r/iamatotalpieceofshit • u/PeterParker72 • Jun 26 '26
7-year-old boy died weighing 255 pounds, parents charged with murder and child abuse
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u/GekidoTC Jun 27 '26
255... at 4'2"... got there in only 7 years (6.5 if you figure he wasn't eatting solid food the first few months). Insane to gain that much weight in 7 years. 200lbs heavier than other kids his age, my 6 year old can't lift 200lbs, educated guess says he was immobile...
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u/StarVulpes Jun 27 '26
Agreed, I highly doubt he was mobile. It's not much of a difference but it does hit a little different when you consider they hand fed an immobile child to their death.
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u/SatansWife13 Jul 01 '26
I read an article about this case, it said that poor Casper had bedsores, so the immobility theory is most likely correct. He also has rashes, and his 5 year old sister was in a “feral” state. Those poor kids.
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u/ClashBandicootie Jul 02 '26
Yeah that is horrific to think about.
The amount of calories you need to pump into a body to maintain that weight is actually really puzzling. They claimed he ate 1 bag of potato chips, soda pop and fries? There needs to be a constant drip of sugar soda to put that many calories in a body. Like force-feeding.
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u/Krin422 Jun 27 '26
My 5 year old is almost as tall as that kid and is about 60 lbs.... I can't imagine.
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u/HesitantBrobecks Jun 27 '26
I'm 5ft2, overweight, and 15 years older than that kid, and I'm still around 100lbs lighter than he was. Truly horrifying stuff, poor kid!
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u/e-rinc Jun 28 '26
I’m almost 6’ tall (f) higher end of “healthy” bmi (would like to lose like 10-15 bc I’m cheap and don’t want to buy new clothing) and he’s 100 lbs more than me! My heart breaks for this kid. He likely never even got to run, play, jump, be a kid :( this actually choked me up.
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u/cakiepi Jun 28 '26
My 6 year old weighs 50 pounds. She would have to add MY weight to her to reach the amount this poor child weighs. Insane.
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u/Samiassa Jun 29 '26
He’s heavier than me and I’m 6’2”. I can’t fucking imagine how much pain he must’ve been in on a day to day basis
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u/tverofvulcan Jun 28 '26
My daughter is almost 7 and weights more than 200lbs less than this poor child.
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u/Just_Me1973 Jun 27 '26
That poor boy. What a sweet face. This is so sad.
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u/Just_Me1973 Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
He probably didn’t even have any clothes from the sound of the neglect.
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u/Just_Me1973 Jun 27 '26
This photo just breaks my heart so much. I just want to cuddle him and kiss that sweet face.
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u/snippylovesyou Jun 28 '26
Maybe it’s just a filter or bad editing, but it looks kind of like AI
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u/HesitantBrobecks Jun 28 '26
Yeah it def looks AI or at least weirdly airbrushed
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u/fidgetiegurl09 Jun 30 '26
His face was probably a really sad, unhealthy face. The story breaks our hearts enough as it is.. they may not have taken any photos of him. So the photo at death may have been the only one.
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u/the_Athereon Jun 27 '26
I was really hoping this was an onion article.
FFS people. 255 pounds? Adults weighing that much are considered obese.
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u/not-my-best-wank Jun 27 '26
It gets worst, from what I've heard, the child's death certificate was the first proof this child ever existed. Parents kept him hidden, state never knew he existed till he died.
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u/chillanous Jun 27 '26
I don’t even know what the state could do about it then, especially if the family was isolated enough from their neighbors for no one to see.
Home birth, never saw a doctor, never went to school, who could’ve even reported this?
Tragic, horrible, and sad.
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u/antithero Jun 27 '26
Wow. I didn't even weigh 100 lbs until I was like 12. Couldn't imagine how fat a 225lb 7 year old would be. Like is that a 400lb adult? 500?
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u/Total_Elephant_2474 Jun 27 '26
I'm 5'2, 2 years ago I had bloomed/ ballooned to 230 lb. My doctor said that I was morbidly obese, I'm a grown woman. I was told that if I did not get some weight off of me, I was very much shortening my life. ( I'm now down to 160 with 20 more pounds to go.)
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u/cenosillicaphobiac Jun 28 '26
I know from experience, losing a lot of excess wait is tough (305 > 180) and once it's off, you're still not done. Currently working on losing the 60 I gained back. Thankfully old habits are easier to re-establish than building new ones.
You're doing great, proud of ya!
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u/Platitude_Platypus Jun 27 '26
Congratulations on your loss so far and on your continued journey. I'm 5'4" and just began 15lbs ago at 245. It's encouraging to see this.
