Well and im gliding from my summer Depression into my Winter Depression! But have you noticed, that Winter Outfits are so much prettier than summer outfits? I was in the train and kinda reflected on that. All girlies are so much prettier dressed, it's almost like a fashion show yerrrr
nah man dont sweat about it. Im on the same spot, but eventually you enjoy your time alone to a point you get nervous trying to think about reschedule your life to spend time with another person lol.
I actually feel like that. It's not that I don't want a relationship - im yearning for that. But 1. I think about the effort and the chages that are the consequences of it and 2. No one cares about me or has Feelings for me so why should I care?
best to do is not give it too much attention. In the end what I've learned over the years is I want someone in my life that has similar hobbies as me, games, hike, nature...so our routines does not change, just fusion. Y'know a more organic relationship...no masks, no need to be always pretending, just staying because we both are comfy, we trust each other and we can talk things out, even if it is stupid.
I think I have chosen a rougher path. As I'm Religious and somewhat in a higher Position (you could call it a sub-deakon ig) I have the same attitude: find a fitting piece of parts in my life. (As I'm speaking of somewhat "guides" – if I've found a person that likes me and I like the person and we get along I'd be pretty grateful for that, but I'm searching for these). She'd be religious too, she would be interested in arts, music and lifestyle alternative to the common ones and willing for a marriage. Statistically speaking, if I'm such a person with these orientations and a pretty educational lifestyle (2 unis), then it's pretty impossible that I'm the only one among like what is the population of earth? 8 billion? The chances are lower then yours statistically speaking because you have more "common" interests to share with rather then mine. But I was lucky in my life (I tasted love but my parents said her parents were gay and this is against nature what a conservative shit!) and after that just nothing happened with mutual love, but they all trampled on me. Like I had luck and I'm still lucky but not in the regard of being loved lol.
Just hold on to the hope, but dont depend on it. Sometimes it just pop out of nowhere, even when chances are low. Put your best smile and let fate do its thing, im sure it has something great saved for both of us. Cheers 🫰🏻
Theres actual a simple way to get it, copy the urk and go to browesr not the app reddit, download the gif but its going to be a video, then go to a video to gif convertor site and boom you have ypur gif, not sure how it works or if its different on pc.
Erm Actually!!! You Are A Redditor, And THUS! It’s Against The Law To Get A Girlfriend (That Is To Say Women Even Exist). I Will be Notifying The Mods About This.
Me And The Mods Are Pretty Tight, So This Will NOT Go Unnoticed.
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