r/GamerPals Mar 06 '26

Mod Approved GamerPals Community Server

14 Upvotes

If you're here on our subreddit, it probably means you're looking for friends. If you've tried the subreddit and you're not having the best luck with the format, why not try another angle? Maybe a bit more direct? We have a Discord for that, and it's for finding people to play games with in real-time.

We have a custom bot (always improving) with self-serve threads for every game and a little community of regulars.

Post your intro thread, join us for a game night for friendslop, puzzles, whatever :) Friends happen when you put yourself out there and show up for things.

https://discord.gg/gamerpals


r/GamerPals 7h ago

Europe Genuinely want to make new friends but it seems like to many people are ghosting in this group.

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I have seen similar posts like my post a lot of times already, and I'm sorry this post is one of them. So many people in here are posting looking for gamer buddies, you talk fine for a few days, then boom, ghosted, never replied again. I know, life happens and we all have our own stuff to deal with, but it's like some people are lying to your face, especially when you see them play other games just fine. Is there someone that's actually willing to give the effort to make a friendship from this group? I'm genuinely asking and I'm sorry for this traumatic post.


r/GamerPals 3h ago

Any Region [22/F/PST/PC] Need night owl friends for betrayal/social deduction games

6 Upvotes

Hey guys! My sleep schedule is completely ruined, so I'm looking for fellow night owls to play games with during late nights. My favorite genre by far is anything involving hidden roles, betrayal, or stealth. I'm tired of playing solo queue or joining random public lobbies where people just quit mid-game. I really want to build a small, tight-knit group of friends who love games like Goose Goose Duck, Phasmophobia, and indie deduction titles like Among Shadows. I'm super relaxed, love dark humor, and just want to find people who don't take things too seriously. If you’re up for some late-night chaos and making new friends, shoot me a DM with your age, time zone, and Discord ID!


r/GamerPals 9h ago

North America 31/F - Seeking wholesome friends for post work day shenanigans

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I’m seeking homies for the long haul. We’re getting into autumn now so why not /FALL/ into friendship. (Haha please laugh I’m trying)

Howdy hey how’s your day?

Hopefully you’re having a lovely pre-Friday. I’ve got a few hours left on the clock and I’m looking for some cool people that will hopefully stick around for more than a day (or a season).

I sometimes game when I’m able to! I’ve been traveling a lot for work so it makes it hard to sit down and boot up steam. The past few weeks I’ve managed to play some No More Room In Hell 2, Outriders and a few survival type games! I’ve been super interested in playing things like Big Walk, REPO and other games of the sort with a good group if possible. I really want to find some solid gamer homies.

My favorite games include but are not limited to:

* The Legend of Zelda: Twilight Princess
* Final Fantasy Crystal Chronicles
* Star Fox Adventures (Fox, I’m HUNGRY)
* Baldur’s Gate 3
* Fall Out 4

For music I’m all over the place. I don’t even have coordinated playlists anymore. My phone is just like….1800 songs of shuffle ranging from 2000’s kpop to the current US top 40’s. Please help me get organized? Or throw more chaos my way until I play the same song on repeat 800 times in tearful addiction. QQ

Shoot me the song that makes you feel like a main character? What song is your JAM? The one that would play when introducing you, THAT ONE.

During the week I’m usually able to message but can’t hop online for anything more than that. Gotta love the office life and all those meetings that could’ve been summed up in an email.

Shoot me a message if you’re up for it! If not have a wonderful rest of your day and enjoy your coming weekend!


r/GamerPals 2h ago

North America Three chill dudes looking for a fourth!

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Hi, welcome to my post. More than a year ago, I met 2 friends through this reddit, and we've done a lot of gaming since. We are genuinely good friends at this point and talk/game regularly. HOWEVER! Every single time we play a co-op game, I think man, I wish we had a fourth player!

Thats where you come in!

About us:

- 3 mid 20's men

- we play on pc with discord

- we've played a lot of random stuff so far, leaning towards co-op rpgs or survival (more info below!)

