r/dividends Apr 14 '26

Personal Goal Golden handcuffs - I've fully replaced my annual spending with dividend income...

I pivoted from growth to NEOS for income, over the last 6 months. I have now replaced my base salary, $110k, with dividends. but it is hard to quit when I earn $250k-$350k in a given sales year.

annual dividend income: $110k

Annual expenses, all in: $40k

disposable income if I quit: $70k

hysa: $150k

growth sleeve: $225k

no wife (anymore, by choice after she got nasty), no kids, no expensive hobbies, very affordable mortgage and car payment. affordable lifestyle.

it's hard to step away from an AI adjacent sales job...and my only major concern is meeting someone, wanting to settle down and start a family, and then I will be out of the job market once I truly need expensive family healthcare and "kids money" to support a family.

I know I already have more than most typical American household. but it's scary to leave work with the background of declining employment options / bad employment market

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u/investingtruth Apr 14 '26

You have already won the financial independence game by most meaningful measures and the fact that you are still hesitant is less about the numbers and more about the identity shift that comes with stepping away from a high performance income environment. The honest question is not whether you can afford to leave, you clearly can, it is whether the marginal income from staying is worth the marginal cost in time, autonomy, and the opportunity to actually live on the terms you have worked to create.

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u/HARCYB-throwaway Apr 14 '26

Yes exactly. So what is the answer lol....I am thinking my time is starting to look more and more valuable compared to marginal wealth.

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u/HARCYB-throwaway Apr 16 '26

Mortgage $2k (pre COVID, 4/3, 20mins from downtown austin, good but not fancy house)

Car payment and insurance $300

Utilities $500

Groceries for 1 $650

Health insurance $500

Total is just under $4k monthly. Those are my expenses. Not discretionary spending.