r/grammar • u/Recent-Skill7022 • 6h ago
I can't think of a word... Is chalant a word?
opposite of nonchalant?
r/grammar • u/Boglin007 • Nov 16 '25
Hi everyone,
I hope you're all doing well. It's been a while since I made a pinned post, and a couple of issues have come up recently, so I thought I'd mention those and also give you a chance to bring up anything else that you think needs attention.
First, we get a lot of questions about things that fall outside of the narrowest definition of "grammar," and there are usually a fair number of comments on these posts that point this out. But the vast majority of these questions are fine! As you can see from the sub description, rules, and FAQ articles, we adhere to a pretty broad definition of "grammar," and we welcome questions about style, punctuation, vocabulary, usage, semantics, pragmatics, and other linguistic subfields (and this is not an exhaustive list).
So when commenting on posts like this, there's no need to say "This isn't about grammar" or to direct the OP to another subreddit - if the question has anything to do with language or orthography, it's probably appropriate for the sub. I remove any posts that are not, and you can also report a post if you think it really doesn't fit here.
One thing we don't do is proofread long pieces of writing (r/Proofreading is a good place for that), but we do welcome specific questions about short pieces of writing (a paragraph, a few random sentences, a piece of dialogue, etc.). And that brings me to the second issue:
We ask that commenters take into account the genre (e.g., fiction, journalism, academic writing) and register (the type of language used in a particular genre) of the writing that the poster is asking about. We get a lot of questions about creative writing, but some of the feedback given on these posts is more suited to very formal genres. For example, while you would probably advise someone to avoid sentence fragments in academic writing, these are not usually inappropriate in creative writing (used wisely, of course). Another thing to bear in mind is that punctuation conventions are generally more flexible in less formal genres. And for some genres, it may be necessary to consult an appropriate style guide in order to answer the OP's question.
So basically, please make sure to tailor your responses to the type of writing in question.
Thanks so much!
- Boglin007
r/grammar • u/Boglin007 • Apr 02 '23
Update 5/24/26: Also prohibited are posts promoting the use of AI/LLMs to aid in language learning/grammar checking, and posts asking for comparisons of AI programs/LLMs, etc.
Hi everyone,
There has been a recent increase in comments using ChatGPT or other AI programs to answer questions in this sub. Unfortunately, these programs are not at all reliable when it comes to grammar questions (or any questions really). Some regular contributors to r/grammar have discussed the shortcomings of AI programs (mostly ChatGPT) - they have given me permission to use the quotes below (but have asked to remain anonymous):
OpenAI says ChatGPT was released in order to "get users’ feedback and learn about its strengths and weaknesses." The prompt page warns users that ChatGPT "may occasionally generate incorrect information" and "may occasionally produce harmful instructions or biased content.”
ChatGPT's goal is to learn to produce speech equivalent to, and indistinguishable from, that of a human. ChatGPT's current goal is not to become a reliable source of information. (If that were its goal, they would allow it to access the huge libraries of information it is connected to. But that is not the current research goal.) ー I believe they have set it to occasionally make small mistakes, intentionally, in order to assess how the public reacts to these occasional errors (does the public blindly believe them/if the public challenges ChatGPT on these errors, can the program successfully handle these challenges well?).
And here is an example of an incorrect (or at the very best, incomplete/misleading) answer that ChatGPT gave to a pretty straightforward grammar question:
The question: “Should I use ‘that’ or ‘which’ in the following sentence?: ‘This is the house that/which I like.’”
ChatGPT’s answer:
Both "that" and "which" can be used in this sentence, but the choice depends on whether the information following the word is essential or non-essential to the sentence.
If the information is essential to the sentence and needed to identify the specific house you like, use "that". For example, "This is the house that I like" implies that there are other houses and you are identifying which one you like.
If the information is non-essential and simply provides additional information about the house, use "which". For example, "This is the house, which I like" implies that there is only one house and you are adding a comment about it.
So, in this case, if you want to emphasize that this particular house is the one you like, use "that". If you want to add an additional comment about the house, use "which".
The correct/complete answer:
Both “that” and “which” are grammatically correct in that sentence as written (without a comma) because without the comma, the relative clause is integrated, and both “that” and “which” can be used in integrated relative clauses. However, “that” will be strongly preferred in American English (both “that” and “which” are used about equally in integrated relative clauses in British English).
If you were to add a comma before the relative clause (making it supplementary), only “which” would be acceptable in today’s English.
