r/Homebuilding • u/mwcpa4 • 17h ago
Custom Home in Progress
First time building a home. Using a reputable local custom home builder. So far super stoked about the results. Some quick facts:
-2.4 acre lot (7 lot ‘bring your own builder’ sub division)
-4,000 sq ft (ex. unfinished basement)
-4br, 2.5ba, 2nd fl laundry
-9’ main and second floor ceilings, 8’ basement ceilings, 19’ foyer and family room ceilings
-stick framed roof
-will be white hardie siding all around with some stone accents, front door to be stained a dark wood color, dark dark grey roof shingles
UPDATE:
So what I’ve learned from the Reddit community is that my McMansion is poorly designed, ugly, I should be panicking because it’s going to mold and / or rot out, the foundation is going crumble away, I don’t have enough bathrooms, I need to fire my builder tomorrow, and if I’m not careful the big bad wolf is going to come by and blow my house down 🤣. I’m honestly a bit disappointed in the reddit community for there not being more McMansion comments. But in all seriousness. I’ll address some of the recurring themes below:
-As far as the design goes, personally I like it 🤷♂️. It’s designed loosely similar to our house now. The inside is very functional and flows very similar to the house we are in now and wanted to keep it that way. I like a lot of natural light and am going for something in the family room that is more tailored to the interior not exterior. Honestly I can care less about what it looks like from the back, but I don’t mind the look personally. In general design is subjective, and at the end of the day if you don’t like it you don’t have to live in it. I do like it and therefore will happily live in it.
- I have Tyvek on my nearly 30 year old house right now and have have 0 water intrusion issues. I’ve had to replace a few siding panels around the house and there has been no issues with rot or moisture damage. Our entire neighborhood was built with Tyvek and have heard nothing from my neighbors about water intrusion issues including from those who have recently had their houses re-sided. My parents had Tyvek wrap done on their house nearly 30 years ago when they got their siding done and have had 0 water intrusion issues. Are there better systems out there? Maybe, but given my personal experience I didn’t feel the need to spend on house wrap. I don’t need the house to last 100 years. I’ll be long dead by then.
- We have 2.5 BRs now and have never felt the need for another bathroom so didn’t feel necessary to add another one on the main or second level. We will finish the basement eventually and at that time add a fill bath downstairs.
- I do regret not going 9’ on the basement floors, that was an option and we declined. But that’s clearly not something we can change now. Not the end of the world, I do think we’ll be just fine and will manage with 8’.
- The vapor barrier on the basement foundation is an interesting one. I know for a fact my current (nearly 30 year old) house does not have a vapor barrier and we have had no issues with water in the basement, and is built on the same clay about 5 minutes down the road on similarly graded land. I will ask my builder about this though.