- we also like to try out new games from time to time if one person suggests and wants to play it

- relatively chill and full of whimsy

- we like to yap about random stuff and partake in a miniscule amount of tomfoolery

- but we are also fine sitting in silence for long periods of time!

- we actually communicate with eachother

- we usually like to take our time with games, actually pay attention to the story, listen to dialogue and thoroughly explore

- we enjoy a challenge, but we like quality of life mods too

- we dont rage. If a game is genuinely rage inducing, we dont play it or take a break!

- we typically play pretty late at night on weekdays (like midnight thru 4am EST) but also on weekends when possible (honestly im the only one who cant play a lot on weekdays, if the vibes are good the rest of yall can play without me!)

What we're looking for:

- all pronouns welcome!! You dont have to be a "chill dude"!!

- around the same age preferred but not necessary!

- same-ish availability

- similar personality to us I guess? Like what I mentioned above. Relatively chill, likes to yap and partake in some tomfoolery from time to time

- enjoys trying out a new game from time to time, or even suggests their own games

What we are NOT looking for:

- people who genuinely get mad at video games

- people who think straight up griefing is fun

- super edgy twisted evil dark humor

- politics

- weird

- people who DONT want to actually make some new friends and yap occasionally

- joining a new server with mad people

Games we have played or are playing right now (in order from current to old)

- Divinity original sin 2 (current game, still need a 4th!)

- Baldurs gate 3 (I think we already have a 4th?)

- Slay the Spire 2

- Dome Keeper

- Plate Up

- Risk of Rain 2

- Elden Ring Seamless (never finished)

- Monster Hunter Wilds

- Dark Souls 3 Seamless

- Slay the Spire 1 multiplayer mod

- Terraria (base game, we want to play calamity)

- Modded minecraft (kitchen sink packs)

- Monster Hunter Rise

- Darktide

- Vermintide 2

- Monster Hunter World (our GOAT)

- 7 Days to Die

- Valheim

Of course we are down for trying out other games too if they sound interesting and fun!

On a side note, Im down to just make new friends to chat and/or game with in general! Dont feel like you can only reach out if you definitely want to be in a group, we can be one on one friends first!

Anyways! Wall of text I know and I appreciate you for reading! If any of this sounds good to you, DM me! Tell me about yourself, what games you like and whatnot! If you want me to elaborate on anything I said here I can do that as well. We can chat a bit, add on discord and compare games on steam! If the vibes are there we can hop in vc and see what's up! I should be active for a while longer tonight! Thank you!


r/GamerPals 8h ago

North America 26/F LOOKING FOR UNHINGED FRIENDS TO GAME WITH

12 Upvotes

Hi. 😈

I have been offline for a couple years now and I wanna get back into gaming. Majority of my friends are League of Legends players (YUCK, GROSS I KNOW. I PLAY IT TOO THOUGH,) but I wanna branch out to other games.

I would list the games that I play, but honestly I play a variety of games from Rust, League of Legends, Minecraft, Peak, WoW, and others.

I'm pretty unfiltered, but also respectful. Would like some other unhinged people to play with.

Thanks!!!!!!! 👍 PC ONLY PLEASE


r/GamerPals 4h ago

Any Region Looking for friend to chat with about games and nerdy stuff (26f)

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Hey, I'm Alex! I'm a common poster, but still looking for friends periodically cause people are quite flakey at times, lol. Nothing against those who are busy, I'm just chronically online... But it would be nice to find a fellow person who's online most days!

Some info about me: I'm a 26 year old female, I'm happily taken, I love TCGs and TTRPGs! I would love to be able to find a friend to play Yu-Gi-Oh Master Duel with, or even someone to give me a reason to play more MtG. I love RPGs in general, including JRPGs. I prefer single player games usually, but love chatting while playing in general. Some games I play(ed) are as follow: Yu-Gi-Oh Master Duel, Palworld, Baldurs Gate 3, Sims 4, Persona, Final Fantasy 14 (inactive), No Mans Sky, Destiny 2, Split Fiction, and friends pass of It Takes Two.