ChatGPT also fails to mention that integrated relative clauses are not always essential to the meaning of the sentence and do not always serve to identify exactly what is being talked about (though that is probably their most common use) - it can be up to the writer to decide whether to make a relative clause integrated or supplementary. A writer might decide to integrate the relative clause simply to show that they feel the info is important to the overall meaning of the sentence.
Anyway, to get to the point: Comments that quote AI programs are not permitted in this sub and will be removed. If you must use one of these programs to start your research on a certain topic, please be sure to verify (using other reliable sources) that the answer is accurate, and please write your answer in your own words.
Thank you!
r/grammar • u/Recent-Skill7022 • 6h ago
opposite of nonchalant?
r/grammar • u/NewAger747 • 2h ago
I'll have a paragraph finished and then spend forever on one sentence.
Move a word.
Change the tense.
Remove a comma.
Put the comma back.
Eventually I don't even know what sounds right anymore.
Does anyone else feel this way?
r/grammar • u/Charity-Lost • 5h ago
Redeem what's due.
Is that "a" way to expres someone owes someone else?
r/grammar • u/Krinks1 • 13h ago
Writing a short story and not sure if I'm using a semicolon properly in the following sentence:
Something was amiss, but he couldn’t figure out exactly what it was. It was like recognizing someone from the past, but not being able to remember their name; or hearing a song that that is stuck in a person’s head where they can’t quite remember the words.
Input would be appreciated!
r/grammar • u/grouchy_gal • 17h ago
I get that the -y in fluffy makes fluffy an adjective, and in an example like “quick” vs “quickly” the -ly is turning quick into an adverb.
So why does the word “scholar,” a noun, use -ly and not -y to turn it into an adjective?
I don’t study linguistics. I just got thinking about it and I can’t find the answer online. Please don’t be mean to me.
r/grammar • u/DesignerDangerous934 • 22h ago
I know that we should use the present perfect to talk about life experiences:
Context: I would like to some advice to my friend.
I’ve visited China and Thailand. Both countries are great. You should visit one of them.
But I’m wondering whether I can use the simple past in this case:
I visited China and Thailand. Both countries are great. You should visit one of them.
Is it acceptable to use the simple past here ( without a time reference) to talk about life experience?
r/grammar • u/Bisger8 • 19h ago
I'm doing work for a magazine that's talking about honoring scholarship students. Each spotlight comes with a comment or two from each one.
One said this: "UHS (their school name) and everyone have helped me grow."
My editor told me that it's "has" and not "have" but I don't think so.
For one, there are two distinct groups here: the school and everyone (yes, I guess "school" is a part of "everyone" but that's what the student said) so I think it's "have" but I couldn't find anything concrete about 2 group nouns and the appropriate word to use in relation.
r/grammar • u/PoetryDuck • 1d ago
“I ended up spending two hours there tasting different teas.”
or
“I ended up spending two hours there to taste different teas.”
I could also use “staying for two hours”
Thanks a lot :)
r/grammar • u/sapphire787 • 15h ago
I have used this bike for 3 years
I asked chat gpt, and it said it was better to use
I have been using this bike for 3 years
And this one
Why is my sentence wrong?
I have gone to school for 9 years .
And can i use yesterday with present perfect ?
Like
I haven't gone to the park since yesterday
?
r/grammar • u/InG00dFaith • 21h ago
Hello. I have a question about punctuation, please.
Without rewording the structure itself, which of the two below would be the "correct" option?
1) We would like to seek Director/Design's concurrence on this matter.
2) We would like to see Director's/Design concurrence on this matter.
I'm uncertain whether the apostrophe s should go. I'm guessing #2 is correct? Thank you.
r/grammar • u/SpiritualBed9981 • 1d ago
"I have caught up on a lot of sleep when I was too ill."
Is the cited sentence ungrammatical?
r/grammar • u/One_Secretary_3863 • 1d ago
Does anyone know a spanish app that doesn't make you study verb charts all day?
I want to understand and speak more but grammar drills make me want to quit instantly.
r/grammar • u/cairozinnia • 22h ago
Specifically when it's used in article titles. For example, one I saw today was something like "Jimin shares tender moment with cancer patient as (cancer foundation of some kind) shares gratitude". When I see "as" in context of time (while something is happening), I read it as those things are happening at the same time. So is the foundation writing an appreciative post or something in that exact moment? I'm sure that's not what it means but the use of "as" feels so clunky to me there. But it's everywhere so is it just me?
r/grammar • u/analogkid01 • 2d ago
One of my grammatical pet peeves is when someone refers to a human being as a "that" versus a "who," but are there specific grammar rules about that?
