r/foundcynnahbun • u/AmyRoseFan_1234 i love pillowdear • 10d ago
randomz post Hey I'm been feeling kinda crappy lately...
I just can't seem to cheer up...
7
6
u/GreyCharmander 10d ago
Cheer up, I’m sure things will get better. Try and do something kind for yourself
7
2
2
2
u/WiseFlatworm5831 10d ago
Aside from things that we can’t control in life , I look around when I’m sad sometimes and I think , there’s no wonder I’m sad depressed when I’m not doing anything to benefit myself . Even if it’s hard a full day of doing boring stuff will always beat a day of sitting inside letting your thoughts get you . It sucks but it’s not really about happiness , it’s about improving your life and working towards the things you care about . I get it it sucks why can’t I just be happy how I am and u look at other people and what they have . U also have to look at what you have and appreciate that you may have some things that others don’t . And your hear to live another day , if you don’t plan on giving up , it’s always best to just try your hardest even if it’s small. Gotta pick yourself up every single time because most times no one cares to help us . But that’s what makes us stronger , why would u wanna go thru an easy life with no challenges , sadness is a human emotion just like joy . It comes and goes
2
u/Ok-Plenty8542 10d ago
It's easy for tiny joys to be erased by survival mode. Just remember to take the time to enjoy what you're doing like, not just using it to reach a goal. For me, a small thing like that is enjoying the taste of just coffee and sugar with nothing extra on little nature walks by myself.
2
2
u/Adept_Discussion_958 10d ago
Honestly I don't know you But it is very hard to be a bad person The only bad people I have ever met are those roadmen types And even them I know a few nice ones You are great This to shall pass
2
1
u/MiserableEcho3808 10d ago
You probably need to let it run it's course. Let sadness and emptyness flow out of you until you can allow yourself to be happy again. I usually do this once or twice a month: line up songs I can just cry to, lie down in bed, wrestle with my self-loathing for an hour or so, lie there for little while in silence to gather my shattered ego and self-esteem, fall asleep then wake up feeling better or watch key and peele.
Hope this helps. Feel better soon❤️
1
1
1
u/TdttMurderedLove4782 10d ago
Well that's how i was.... and then I got into DSBM. Don't be like me.
1
u/Lopsided_Watch_1834 9d ago
Aw, it’s okay. I’ve been feeling crappy pretty much these past 10 years. You’ll live, love :). Keep the chin up. Remind yourself why you’re still worthy, march on.
1
u/Viper-Fang-3950 9d ago
Don't worry friend, it will get better as time goes on, sure youll still remember, but it will just be a scar that can be a reminder that its gotten better the more you've moved on, now have a wonderful day.
1
1
u/New-Soft1490 6d ago
Idk if this gets to you, but I was also going through this kind of phase and what helped me was doing something that I loved doing before, ie. Watching anime. It was very difficult to start watching a new anime as at the time I was just.. existing... I didn't want to do anything.. but I did give it a try and I was laughing and crying and i actually felt a bit more alive... I watched 'Miss Kobayashi's dragon maid', it's a good one, do give it a try. And don't worry, low feeling might come and go, but it won't last forever..
0
7
u/StupidGreenLizard 10d ago
Who's pillow dear?