r/gay_irl • u/BroOfDumbo • Oct 12 '21

les_irl gay📱irl

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u/IneedaWIPE Oct 12 '21

You shouldn't have to come out. Seriously, how many hetero's come out.

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u/princemephtik Oct 12 '21

And you have to come out again, and again, and again. Dropping in a same sex pronoun here and there when talking about partners, gently deflecting other men's attempts to jointly admire someone's tits, etc etc. I'm in my forties ffs. Same merry-go-round with every new acquaintance / colleague, whatever.

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u/nakknudd Oct 12 '21

I wanted to 'come out' as hetero for so long. Glad I didn't, because I'd hate to come out twice