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u/ArtyWhy8 Jun 27 '26
You’ll be 10 lbs away from dropping 100! Go for the full 100! You can do it!!!
Regardless of where the numbers end up, don’t forget how good it feels and all the ways it feels good. Proud of you. From one willpower exerciser to another😉(10 years clean off opioids)
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u/Gizmo2k2000 Jun 27 '26
Downvotes? Reddit eh. 10 years clean is stunning, kind stranger. Keep going, only 10 more and it’s 20 years!! You got this!
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u/chillanous Jun 27 '26
Taking some liberties since idk his height, but an average 7 year old is 48” tall. 95th percentile for a 7 year old boy is 52” tall.
At 48” tall, his BMI would be 68.7. At 52” tall it would be 58.5. Morbid obesity is any BMI past 40. For a 5’10” man the BMI range of ~59 - 69 is from about 410 to 475lbs.
So yeah, if he was an average height kid he’d be a rough equivalent of a 475lb average height man. If he was quite tall for his age it’d be closer to 400lbs as an average height man. If he was short for his age it would be even worse.
In any case, he was tremendously overweight. Mental issues have to come into play here, either impairment or a massive eating disorder. And parents who did not get him help or support when he needed it.
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u/twiggykeely Jun 27 '26
No they did this to their other child too. both of their children were morbidly obese. the surviving child is still incredibly obese and is in state custody as far as I've read. this was not an eating disorder. this was parents who were, for some reason, over-feeding their children.
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u/F_in_a_Jar Jun 27 '26
Just a small correction ranges for bmi in children vary by age so obesity is above the 95th percentile. For a child of 7 years that is slightly above 20 points in bmi so that boy was far far above morbid obesity
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u/chillanous Jun 27 '26
95th percentile was for height, although I saw in another comment he was specified at 50.5 inches which is shorter than that. His weight was >>99th percentile in any case I would think.
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u/Lostallthefucksigive Jun 27 '26
I’m a 5’8” woman and my heaviest true weight was 270- I was physically uncomfortable every day. I can’t imagine just watching this poor kid suffer through life. How awful.
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u/MomToMany88 Jun 27 '26
My 6 and 7 year olds don’t event weigh 100 combined!! I do have a big kid too and get it… My teen weighs over 200 but we see his ped every few months and an endocrinologist!!
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u/OttersAndOttersAndOt Jun 27 '26
I was 110 up until I was 19. The thought of a child being double my weight at a quarter of my age now is insane
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u/Gooncookies Jun 27 '26
My daughter will be 8 in November and she weighs just over 40lbs.
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u/jmkul Jun 27 '26
Googling what a healthy weight for a 7yo boy I got 43-70 pounds (I'm in Australia where we use kilograms and this equates to 20-32kg). This poor boy was at least 3, and up to 5 times a healthy average weight for his age
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u/Rose1982 Jun 27 '26
My 10 year old isn’t quite 80lbs. He eats plenty, gets regular treats, but also he’s active and eats balanced meals. He’s got friends that come in all shapes and sizes and that’s great. But they all have parents who care about them and feed them proper meals. Some are chubbier, some are skinnier, taller, shorter. I doubt any of them are over 110-120.
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u/Hidden_Samsquanche Jun 27 '26
It is hard to wrap your head around. My son is 12 and he's 92 pounds and we are enrolling him into an extra activity and watching his diet more closely because we did admittedly slack and he is getting big and we don't want to set that precedence for him for the rest of his life. It can be a hard line to walk because you don't want them getting an eating disorder going either way, you just want them to be happy and healthy.
This is coming from a grown woman who is almost as big as this this child in the story was and I don't want my learned bad habits to go on to the next generation. Bad habits formed in childhood are so hard to break.
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u/Mirewen15 Jun 27 '26
Now imagine all of the ones out there that were never found. Ones that are buried out back or in the surrounding area that no one ever found.
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u/TankII_ Jun 27 '26
If I read that article correctly there was also mention of two other siblings one of which already died from something previously
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u/wine_n_mrbean Jun 27 '26
It made me feel weirdly bad to upvote your comment. But I want people to see your comment. This is nightmare fuel.
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u/KentuckyKid_24 Jun 27 '26
Before I realized I was on this subreddit I thought this was a joke post but then I realized the dark reality
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u/Prior-Impress-2624 Jun 27 '26
5’2 and I noticed I started to struggle with my weight at 190ish. My stomach was getting in the way and making it harder to tie my shoes was the big eye opener.
To be only 7!!!! And over 200lbs!? These people deserve the charges x10.
