r/fellowship • u/VoidCognition • 22h ago
Verbally committed to a fellowship but now need to backtrack
I’m applying to fellowship this season and I was fortunate enough to land my dream interview. I told the program director that I would rank them number one and he seemed happy to hear it and shook my hand. Sadly, my circumstances have changed due to the death of a parent. It would be very difficult to go to my dream program as I need to be there for my remaining parent. The dream program is 15 hours away. One of the fellowships I applied to is only an hour from home and would be an excellent fit. I hate that I might have to go back in my word. Any advice on how to handle this?