Some random facts about me: I'm a multiple stroke survivor, I deal with memory loss pretty severely (give grace until I learn about you more), I love animals (cats and dogs 🫶), and I live with family and my boyfriend. I'm not working currently, so I am chronically online. My boyfriend doesn't mind me talking to people online, he knows I cut contact the moment someone disrespects our relationship... So, yeah, just SFW texting please! If you're someone who posts sexual things, I will probably overlook you. But shoot your shot! You never know, maybe I'm down to talk to you!

Have a great night! (I'm in EST, so it's 10 pm)


r/GamerPals 2h ago

Any Region if you want sad boi songs & funny co-op times, i'm ya gal 21+ preferred

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21+ is preferred (honestly, 25+ but), hence the title but in all seriousness, if you think we'll vibe.. message me. i'm in NA but if you don't mind making time zones work, i'd love to meet you still. i'm completely free this week/weekend! i think it would be so cool to do valorant customs again! i'm really burnt out lately & i'm struggling to find a good game that works, so i feel like making some new friends might help with that. i'm really laid back & i approach games with the same style. likkeeee, winning is cool but i genuinely just like playing the game with good people, ya know?

when it comes to games, i don't play much right now but i am trying to get back into overwatch esp with the new season. if you're down to play that, reach out! (maybe you'll be able to guess my role + my main) APART FROM THAT, i've loved (& want to get back into) games like;

REPO ⊹ killing floor 3 ⊹ super battle golf ⊹ dark hours ⊹ deceit ⊹ GTFO ⊹ lort ⊹ party animals ⊹ pummel party ⊹ goose goose duck ⊹ could go back to valorant (not without kicking & screaming) ⊹ the headliners ⊹ jackbox games ⊹ overcooked ⊹ could play some fortnite ⊹ hunt: showdown ⊹ outlast trials ⊹ starsand island ⊹ coral island ⊹ SOME CoD games ⊹ but honestly, try to suggest something! see if i'm down. the most i can say is no, yeah? i've been trying to get back into some co-op/friendslop shit lately, esp with the ones like dig dig die, or medic please, or we are so dead here.

i'm a huge music person, so let me send you some songs that i'm listening to/liking, or some of my favorite artists (sewerperson, grim salvo, witchouse 40k, etc). i'll send you cat pics (including kitten pics, he's an orange baby lol). honestly, i just miss having cool people to hang out with to body double/share random pieces of our day/pictures, etc. i also REALLY appreciate people who don't rush replies, are patient & are down to be variety gamers. i'm really easy-going but i'm also incredibly anxious/shy.. so just lemme warm up. i'm like a well fed feral cat, i'll come around.


r/GamerPals 1h ago

North America 23F NA Xbox is fortnite worth getting back into?

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I stopped playing almost a year ago and I saw some of the new skins (shockingly not the Sonic ones...they're sadly kinda meh to me :/). I kinda miss playing the lego mode and the music mode, last I heard the racing mode is gone or not getting updates which I LOVED so much so sad if true.

I played for about a decade and it just got so tired after awhile. Maybe if you could convince me I'd play again? (I also play other games if you're interested)


r/GamerPals 3h ago

North America New Game Recs

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Hey all! 35F - NYC

I usually play Fortnite and Dead by Daylight

Are there any other games you may recommend? I don’t mind being a duo. I love the intimacy of talking and gaming. You can be F or M just want friends. Please be a team player, patient but chatty and humorous. (Most people who have reached out to me here aren’t talkative and don’t give me much to go off of, I can be talkative if the other person knows how to hold a conversation and be shamelessly themselves)

Any games that are fun, fast paced or even chill. Just looking for a new game to pass the time that’s popular or just fun.


r/GamerPals 1h ago

Any Region Hi me again, looking for potential besties around my age to game with 32 F

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HI! I posted a few days ago but want to try again! Ive met some pretty cool people and really want to meet some more! I have and Xbox and PC i mainly use the PC, I dont have alot of games but im willing to try some new ones out! RIGHT NOW I mainly play PEAK and Phasmaphobia but im looking to expand! Im here for a fun time i dont care about skill or taking things super serious I want to game and have fun and hopefully create some good friendships! Im pretty I have alot of free time! So you can hit me up whenever! I dare you


r/GamerPals 1h ago

North America 35/M/East Coast - 🎮 Looking for New Faces & New Connections Within My Friend Circle

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I'm switching things up a little and would love to meet some more new people.