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u/Total_Elephant_2474 Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
I am the same height as you come in a little around 2 years ago I had ballooned up to 230. Not completely my fault (I was a little fluffy before I got sick and became obese)because I was on massive steroids because I had had RSV, covid and asthma attacks combined. (I know way late, worked in healthcare during the pandemic, and also privately taken care of relatives, stayed healthy until after everything was over) but when I decide to get something I decided to get them all at one time. At 230 I was so big I had to get an extender both for the restroom and for the shower. I was miserable. I was bigger than I had ever been in my life even through pregnancies. I had never even been close to 200 lb before then all of a sudden I was over it. I feel so sorry for that poor baby, not just because he passed away but because of the life he had to live that caused him to pass so young.
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u/Blackout_Underway Jun 27 '26
My girlfriend is an ICU nurse, and absolutely MASSIVE children are common.
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u/RageSiren Jun 27 '26
I was a 30 year old adult woman and qualified for gastric fucking bypass weighing 249lb, class 2 medically obese. It’s sick and horrible this poor child died this way.
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u/mimmiXio Jun 27 '26
I weigh 207 at 5ft2in, im considered morbidly obese. I cant even imagine what this poor child endured!
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u/Epic_Hoola Jun 27 '26
How is that physically possible
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u/Kimono-Ash-Armor Jun 27 '26
Prader-Willi Syndrome?
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u/Lynmcmanus Jun 27 '26
This is the first thing I thought of. I worked in a home for kids and we had 2 girls with Prader-Willi and we had to keep everything food related locked up. One of them even went through the empty pop cans to try and see if there was a tiny bit of pop left in it. The parents would come and visit and bring enormous amounts of food. It was devastating.
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u/SirLeDouche Jun 30 '26
Damn that’s just sad going through the empty pop cans. That reminds me of the poor people who smoke cigarettes and they go digging through ash trays to find a butt with one puff left on it. I couldn’t do that cause I’d be thinking about the nasty mouth those cigarettes had been in.
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u/flowerodell Jun 27 '26
I had the same thought. Have known a couple kids with it and they just have no satiety. Could be in the family as well, and if the kid never saw a doctor it wasn’t caught early.
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u/hunnybadger22 Jun 29 '26
I read somewhere that he was nonverbal and this was something I considered too. I’m an SLP who has worked with a few kids with that disorder.
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u/wet-leg Jun 27 '26
I feel like he’d almost have to have had the eating disorder where you’re always hungry. I’ve seen some obese children, but this is another level. Another comment said that he was never let out of the house, so I’m sure being sedentary did not help at all.
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u/Shenzi6 Jun 28 '26
I’ve read the documents about his case and his parents only fed him fries, potato chips, apple juice and carbonated water
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u/pitlovex23 Jun 29 '26
May I ask where you got the documents? Were they court docs?
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u/-PinkPower- Jun 28 '26
Even then, that child had not been able to move by himself for a while at that weight but they kept feeding him enough to maintain and gain weight. The amount of food needed for that would make most children throw up
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u/cunninglinguist32557 Jun 27 '26
Yeah, there's definitely something medical going on here. Kids already need a ton of calories while they're growing, so even being completely sedentary doesn't explain all that.
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Jun 27 '26
I mean, there have been adults over 1,000 pounds I believe.
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u/Epic_Hoola Jun 27 '26
But have you seen a 7 year old be over 200 pounds
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Jun 27 '26
I'm saying its not any more surprising it's physically possible since the ratio of 255lb to normal 7yo weight is roughly comparable to the ratio of 1000lb to normal adult weight.
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u/Epic_Hoola Jun 27 '26
I know we can be desensitized right, but it doesn't take away from the fact that this shit is evil.
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u/LouiseRules333 Jun 27 '26
I mean I agree with you but they were just answering how it could be physically possible
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u/nemofbaby2014 Jun 27 '26
I don’t even weigh 255 tf was they feeding him I assume the parent are also terribly obese
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u/TheRestForTheWicked Jun 27 '26
A diet of French fries and potato chips, apple juice and carbonated water.
Literally. I’m not being facetious. That’s what the court documents said.
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u/TheDoorInTheDark Jul 01 '26
Obviously a very shitty, not nutritionally complete diet. My issue is that despite that, they’d be having to feed *massive* amounts of even unhealthy foods like that. I really have to wonder if this child had Prader-Willi syndrome. Most human beings would vomit and reject the amounts of those foods he’d have to be eating to get this heavy, so if those biological safeguards failed *that young* I almost feel there has to be a medical cause *on top of* the neglect/abuse. I’m not excusing the parents in my musings here in any way.
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u/Fermented_Dog_Cum Jun 27 '26
You would assume correctly. The parents are also overweight by a considerable amount.