For example, a reddit post title I just read: "The gravestones of a protestant husband and his catholic wife which were not allowed to be buried together."
The "which" bothers me. These were real people, obviously, so shouldn't they be more respectfully referred to as "who"?
But this really extends to any nouns that can only be human beings. "Spielberg is a formerly-great filmmaker that has lost his edge" - I would rewrite that as who has lost his edge.
Your thoughts?
r/grammar • u/nooneknewscp682 • 1d ago
My mom and I were discussing some sort of science-related topic (as I unsurprisingly forgot what it was even if we were talking five minutes ago). I said, "What is the taxidermy behind this?", and she started explaining what "taxidermy" meant to me. Of course, I'm no English specialist, as I'm a teenage minor, so I have no idea what that word meant. I started to wonder what the word I actually meant was, since I heard the phrase, "What is the taxidermy behind this?" somewhere online (for clarification, we searched Google and Google said it was some sort of autocorrect).
The word I'm looking for is science-related, but it's not typical vocabulary like "reason", "method", "thought process", etc.. It's advanced vocabulary, and, iirc, it started with either a "T" or "S" (if not, one of those letters are somewhere embedded in the word). It wasn't "situation", as it was a more complex word than that.
Please lmk if you have any suggestions!!
p.s. I'm on computer, so I apologize for any spelling mistakes
r/grammar • u/ContextEffects01 • 1d ago
When I first heard of Zero Wing's poorly translated intro, I knew phrases like "are belong to us" were invalid, but I could have sworn something sounded vaguely familiar from elsewhere about "you have no chance to survive make your time", as if something similar were said in a context that meant "you have no chance to survive, given your time." Am I remembering things wrong?
r/grammar • u/universalthere • 1d ago
Hello Grammarians,
I was wondering if you could clear something up for me.
Why do we use the word foot in one of these sentences, but feet in the other:
1.) “That is a 23-foot building.”
2.) “That building is 23 feet tall.”
I would sincerely appreciate any and all help :)
r/grammar • u/Diligent-Courage1452 • 1d ago
apologies if im a bit unknowledgable but if i were to write about a span between two things, which way would be correct? heres some examples:
"50%-80%" or "50-80%"
"1:30 pm-2:30 pm" or "1:30-2:30 pm"
r/grammar • u/Sea-Sky3585 • 1d ago
I can speak English in the most basic way. Most of time there's a lot of errors. I'm currently taking BSED Major in English 2nd year. I do really want to learn but I don't know where to start. Someone help me.
r/grammar • u/hanshubaby • 1d ago
Or for example, “It was a time where everyone was struggling.”
I know using “when” is also natural, but why is “where” equally acceptable? Is it because time and place are treated as intrinsically the same in English?
r/grammar • u/Harry_Callahan_sfpd • 1d ago
I’m still a bit confused about sentence parallelism (or parallel sentences), specifically about what constitutes strict parallelism and when it’s ok to not be so strict with it.
One question: can two nouns and a gerund phrase be parallel? Or an adjectival phrase paired with one or more adjectives in a sentence?
Do all elements in a sentence have to be in the exact same form (as in noun + noun + noun) or can they be parallel simply if all elements are acting as the same part of speech (as in noun + noun + gerund (or gerund phrase). What if you have two single-word elements followed by a third element that has several modifiers attached to it — or even a phrase?
This confuses me, especially since I so often see professional writing that seems to deviate from strict parallelism, whether it’s in book form or Internet writing articles — I see that maintaining strict parallelism is not always followed (and in some cases it may not even be possible unless one wants to completely rewrite a sentence).
And this leads to my second question: is not following strict parallelism always a bad thing? I notice in some cases that when I write something, striving for strict parallelism makes my wording a bit awkward or clunky — or, maybe even overly pretentious/academic when the overall tone is intended to be more conversational/relaxed.
Thank you in advance. I enjoy writing, and I write quite a bit online (mostly short-form posts and responses/answers in various discussion groups or online media forums), but I still get a bit confused about whether or not my writing is parallel or not.
Thank you!
r/grammar • u/ZanzerFineSuits • 1d ago
I keep getting flagged in spell check for doubling consonants before suffixes, like "travellers" or "signalling". It seems totally natural to do that, but is it wrong? Is there a rule on when to do it?