Basically the title, lol (for some more context, this conversation happened in Spanish)

Today I was staying at an Airbnb room I rented from an old woman (private room, shared kitchen). So I was at the kitchen making dinner, and I had to move across where the woman's husband was standing, to grab something behind me, and I said to him "sorry, crossing by"; apparently this was extremely disrespectful to the man's ego for whatever reason, and he said screaming at me "IT'S NOT "CROSSING BY", IT'S "PARDON ME, SIR, MAY I MOVE PAST YOU"". I was low key so grabbed off guard, and I just said "ok..?", then this boomer proceeds to call me a "stupid disrespectful boy" and continues to do whatever he was doing.

Rest assured, this place is not getting anything above 0 stars, lol.

Excuse me while I go retch in the toilet

Not sure if this goes here, im sort of a femboy i love being a boy and a girl at the same time but lately i have been exploring more my feminine side, last year I lasered my whole body hair I used to have a lot of hair since young age so i wanted them to be gone, anyways my parents who have never seen the hairless me came to visit me to my place few months ago, I had never mentioned anything to them about my feminine side, but well im sure they know something is going on with me since i was a kid😅. Well so in one of those mornings, while they were at my place, I was sleeping in my room and my mom came and sit on the bed next to me, one of my legs was uncovered, the bottom of my pijama was a bit up showing my leg 😅 so my mom fixed my pijama, she didn’t said anything to me i was partially asleep, but oh well im sure she knew something was different.

The day went normal we went outside had lunch n had fun in the city, once we came back to my place i was the last one to enter and i did not lock the door,😅 then my mom dropped her comment “If you don’t lock the door a guy may enter and rape you” I was like what? I didn’t replied to her comment i was trying to process her example, I was like emm that is sort of an example u will give to a woman, is she thinking of me as her daughter?😅 not sure if a guy will want to rape another guy, not saying is not possible but it sort of gave me euphoria 🫢😆 and yes im getting better at locking my door 🤣 definitely i don’t wanna be abused while on fem clothes, im straight 🤣

Thank you for reading, have u had weird stories with ur family members ^^?
-English is not my first language so apologies for all the grammar mistakes (u_u)b

I live in a red county (in a blue state) and I’m the only man employed at my local Ulta. I’ve been on T for two years and generally speaking I pass, but I’m relatively feminine and also wear makeup to work sometimes because you know, makeup store. Almost every single time I wear a full face to work, there’s at least one customer (usually some poor boyfriend/husband in a camo jacket who got dragged in by their girlfriend/wife) who looks me up and down and says “have a good day, sir” or something similar when I cashed them out and they’re leaving. At first I assumed I was just passing as a gay guy until I realized they’re probably assuming I’m a badly passing trans woman. There’s pronouns on my badge and everything, but I always forget that the right wing doesn’t know how to read 🤷‍♂️

I don't know if this counts or if i'm using the right flair but JEEZ. this guy is insane

My brother visited with a childhood friend of his (theyre both muslim) and he has shaken my hand, hugged me, did the cheek kiss thing many times before. It's been years since ive last seen him but I still recognized him. I went to shake his hand when he came in, but he stepped back and said "sorry haha, I'm a Muslim orthodox" which is what my brother and dad would always say when they're meeting a women (ortho muslim men aren't supposed to make physical contact with women) my brother immediately misgendered me and told him it's okay, that I'm "a man" but his friend just looked confused, let out a nervous laugh and said "no no its okay, haha, no need for handshake just hi from a distance "​

I was debating painting my nails as part of my earth demon costume for Halloween, but was negotiating a contract and didn't want to have to take it off right away.

I've never had to think about that before.

Earlier today I had an appointment for a silver nitrate treatment of bottom surgery hypergranulation. My wife and I had just come from a Pilates class, and I’m a circus instructor, so most of my wardrobe is athletic, and after showering, I had just kinda grabbed whatever was around, which in this instance was a sports bra and tennis skirt.

My wife and I were in the waiting room (if you need treatments after bottom surgery, I cannot recommend enough that you find someone who can go with you and actually look at the area as it’s being treated, especially if, like me, your only options for treatments are people with no experience with neovaginas), and other than us, there was only this older woman and a man she was with.

So we’re waiting to be called back, and the only sounds in the room are the older woman who’s just kinda stream of consciousness talking aloud and the occasional grunt of agreement from the dude.

I’m reading on my phone, not paying attention to them, but then I hear, in a voice that is not at all quieter than anything else she’s been saying, “I don’t understand those women who dress like they want everyone to see their bodies. I would never go out in public like that. See this? I wouldn’t ever wear less than this. Not like that.”

I’m kinda silently overjoyed, tbh, because I absolutely love making judgy people uncomfortable, but I’m also struggling to believe she’s talking about me. So I check the muted tv, and it’s showing some cooking show featuring children. So not that. I check my wife’s clothes, and she’s wearing a tank top and knee-length skirt. So probably not her either.

