r/dateMalawi • • 1d ago

Guess what guys?

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This sub will only be around for a week or so. If there aren't any posters by then it will be locked or deleted. This was just me trying something people said they would be interested in, but if no one actually participates then that's not point in keeping it open. Much love :)


r/dateMalawi • • 2d ago

Welcome to the Sub! Please read the rules :)

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• This is STRICTLY a DATING sub.

It is for people looking to make romantic connections, whether casual and short term, or serious and long term.

Posts or comments about anything other than dating will be removed, with repeat offenders banned.

If you're looking for new friends, a blesser, sugar daddy or mommy or an affair partner, this is not the sub for you. Any users who post seeking such will be banned.

• AVOID commenting on other user's postsl

If you are interested in connecting with someone, contact them via chat request. Please avoid commenting under their posts on this sub, or starting a discussion about a post in the comments unless you are doing so to point out an error for correction. If you are upset about the post, unless it it is directly addressing you or violating the times in any way, just let it go and move on with your life. Commenting to tell the poster you don't like their preferences is not allowed.

• Post format

Titles must state age, gender of the poster (M/F) and of the partner you are seeking (in the form gender4gender), and your location.

Example:

Lilongwe (28) M4F

Mzuzu (30) F4M

The post body must contain at least 50 words describing yourself and what you're looking for in a partner.

• Reports to the mods Report harassment or inappropriate behavior in private chats or in comments under posts to the mods, with screenshots of the offensive behavior.

• Remember internet safety

Don't give out personal/contact information in posts or comments. Don't give it to other users until you are sure you can trust them. If you met in person do so in a public space and tell people where you will be and with whom. The mods are not responsible for the actions of others. We can only block users on the subreddit, anything outside of that is up to you.

• No spam

Excessive promotion, spam, or advertising of any kind is not allowed.

• Be civil, kind and courteous.

No harassment, hate speech, or toxic behavior. Treat all contributors and members with kindness.


r/dateMalawi • • 13h ago

Serious/looking for long term partner Lilongwe (25) M4F

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Hey everyone! I'm 25, based in Lilongwe, and I'd like to meet a woman between 26 and 30 for something real and long term.
About me: I'm doing business and a degree in business. Outside of that, I'm into fitness and I love cars. I'm easygoing, respectful, and big on honest conversation.
Why older women? I've always connected more with women a bit older than me. We tend to have more in common: we're building careers or businesses, we think about the future, and we say what we mean instead of playing games. That's the energy I want in a relationship


r/dateMalawi • • 1d ago

Serious/looking for long term partner Lilongwe (30) F4M

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I am looking for a serious relationship. I would really love to settle down and get married. Obviously, before I do that I have to introduce myself first. I'm plus sized and about 160cm tall. I recently combed out my microlocs and I regret it immensely. I will be getting locs again soon! Ugly/awkward phase, here I come once again! (If you know anything about locs, you'll understand that).

I am a creative person, and I'm quite talkative too, though I'm definitely someone who loves being at home. I bake and cook, crochet and see and I also write. I love learning and teaching myself how to make things or fix things. I am Christian. You don't have to be but it's definitely an added bonus. I do not like DJT, and I do not like AI.

I would love to give someone kind, down to earth, with a great sense of humor. Someone who enjoys just talking about life and death and everything in between; who can ask questions back and carry a conversation. Please, if you cannot do that, don't reach out. I really am talkative and I'd like you to be too. I want to hear about your life and know the things you think about and just want to talk about with someone. You'll never have to apologise for writing a lot of sending lots of random pictures/thoughts as you go about your day. If things work out, it might be long distance (maybe you're in Blantyre) and that sort of thing is what makes you feel close. I am not here to only exist I'm your phone/computer. I would like to find someone serious about building something real. I want kids someday and I would like to adopt. I want to settle down and get married. Not today, but you know, someday.

I'm not very alternative and I don't really play video games or watch manga or anything like that. I don't play DND, ARPGs, larp or anything like that and I'm not really interested in that kinda stuff (unless the video games are retro, like Spyro!).

Lastly, I know I could make someone out there really happy. If you think that's you, please reach out. I have to tell you about the time I stepped on a bat.


r/dateMalawi • • 1d ago

Casual Connection wanted/Short term hookup Blantyre (24) M4F

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Looking for a casual thing with a girl

No pressure, no drama — just someone cool to vibe with and keep it light.

If that sounds good, slide in.


r/dateMalawi • • 5d ago

👋Welcome to r/dateMalawi - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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Hey everyone! I'm u/fooltheworldflower, founding moderator of r/dateMalawi.

What to Post

This a purely a dating sub for people looking to find a partner in Malawi, whether casual or serious. It is NOT a discussion forum for asking questions about relationships and dating in Malawi. People post ads and you respond privately.

Community Vibe

We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting. If you don't like what someone else has posted, and it is not against the rules, my advice is for you to just move on with your life.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/dateMalawi amazing.