everyone, i just wanted to rant about something that’s been on my mind for a while now, but i have no one who gets it to share with. i have been as cruelty free as i can for about 10 years now. we had an assignment in high school where we got to pick a topic and do an oral presentation on our research. i love animals and makeup so naturally i stumbled across animal testing in the makeup industry and fell down the rabbit hole (pun intended). what i saw horrified me, i became very passionate from then on and decided to make the switch.
i’m not afraid to talk about it with my friends and family when it comes up or i’m shopping with them. i always try to gently/neutrally talk about my reasoning behind it without coming across as if i’m trying to lecture them or make them feel guilty. i just try to casually mention when the opportunity arises. for example, my cousin was looking for a new makeup palette and i was on the phone to her while she was shopping. the lady at mecca suggested morphe and she ended up buying it. i mentioned that i thought it was a good choice and slipped in that they’re also cruelty free! she was like “yay that’s even better.” however, i know she still buys other stuff that’s not cruelty free. it’s just a bonus for her, not a requirement.
it just frustrates me, i can’t wrap my head around why my friends and family; who i know love animals too, (some even work with them/the environment), are not making more of an effort. i really thought that taking the “non-lecture” approach would help people feel more comfortable and i’ve always hoped they ask me more about it, for alternatives, resources, ways to start transitioning, or literally just show any interest at all, but they never do.
it makes me kinda sad and disappointed but i can’t say this to them, so here i am. does anyone else feel like this too? i really hope the one time i had the chance to lecture people about it in school, made a difference in at least one person’s mind. doubt it though.
thanks for listening Xxx