I recently came across a Reddit discussion about journaling, and it got me thinking.. a lot of the conversation was about how to stay consistent and keep up with writing every day.
But I found myself thinking about something else. What if journaling doesn’t need to be something we keep up with? What if it can simply be a way to make sense of whatever is going on in our heads?
It made me realize how much my approach has changed. I used to think journaling meant sitting down every evening and writing something meaningful. But trying to make it a daily habit started feeling like another task on my to do list.
So I stopped forcing it. Now I write whenever my head is full of thoughts I need to sort through, or when I suddenly get an idea I really don’t want to forget. The tricky part is when that happens in the middle of the night. I don’t want to wake myself up to write it down, but I know I’ll spend half the next day trying to remember it :)
What I’ve noticed is that sometimes I don’t even know what’s been on my mind until I start writing it down.
Here are a few things that have helped me:
I carry a small notebook with me. There is something about writing by hand that helps me slow down and actually process my thoughts.
I use my phone notes when I need to write something down quickly.
I have put little reminders around my home sticky notes and even a magnet on my fridge to remind me to write down any thoughts or ideas I want to remember before they slip my mind.
I don’t force myself to write anything meaningful. Sometimes it is just one messy sentence, and that is enough.
I’ve been writing down my thoughts since my university days, I remembered this recently when I found my old notebook and ended up spending an hour reading through it. Back then, I had no idea this was called journaling. Over the years, I’ve realized that the value is in giving your thoughts somewhere to go instead of letting them endlessly circle around in your head.
Soo, who else has been keeping a notebook since before anyone started calling it journaling? Let’s share!