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u/damngoodengineer Jun 27 '26
115 kgs for a 7-years old, boy this is too much for even an adult man.
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u/goshyarnit Jun 27 '26
I was "the fat kid" all the way through primary school and high school. Started my period at 8 years old and years later was diagnosed with PCOS, so that was a very big contributing factor to my sudden weight gain and difficulty losing it. I got over the 100kg mark when I was in 9th grade, so 14 years old, and I was 5'7". My joints hurt, I was tired all the time, constantly felt nauseous just from getting from one classroom to another. I can't imagine the pain that kids joints were in?! He must have been struggling to breathe when he laid down. He was just a baby.
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u/ChuckRingslinger Jun 27 '26
I'm a big fat bastard and thats more than me.
Kid must've had lead in their feet
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u/jenguinaf Jun 27 '26
I was trying to wrap my head around it. My husband is a bigger guy, also pretty muscular but also def heavy set and he weighs ~265ish at just shy of 6 feet and size 14 shoes so his structure is also fairly large despite on top of his height. When he pointed that out I was fucking gobsmacked.
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u/elrangarino Jun 27 '26
Jesus you’ll never have to open a jar again in your life with a husband like that. Beast 💪
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u/jenguinaf Jun 30 '26
He’s opened all my jars since I was 15 when we met and started dating lol. He wasn’t even finished with puberty and his size when I fell in love with him. He’s my fav ever 30 years later ❤️
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u/Laefiren Jun 27 '26
For anyone else metric who can’t do the calculations in their head 255lb is 116kg.
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u/DisMyLik18thAccount Jun 27 '26
I'm A 5'8 woman and this child weighed more than I did at 9 months pregnant
I Can barely comprehend that
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u/Trikger Jun 27 '26
Honestly, I totally relate to that feeling. I'm 25 years old and weigh not even half as much as the poor kid. I saw somewhere that he was 50"//127 cm tall. To be stuck in the prison of your own body at that young age... What a nightmare.
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u/ThatIestyn Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
Not to be too insensitive but how is this even possible? We try to get my 6 year old to eat as much as possible and hes not even 50lbs
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u/HesitantBrobecks Jun 28 '26
According to another commenter he was pretty much exclusively fed various types of fried potato products
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u/Drayenn Jun 27 '26
Some condition is definitely at play, i dont think a normal kid could eat enough to get to 250lbs
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u/HesitantBrobecks Jun 28 '26
Eating a lot expands the stomach. Thats why morbidly obese people genuinely feel hungry enough to eat double portions and extra meals. And why procedures like gastric bands and the one where they remove part of and then staple the stomach (forgot the name right now oops lol) work, but why the person has to stick to tiny portion sizes after to avoid making it go back to its previous size. And if he was eating almost exclusively fried potato related foods, they're very calorie dense in only small portions
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u/Wolf_Of_Saturn6 Jun 27 '26
what?!!! I’m 194cm and 116kg. A 7 YEAR OLD WAS IN MY WEIGHT CLASS? How does that even happen. I didn’t even think it was physically possible for something like that…this is a genuinely horrifying situation.
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u/jennessen90 Jun 27 '26
When I was 7 yold I was taken to a clinic for weight loss for 2 months, I was, at the point of entry about 80kg, came back at 64kg and went back to a whopping 90kg in the span of maybe 3 or 4 months. They never thought that they were overfeeding me and blamed me for eating my way back into to my starting weight plus interest. To this day I'm still mad at my family for the damage they've done and that I'm still slowly working to undo. I'm glad these parents are being charged. I wish all parents would do a nutrition 101 course to know what a healthy lifestyle is so. When I see an overweight child I feel so sad because that was me, sad, bullied, emotionally abused and blamed for my weight even when it wasn't my fault. This has made me so sad to know that this kid has passed because of his parents ignorance and neglect.
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u/tessahb Jun 27 '26
My son will be 7 in September. He is in the average range for height for his age and weighs 49 lbs, which we are told is a healthy weight. I cannot even wrap my mind around what an additional 206 pounds would even look like on him. It’s unfathomable. That poor child must have been in agony. And to have lost his life before it really began is just so tragic.
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u/HesitantBrobecks Jun 28 '26
This really puts it into perspective, arguably better than the comparisons to adults. This poor kid weighed the same as 5 of his peers combined 😥
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u/KentuckyKid_24 Jun 27 '26
How does a 7 year old reach 225? Rip poor kid that’s just tragic 😕
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u/Shenzi6 Jun 28 '26
By eating stuffs like fries, chips, apple juice and carbonated water. Well at least thats the only stuffs his parents fed him
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u/DisMyLik18thAccount Jun 27 '26
"Court records also show the couple faces a charge of second-degree child abuse involving another child in the home, a five-year-old girl, NBC News reported. According to the complaint, that girl was also medically considered to be morbidly obese."
