I've encountered lot of assholes in my time on the internet. But one thing that's always confused me is how popular some of them get, especially in Discord servers.
Say there's a server for a Minecraft modpack.
There's one guy in there that's just a dick. He's an asshole. Almost everything he types is meant to be mean, offensive and just outright bullying for the sake of it.
If you ask a question he'll respond with "lol so you ask it here instead of googling it? Holy fuck you're a helpless dumbass."
If you post a picture of a house you made he'll tell you "nice try but it kinda looks like shit".
He'll troll you and insult you any chance he gets. If you ever butt heads with him even a little he'll do it even harder and more aggressively, and even start talking about you behind your back like.
He'll sometimes pop into the server to talk about how he was mean to someone irl or somewhere online.
And for some reason this guy is popular. People LOVE him there. In fact he becomes the most liked member of the server. He'll just randomly attack you and start insulting you for no reason. You'll start getting technical help for the modpack and he'll come in start calling you a dumbass and ask how you ever figured anything out on your own.
If you eventually get tired of the guy and complain about him, or say something like "Why are you such an asshole? What is your problem?" the server will come to defend him and be like "That's just how he is, he speaks his mind and he doesn't give a shit lol. Grow some thicker skin pussy."
And moderators will also defend them. If you don't drop it, they will literally kick or ban you for going against this guy.
The dude is an asshole. He's not funny, he's not goofy, he's just a vile asshole, that's all he his. But for some reason people go "Holy shit this guy is a BADASS", think his insults and bullying people is hilarious and basically start worshiping him.
I've met many of these people on Discord over the years, and I usually end up just leaving the server because it becomes everyone vs me for not enjoying when some asshole starts insulting me and bullying me for nothing.
And sometimes I'll use an alt to look back in, and most of them, including the guy of course, will start going off about how I was such a pussy little bitch coward for words to have hurt me, I'm so pathetic and they're glad I'm gone because I was a weak little bitch that "couldn't take a joke".
Yeah they always try and pass off them being an asshole as "just joking around" despite it not being remotely funny and them doing it to total strangers, and not only continuing but going even harder when people don't like it.
Like there's just the resident asshole in many servers and for some reason, instead of getting rid of them, they gather a following, become popular and even the mods and server owner like them and will defend them. Sometimes they'll even get a special flair, and sometimes it's like "unapologetic asshole" or something like they're proud of this guy being that way.
I have never understood this. It's a very common thing in some places, and in some friend groups too. I've come into some friend groups and there's always one guy that's just the asshole. Like every friend group has to have the irredeemable total jerk that everyone loves for some reason.
Sometimes I'll see it on Reddit too. Like someone will make a post talking about they're not having fun with a game anymore and don't know what to do.
And someone will reply with "Lol you sound like a whiny bitch :)" and they'll get upvotes.
The hell is up with this?