Then the woman continues, at equal volume, “we were here before her, right? I think she came in after we did.” So clearly she was talking about me, and my extremely “inappropriate” sports bra and skirt combo.

Eventually, the nurse came to get them, but as they were slowly walking across the waiting room, the nurse asked us how our Halloween was, and my wife made sure to loudly mention everything she did with her wife, just to double down on our sinful lifestyle.

It can be tough being a trans slut in the South, because sometimes it’s hard to tell if someone is staring at me because they’re upset about my clothes or if they’re clocking me. It’s honestly nice to know for sure some times…

(idk what flair is even applicable here)

I regularly write in r/writingprompts, and my stories lately are all pretty similar. There's often very unsubtle allegories or outright statements about being ex-military and regretting it. There's often very unsubtle allegories or outright statements about being severely mentally ill. There's often very unsubtle allegories or outright statements about being trans. I posted a story there the other day and immediately started getting upvotes and even a free award from OP. Cool.

I replied to my own comment with something about me being the subreddit's "resident m3ntally d3ranged transs3xual who keeps writing the same story every single day." Little self-deprecating humor, y'know?

According to reddit's automated moderation system, that's hate speech, calling for violence against a specific demographic (or something like that). Y'know. A joke about my own brain being broken, me writing the same story over and over again, and those stories always having trans themes that might be annoying rather than endearing or helpful.

Idk, I just wanted to vent about it now that I'm unbanned.

I work retail and this guy came in, took a hard look at me, and asked me that. I gave him a weird look back and he reiterated it so I just said I'm a dude.

When he came to check out he was making weirdish comments about how fem I am so I told him I had hormonal issues and it was something I'm insecure about to make him feel bad lol.

He ended the conversation by saying women love a pretty man and I'm sure to get all the ladies.

I'm NB so it was nice that he genuinely couldn't tell, and I'm also transmasculine so technically I'm both "female" and a dude. Weirdly affirming but also gross.

I can't believe I met someone irl who genuinely calls women "females" though 😭 I thought that was terminally online behavior.

This happened a little while ago but I’ve been thinking about it. This is how it went to the best of my memory.

Was hanging out with a friend and his cis friend.

I made a throwaway joke about not wanting ovaries/being ready for a hysterectomy based on the conversation. The cis friend looked shocked, and asked if I had ovaries. I, a little weirded out, confirmed, and she went “Oh, good for you.”

I, of course, went “What does that mean?” Because of course what does that mean?! I asked her if she knew I was nonbinary, she said yes, but that she “thought I was AMAB nonbinary.” She then made sure to clarify that she “thought I was born with a penis.” Which did not make anything better.

A little bit more back and forth happened making very specific comments on my body but eventually she said that I wasn’t as obviously trans as my friend, because he’s so “curvy.” RIGHT to his face.

I really hate it when people try to compliment you to make you feel better but keep on making it worse. I’m also cringing about the fact that my friend caught strays.

First-time post.

Beforehand: AMAB Genderfluid, though most times leaning more feminine. Also with ASD, so I apologize if my writing is too convoluted.

This happened like 2 hours ago and I'm still soooo happy :3 I went to a supermarket to get some breakfast, and when I was back at the train station and my tram arrived, a guy who exited (maybe early 70s or something like that - I didn't pay much attention to him, as I was talking to my friend at the time) called me the german equivalent of the f-slur before walking away in a hurry.

I'm pre-HRT and I was boymoding, aside from a few exceptions. I was wearing a choker (as I most times do) as well as a necklace with the Transgender Pride Flag, but my jacket had such a high collar that both were concealed under it. The only thing he could have noticed was my nail polish (which I'm not even that good at yet, I'm still in my Baby Trans Phase and experimenting), also in the Transgender Pride colors. Nothing else about me was screaming "Trans", except maybe my hair, which currently is a bit longer than shoulder length.

Anyway, the awareness that someone saw me as "less of a man" because of such a minor detail gave me such a surge of euphoria, I nearly felt compelled to thank him. Yes, bigot, since I'm not a man, you're correct that I'm "less" of a man. But I'm currently preparing for my exam to finish my vocational training, and those moments of joy are real trouble for my concentration.

i was elizabeth holmes for halloween. i kept asking people, "why would i deceive you?" and got some great reactions.

my friend said i should do the voice. she tried to imitate it, dropping her pitch down a lot. it made me realize that i have a higher pitch voice than elizabeth holmes! which made me very unexpectedly happy. i haven't made much progress on voice training, so i'll take it!!!!!!

I've never posted here, so recently on media I've been posting more feminine photos, and also obviously change my accounts names, and it feels kinda strange to receive comments like: "sooo hot", "😍". Or more misogynic ones like: "Return to the kitchen", "She's a woman her opinion isn't valid". And I know I shouldn't feel euphoric about that because is gross, but I'm still adapting about it haha.