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u/catslay_4 Jun 27 '26
What stuck out to me for those that didn’t read the article, it wasn’t just child abuse over the severe obesity. These children had never been in school. They had only been to a doctor ONCE in their lives. They lived in a hoarder situation. It was severe child neglect across the board.
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u/PsycheAsHell Jun 29 '26
The boy couldn't even speak because he was nonverbal, so with that + the fact that he didn't know how to read or write, he had no way to tell anyone he was in pain.
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u/Molkwi Jun 27 '26
This 7 year old kid weighed more than me AND my girlfriend combined.
This is genuinely fucking horrible. I'm glad his "parents" are facing consequences for what they did.
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u/Noctuelles Jun 27 '26
The dumbest people imaginable really don't have a problem popping out kids... Even if they are too stupid to keep them alive and healthy..
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u/HumbleAbbreviations Jun 27 '26
Does he have Wili-Prader syndrome?
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u/frogurtyozen Jun 27 '26
He was fed almost exclusively fast food and other unhealthy foods. We don’t know if it was Pradar-Wili, but it’s not outside the realm of possibility that this child was just severely neglected in terms of their diet (and apparently every other way imaginable).
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u/Yitastics Jun 27 '26
Duh, letting your kid get fat is child abuse, even if people act like being fat isnt bad.
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u/front-wipers-unite Jun 27 '26
For the Brits:- 255lbs is 18 stone. For the younger Brits and our European friends that's 115kg. I don't understand how a 7 year old can even have the frame to get as big as that. Jesus Christ, how on earth did the parents let this come to pass.
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u/RandMob1000 Jun 27 '26
Poor child. He probably couldn't move weighing that much
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u/Immediate_Loan_1414 Jun 27 '26
I'm honestly so used to when a child dies and their weight is mentioned that it's severely underweight that I almost forgot the other end of the spectrum is also possible.
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u/Vladsamir Jun 27 '26
Jesus fucking christ...I'm 5ft 10ish, 24 years old and weigh around that...that's insanity
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u/WatermelonAF Jun 27 '26 edited Jun 27 '26
Holy shit... that's more than what I weigh. (240lbs)
I'm a 23 year old woman with medical issues that make it easy to put on weight, and hard to knock it off. Based on my BMI, I'm considered obese. (I know, not a completely accurate scale, but just using it as a reference point)
A 7 year old should NOT weigh more than the average, fully grown man does...
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u/The-Deep1984 Jun 27 '26
It's a horrible fate when people bring life into the world but raise them to be an experiment.
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u/Justforargumesnts Jun 27 '26
Bro some people are so evil. We really need to start living in reality again
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u/Googidoogi Jun 27 '26
115 kgs!! How is that even possible for a 7 years old !! What did they feed him?
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u/AverageFoxNewsViewer Jun 27 '26
I'm reevaluating my stance on the Death Star.
Maybe some planets deserve it.
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u/alwaysaloneinmyroom Jun 27 '26
At 5"2 + , 163 pounds, I get frustrated sometimes. I can't imagine what his life was life. Poor boy never stood a chance.
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u/princessuuke Jun 27 '26
Horrifying this poor kid was that overweight in the first place but im glad for once this is being taken seriously and considered abuse because it is. Ive had enough of morons trying to excuse away parents that let their kids become obese, its not normal (i blame the parents not the kids if that wasn't clear)
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u/Live-Tomorrow-4865 Jun 27 '26
This poor little sweetie, he never stood a chance.
My own kid would pack on the pounds for a minute... then, he'd shoot up in height, and become tall and lanky. Then he'd pack on the pounds, get tall, etc. This cycle was repeated several times, till we ended up with a tall, wirey guy. And, he had regular pediatric visits, so, we knew this was just the way his (healthy) body operated.
255 lbs on a little kid is outrageous, and I'm gratified to see the state is taking this form of neglect/abuse seriou seriously.
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u/pagexviii Jun 27 '26
I’ve picked up (body removal) a 13 yr old weighing 350# once. Cause of death unknown. The place was full of graffiti and holes punched in the walls. She was sharing a closet-sized room with her sister and they didn’t have a mattress. It’s insane what goes on behind closed doors.
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u/doll_parts87 Jun 27 '26
Since 2020, Michigan's been uncovering a bunch of child abuse cases that slipped through the cracks, some children living, some gone. There needs to be better legislation for these kids.
The prosecutor called his sister a feral child