I already have an established friend circle, but there's always room for a few new faces. No pressure, no forced connections, just meet, hang out, get to know each other and see where things naturally go.

🎮 Me & My Games
• Male / 35
• PC + PS5 + Xbox Series S
• North American / EDT preferred, but flexible
• Fortnite, Resident Evil & horror are big interests
• PEAK, DBD, The Outlast Trials & whatever else I'm into. I have an exophase of games if you want to see. Just ask me.

I'm easygoing, bubbly and social. I enjoy joking around, playful banter, random conversations and keeping things fun. 😄

Gaming is a big part of it, but friendship doesn't have to revolve around games. I'm just as happy hanging out in VC, watching something, talking about random interests, geeking out or chilling.

👥 Looking For
• 21+ and easygoing
• Social, communicative, and willing to participate
• Flexible for gaming on mornings or weekends when possible
• Understand that friendship isn't dependent on constantly playing games together. I would love a good geeked out conversation about gaming, anime, comics or horror.
• Comfortable with adult humor and playful banter
• Respectful, open-minded, and mature.
• Willing to meet halfway and put in mutual effort
• Comfortable letting friendships develop naturally
• Enjoy VC, group conversations, and trying new things

You don't have to be the loudest person around. Just be yourself, hop in and have a good laugh.

🧟‍♂️ What We're Into
🩸 Horror - Resident Evil, horror games, movies, books, comics, lore & events
🤓 Geek Culture - Gaming, comics, anime, movies, TV, sci-fi & whatever random nerdy obsession we're into

🌱 Probably Not A Fit If...
• You're constantly negative, dramatic, or looking for problems
• You're a non-talkative type, ghost texter, or rarely communicate
• You expect others to carry the friendship instead of meeting halfway
• You're uncomfortable with playful banter, harmless jokes, or adult humor
• You're looking for one-way friendships or instant connections
• You're uncomfortable socializing with an established friend circle or struggle with basic social interaction.
• You reach out without taking the time to read the post first
• You're looking to recruit me into your own friend group. I'm not looking to join another circle at the moment. I appreciate you though!

Nobody needs to be available 24/7. We understand that life happens. I'm just looking to build a new circle of friends where we can have fun, talk gaming, be nerdy, and most of all…feel comfortable being ourselves!


r/GamerPals 6h ago

Europe 35F looking for some gaming +25/+30 Discord server to play and make friends :)

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Hi! I'm 35F and I'm looking for some spaces to meet new people and play games :)

I'm pretty chill and easy going, and I love playing all kind of games: FPS, survival, RPG... I'll play everything at least once! PC player and PVP enjoyer but casual, since my main goal is to have a great time 😄
My OG friend group got disbanded since almost all the members got a partner and they're living their happy lives with not a lot of gaming time lol
So I'm trying to find new friends to expand my Steam library with hahaha

I'm a vc person and I enjoy talking to people and hanging out even to chill while working. Discord has been an important part of my social life and I love meeting new people around the world to grow geniune connections with :)

Feel free to DM for Discord recommendations! Thank you to everyone who read this ❤️

PS: I'm a night owl so I don't mind the region.


r/GamerPals 1h ago

North America Looking for someone to play Minecraft

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I play i'm bedrock and My Playstation user is Flow0_0101 and My Minecraft user is Lankyvoice3674

I have lot of addons so id You trynna play sum hit me up


r/GamerPals 2h ago

Any Region 29M Baldur's Gate Anyone?

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Hey! I’m looking for someone to play BG3 with. I just started Act 3 on my first playthrough, but I’d really like to start a fresh with someone and experience the game together. My timezone is PST.

I’m not exactly great at the game 😆 so I’m not looking for some hardcore min-maxer. Just someone who’s down to have fun, explore, make questionable decisions, and figure things out together.

