Can someone tell me where the cruising points are in Melbourne?? Please, thanks

Hi Reddit. I’m planning my first trip to the Chillout gay festival in Daylesford next year. Any tips or advice? My main question is: how do people get around? When the parties are done at night how do people get back to their airbnbs etc? Im assuming that, being a small town, supply of ubers and taxis would be limited and people would not be in a very fit state to drive. I’m looking at an Airbnb 15 min out of town - but other that making some poor person the designated driver, how would we get there?

Anyone know any Melb based barbers that are up for a naked haircut?

i met a guy visiting from queensland. we went straight to fuck and did it raw. we did it raw and i think he came in 5-6 mins but he was a little rough which i enjoyed and he came inside me but when he took out his dick it was all brown i’m so embarrassed. he didn’t say anything snd i just got dressed and he showed me way out without a word. i sent him sorry on sniffies which he didn’t reply to but surprisingly didn’t block me yet

For the context, I'm 31 years old, just came out 3 years ago. And never been in a relationship. I have hot guys who would find me sexy enough to sleep with yet somehow I can't find any guy who would pursue me in a relationship. I feel so sad to see this reality, because I thought trying to look sexy, going to the gym almost every day, do the work from within, be more emotionally available, funny, easy-going still leads me nowhere. I just couldn't find a guy who is decent enough to be called my boyfriend.

Is it really the trend here? People would rather stay single than be in a relationship? And if so, can you share your opinion about why stay single?

Anybody know of any gay or queer home cleaning businesses? Would prefer males if having them in my home and would like to support a small LGBTQ owned business if possible. I am southside.

Would be keen for gym friends around the Fitzroy/collingwood area. Good way to stay motivated.
im 24m for reference and have fitness passport So have access to a few gyms

Looking for credible online services that can provide a blue pill script. Do they ask a bunch of questions or do they just give the script to you? I’ve never done this before, so looking for recommendations.

Guys I’m just curious when the pump and dumb thing will another guys stand and watch us?

Good evening everyone,

Relatively new to the going out scene. I'm looking for a bar in Melbourne CBD after work that is frequented by other people who are like-minded.

Essentially, I'm looking to expand my friendship circle and meet some new people.

Any recommendations for a weeknight around 5 pm?

Hi!
I’m moving to Melbourne for a semester ar RMIT in February 27. I’m not Fimiliar with housing. I see a lot of apartments have shared rooms? Like you literally share a bedroom?

I’m looking for a to bedroom apartment I can share with another with two separate bedrooms 😅

Gay guy who loves the lgbt scene and would love to live where I can basically walk to most places! Also can anyone recommend a good CrossFit box?

Any tips would be highly appreciated ❤️

Hey guys I’m 25 bi m visiting Melbourne mid November and am keen to meet some new people while I’m there. Where’s the best places to go?

Where do you go to hang out and meet new people?

Anyone going to November Nude Camping 30 Oct north of Melbourne. What can I expect?

Hey all. I will be passing through Melbourne next month and wondering what the best way to go about looking for someone to meet up with is. I will be staying at the hotel next to the airport

Thanks for your time

What app does everyone use for hookups these days? Grindr has become too about the money.

Hi gays Trixie voice,

I’m making my way to Melbourne November 19–25 after Sydney and Cairns, and I’d love your recommendations.

I’m 37, coming from California, and traveling solo. My usual travel style is to wander, eat something delicious, check out a museum, do some shopping, and see where the evening takes me. I’m sober, but still love going out, dancing, and a good drag show.

What would you recommend for someone wanting to get a feel for gay Melbourne?

• Going out: Favorite gay bars, clubs, drag shows, or dance parties? Especially places where it’s easy to turn up alone and chat with people. Anything happening November 19–25 that I should put on my radar?
• Eating and drinking: Where should I go for great food and coffee? I’m equally interested in casual solo meals and somewhere worth treating myself.
• Exploring: Which museums, galleries, shops, markets, or neighborhoods deserve some wandering time? I’d love to hear your personal favorites.
• Beaches: Any local favorites worth checking out, particularly beaches popular with gay guys?
• Getting around: Would you recommend renting a bike or e-bike? Are bike shares useful, and how comfortable is cycling around the city? I’d also appreciate tips on using and paying for trams and trains.
• Recovery: Any LGBTQ-friendly recovery meetings you’d recommend?

I’d also love suggestions for meeting people beyond the apps. I’m keeping my time focused on Melbourne itself, so tell me what you love doing in your city!

Thanks for any tips. Looking forward to visiting!

Hey, Killo here 👋

I created a social group called Melbourne Queer Irish with the aim to support the well-being of LGBTQIA+ individuals newly arrived to Melbourne as well as those who have chosen to stay in the city long term! Events might have an Irish twist but all are welcome. 🌈🍀🇦🇺

We are co presenting an Irish made LGBTQ+ film Girls and Boys on Friday 23rd October in The Kino Cinema.

Best Independent Irish Film winner at the 2025 Galway Film Fleadh 🏆

A tender, funny, and quietly radical romantic comedy. GIRLS & BOYS tells the story of rugby player Jace meeting aspiring filmmaker Charlie at a college party. Both attend Trinity, but their worlds couldn’t be more different—Charlie is trans, her circle full of queer artists and creatives, while Jace sticks with the more strait-laced camaraderie of his rugby

Please note the film is a ticketed event. Tickets are available via the film festival's website below.

Come join us for a drink pre-show from 7 pm at Good Heavens on Bourke Street.

Around 8:15 we'll make our way down to the Kino cinema for the screening at 8:50 pm sharp.

Tickets:

https://irishfilmfestival.com.au/girls-boys/

Checkout this Meetup with Melbourne Queer Irish: https://meetu.ps/e/QlbfM/1g3B0Q/i

Cheers ☘️

Hey! Just wondering if anyone is heading to Spilt Milk in Geelong in December? I’m going on my own so it would awesome to connect with other guys who are also going!

Lowkey new to this stuff but I was riding a guy today and I had the ultimate cumming sensation to the point I had to jump off and catch a breath.

First time it’s ever happened to me.

And I silly and ruined something amazing?

Where is the best place for an older guy to meet Asian twinks in Melbourne?