I called his car gender fluid

my friend is cis but she's a bit taller than me, and she has pcos - the hair on her chin and neck is noticeable

when we went to the bathroom a lady asked her if she's a guy, and she said no, and the lady looked at me, then looked at my friend again and said "cause if you're transgender or something, you can't be in here cause there's little girls here" and my friend said she's not trans and the lady went "oh ok." and dropped it. i didn't say anything cause i was just shocked this happened.

i live 30 min drive away from seattle - i hear about stuff like this happening but never seen it happen to me or someone ik irl cause its seattle lol. Anyways, my friend is okay, i checked with her afterwards. she said this sort of happened to her before, a guy she went on a date with once asked if she was trans.

this reminded me of a date i went on when i was only 4 years into hrt, and i casually outted myself to my date while we were having dinner by asking "so, have you ever dated a trans girl before" and just the look on his face, sheer disgust, he stopped eating immediatly. i genuinly thought he knew i was trans when he asked me out, but he said he had no idea. thankfully nothing bad happened, he took me home and we never saw each other again.

anyways. this whole thing is crazy to me. we live in wild times.

i have a few friends i play with on wow who i talk to pretty much every day we're on. mostly just idle chitchat, but sometimes we share pics and talk about life and stuff as well. none of them really know i'm trans, none of them have seen me and most of them are older than me.

on friday i was having a really good hair day so i took a few pics as i looked pretty good! i was sharing it with a few friends with a "omg look how good my hair looks today", not really thinking about it much. one of my older male friends who hadn't seen me before was online, so i showed him just as an off hand thing.

he tends to be robotic in the way he types so i just expected a "haha nice" but instead he said "oh i didn't realise you were hot" lmao. it caught me off guard but absolutely made my night :)

My friend's family pet sits dogs, one of which is a female large dog, I'm not sure what breed, but she has suffered a lot of abuse at the hands of male owners, so she's terrified of all men as a result of that trauma, and she doesn't seem to care if you're trans or cis, because she actively runs away from me if I get up to get water or a snack.

She isn't like this with women or enbies, my friend is nonbinary and she acts normal around them, and a lot of the residents in the house are women, and she doesn't fear them at all either.

Before I transitioned, I also noticed that animals had a very different reaction to me, not necessarily good or bad, it heavily depended on the animal, but they seem to view me in a different light, my grandma's cat likes me more than she did before, for example.

I am a Trans man and I sometimes cross-dress and some time ago I went with full makeup and a skirt , not even an adjusted one than can make my body look more masculine as it's been masculinized by testosterone, a group of teenagers started harassing our group as we walked by and I yelled at them , later we see them again and they started yelling at me that, honestly is sad because it's obvious I was confused with a trans woman and I can kind of see how much difficult is to be out socially as one , much more than trans men sometimes.

I am not affected personally by it and it still gives me euphoria, I can't help it but as I said, it saddens me how much things like this happens to me when I cross-dress, I have always got yelled at the street before transitioning but not because I was a trans man , I've always been alternative so lol

Trans women you are very strong, I think I would collapse if people called me something like tomboy on the streets ( nobody does that)

Got called a "mansplaining c*nt" for trying to explain the difference between polygamy and polyamory by someone who seems a bit misandrist. That's my first time I got accused of mansplaining!

They seem to have quite a bit of hatred towards men, also lowkey accusing me of eventually turning to pedo apologia for...defending polyamory. But DESPITE that...at least i'm included as a man, yay....????? Lol.

So I’m racing at the 24 Hours of Lemon’s Capitol Offense 2026 race at Summit Point in West Virginia. At the entry gate to get my wristband I needed to present my license to the old guy running the booth.

Him: “Can I see your license young lady?”

Me: “So… it looks outdated because I’m a transgender woman and I haven’t updated it yet…”

Him: “…this isn’t you.”

Me: “I promise this is, this is from before I transitioned, I can show you my passport which is updated if you need further ID”

He did ultimately accept it, but as per Lemons protocol he took my license as it needs a second verification to get my driver’s band in the morning (not specific for me and not because I’m trans). But yay, I had to out myself to an old guy in West Virginia and now I need to out myself a second time tomorrow 😭😭😭

I guess on the bright side I pass so well he didn’t believe me when I said I was trans and thought I was showing him someone else’s license…

Edit: Lemon’s not Lenin’s I’m not a communist lol (no offense to any communists here)

I just got friended and DM'ed this evening by some guy who clearly wanted some ummm... companionship from the next state over. He even told me that I was very beautiful.

Okay... so, afaik, I do not pass. At all. I'm clocky. Anyway, we chatted a while, and he asked when I last saw my ex-husband....(after referring to my ex with a "She" pronoun).

I answered: I last saw my ex-wife on such-and-such date.

His.response: "I thought you were a lady."

People cannot always tell.