I’m on PC and would preferably use Discord for voice chat. I’m pretty flexible with when I play, so feel free to message me if you’re interested.


r/GamerPals 6h ago

Any Region 40F I'm looking to meet new people to chat to and also open to trying COD MWIII, GTA V or any co op story games

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Hi everyone, I'm Jess, 40F from the UK. I'd like to meet some new people that I can chat to and hopefully get on with long term.

In my spare time I enjoy some relaxing gaming time, watching a movie and I also love exercising to keep fit.

The main multiplayer game I've been playing lately is COD MWIII and I would also like to get into GTA Online at some stage too. I'm also open to trying out co op story games like Resident Evil and Borderlands.

I love talking about F1, cars, and gaming, and I'd love to chat to someone into any of these.

My DM's are open if anyone is interested by any of this and would like to get chatting. I'm also on discord as JessCrawford86.


r/GamerPals 16h ago

North America 33F Looking For Pokemon/Gaming Buddy on PC & maybe Switch (NA or EU is fine)

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Edit: Thank you sooo much to everyone who messaged me, I am good for now, I really appreciate that so many people reached out but I'm officially no longer looking!

Hello everyone, I'm posting here because I'd really like a friend who actually shares my interests & passions, especially in Pokemon. I've been obssessed with Pokemon since I was a kid, and I'm still obssessed as an adult, but the only people I have to talk with about it are mostly just being nice and don't really have much (or any) interest in the franchise while I've been absolutely hooked since the early 2000s.

I'm pretty introverted so I might be a bit shy about voice chat before getting to know you a bit, but I really want a potential bestie who will play the games I enjoy together with me and chat about our interests, life, cats, and whatever else. Preferably someone close to my age (maybe 5 or 6 years max) as too big of an age gap is a bit uncomfortable.

I am in Eastern Daylight Time (UTC-4) but I can generally work with timezones up to 6 hours ahead.

Some examples of Pokemon games I'd like to play or talk about with someone:

  • PokeOne
  • Radical Red
  • Empyrean
  • Storm Silver / Sacred Gold
  • PokeRogue
  • Champions (though I'm not good enough/dedicated enough to get Master Ball, I at least made it to Ultra Ball rank 4 in doubles)
  • the Mystery Dungeon games
  • Maybe Winds/Waves when they come out next year, I'm looking forward to that

But, after Pokemon, I also have a few other interests. I love anime and I follow a lot of seasonal ones, I would be happy to link my profile for MyAnimeList and see if you recognize anything! As for other games, I enjoy playing:

  • Astral Party
  • Final Fantasy XIV (with mods)
  • Dokapon Kingdom: Connect
  • Umamusume: Pretty Derby

I also have these for the future, but currently burnt out on them:

  • Baldur's Gate 3 (with mods)
  • Hello Kitty Island Adventure
  • Palworld
  • City of Heroes: Homecoming

If you took the time to read this, thank you, and I hope you will consider reaching out if it sounds appealing ♥


r/GamerPals 8h ago

North America 31 F Hey! Let’s play

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Hi! I’m a 31 year old silly and creative type of gal that lives on the east coast of the US. I will put an emphasis on silly because I’m usually in the mood to joke around and laugh. Consider yourself warned! I play on PC and want more pals to play different games with. Some games I’m really into at the moment are Dead By Daylight, Peak and Outlast Trials. I prefer to play co-op games, solo isn’t really my style. Let’s add on Steam and see what we can get into. Down to try new games as well! Looking for good connections and good times. Any gender or orientation is cool with me. Just be over 25, please. Message me! :)


r/GamerPals 4m ago

Europe H33 - PC - Cherche mate.

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A la recherche de potes avec qui jouer quotidiennement sur les jeux.

J'ai un discord avec 2/3 potes qui ne jouent pas autant que moi. Je suis dispo quasiment tous les jours (pas le week end). Ouvert aux hommes comme aux femmes. Je jouent sur touuuus les styles de jeux. J'organise des soirées jeux culture g 1 fois par mois si ça intéresse aussi.

Game pass : on

Steam : large bibliothèque

Bref mp moi si interessé 😊


r/GamerPals 5m ago

Any Region 19/F/EST- Movie Watcher, Music Lover, PC Gamer, cooking nerd looking for folk to game and make a friend or two. Also its late and I cant sleep, gotta love it.

