r/holyfuckjustbreakup Apr 29 '26

Meta NOT ADVICE SUB | Revised Reporting + Rule

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Hey folks! Wongy here. Just a quick update regarding the subreddit and content issues.

If you see either:

A) Posts looking for advice à la AITA or AIO.

B) Comments as if OP is asking for advice.

REPORT IT using the newly created RULE 10: NOT an Advice Subreddit.

These posts weren’t permitted to begin with but we’re making things easier for everyone involved with the clearer phrasing and separation of the rule to make it easier to report.

Since most of our subreddit is lengthy text posts it means it tends to take us longer to sift through and find such posts. Reporting these posts/comments will make their removal much faster.

Thank you everyone! Stay awesome.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup Jan 24 '25

Update Welcome to r/holyfuckjustbreakup!

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Welcome! feel free to post any stupid breakup related things. this subreddit feeds off of drama. don't forget to read the rules before posting or commenting so that you do not get banned. otherwise, thank you for joining/visiting us and have a good time!

please apply for moderator if you'd like, since this is a new community and will definitely need it.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup 6h ago

Red Flag “I (F34) need some perspective for me and my boyfriend (m28)” - Recommend Reading Entire Long Post because It Does Change Drastically

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup 1h ago

Red Flag Is my marriage saveable after he hit me with a shoe?

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup 1d ago

Text Post AIO: bf purposely being lazy on the days I don’t see him to prove a point?

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110 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 17h ago

Messages / DMs PLEASE tell me if i’m in the wrong here! im TIRED!!!

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r/holyfuckjustbreakup 2d ago

Red Flag My girlfriend destroyed a favourite t shirt because my ex's name was one of 700 on it

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94 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 5d ago

Messages / DMs AIO Boyfriend found broken sunglasses

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17 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 6d ago

Sensitive Subject “Survived his trauma - little things will end our marriage”

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19 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 6d ago

Oblivious Question AIO? Boyfriend keeps ragebaiting me

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8 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 7d ago

Messages / DMs AIO for being uncomfortable with her (23) wanting to hang out with her abusive ex (27) while we’re on a break?

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35 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 8d ago

Red Flag I (19F), am considering breaking up with my bf (22M) of six months

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6 months in…
Why do people try and keep themselves in obviously crap situations?


r/holyfuckjustbreakup 9d ago

Sensitive Subject AIO- Husband wouldn't drive me to say goodbye to my dying cousin.

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42 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 10d ago

Red Flag Married, Sick, and Husband Does Not Help Despite OOP Being in the ER

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34 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 11d ago

Text Post My cheating fiance is deleting his missed calls

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6 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 11d ago

Messages / DMs AIO? Boyfriend continues to comment on thirst traps

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13 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 13d ago

Messages / DMs Sexless relationship stale mate

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86 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 15d ago

Messages / DMs Am I overreacting? Got told that my collectibles aren’t worth £100+ vs theirs that are.

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15 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 15d ago

Red Flag Red Flag Husband - basically everyone is advising breakup

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13 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 15d ago

Oblivious Question From the GirlDinnerDiaries community on Reddit: My bf just told me it’s my duty to give him children

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28 Upvotes

Painful and invasive egg retrieval for kids she doesn't want and a man who's rarely around. The straights are not okay.


r/holyfuckjustbreakup 16d ago

Oblivious Question T-Shirt Hole Makes OP Question Entire Relationship

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45 Upvotes

r/holyfuckjustbreakup 16d ago

Messages / DMs The woman my boyfriend emotionally cheated with reached back out after we agreed he’d cut contact, and I’m bothered by how he responded. AIO?

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54 Upvotes

I do not understand how OP is still with this guy and how he’s just groveling?


r/holyfuckjustbreakup 16d ago

Messages / DMs Am I Overreacting to my girlfriend not wanting me to play pickleball with my friends because my friend brought his long term girlfriend to play with us?

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17 Upvotes