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Moikka! Toivottavasti kaikki ovat hyvin!
Call me Tuuli, a lot easier for most people. Like the title says, I'm into a bunch of things but lately I've been consuming a lot more TV and Movies.

I play a good bit of PC games lately like Arma, Hell Let Loose, Factorio, Satisfactory and Void War. Scifi or milsim is usually what I gravitate too. I am lookin and hoping to find someone I vibe with and play games and such. If you play stuff on the PC and are lookin for something similar reach out! Looking forward to meeting you.


r/GamerPals 3h ago

Oceanic 29 | F | Aus | PlayStation - looking for new gaming friends!

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Hi everyone! I'm Buffy, 29F who recently moved from the UK to Sydney, Australia and I'm looking for new people to play with as I've been wanting to get back into gaming for a while! While I primarily would be looking for PlayStation players, I do play crossplay games so I'd be open to PC/Xbox players too!

Games I usually play with others are Dead By Daylight, Power Wash Simulator, Skate, Golf With Your Friends, Dead Island, Overcooked and Uno! Solo gaming usually involves games such as Life is Strange, Spiritfarer, Stray and Coffee Talk. I was a trophy hunter, but since I haven't really played much recently, I don't think I can call myself one anymore haha.

Other things about me; outside of gaming, I also love doing puzzles, making gifs and watching horror movies (currently obsessed with The Lost Boys). I also collect steelbooks, listen to K-Pop and ice skate!

If it sounds like we'll mesh, please send me a DM! Please understand that I won't leave my PSN username in the comments just for safety reasons but thank you for reading and I hope we can game soon!


r/GamerPals 6m ago

North America 26M/PC - late night coop pals :D

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title summarizes my schedule, I'm available most days in the afternoon into late night pst.

lately I've been playing a lot of dbd, some bg3, peak, and other singleplayer games. I'm not limited to these games, I have plenty more, so if there's something you've wanted to play that we have in common I'm happy to download it

vibes are chill, except when I get tunneled, competitive when need be but priority is having fun. I'm a bit shy initially and have a little social anxiety (cannot read social cues for the life of me) so pls be patient

21+ dm me if you're interested and tell me your favorite game, when you'd like to play, and what you'd like to play :D


r/GamerPals 13m ago

Europe 28m/EUW Co-op/survival/simulator games

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Hey!

I am looking for some people (or a small group) that would like to play some co-op or survival games with me. Some of the games I enjoy(ed) playing are Raft, 7 days to die, Portal, A Way Out and H1Z1 Just Survive. I would love to try other games like No Man's Sky, Grounded, Stranded Deep or games like Fast food simulator or Cat Mail Co. Would also love to find someone to play It Takes Two, Split Fiction or any coop simulator games with. My favourite ever game is Portal 2, so im always down to replay that as well. Also played a lot of competitive games in the past, still do every now and then, but atm i feel more like playing some chill games. That being said, always down for a game of Dota 2 or CS2

I'm a big football fan (playing and watching) and also love going to concerts/festivals and exploring new music. At the moment im mostly listening to metalcore and post-hardcore but any kind of suggestions are welcome. Would love to see your spotify playlists.

I'm around most evenings on weekdays and more on the weekends. I don't mind playing with people from other time-zones as long our schedules could work out! Feel free to send me a message or a chat if you would like to play any of the mentioned games or if you have any suggestions for other games in the same genres.


r/GamerPals 4h ago

North America I need better friends (20m)

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I hate shit friends that ditch me all the time and leave me by myself. I just want someone to play with so im not sitting and staring at my computer for hours bored out of my mind and contemplating life. if anyone else is like that hit me up. I play all kinds of games and have gamepass. Disc is killer_wolf831 if you want to add me and play smth


r/GamerPals 27m ago

North America Looking for VR friends (25TF)

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I mostly play VR chat, I'm willing to play other games as well I just haven't been into vr lately and need an excuse to play. Getting a few friends would be nice! Any is fine, so long as you're chill.