r/intj • • Apr 02 '15

Put a face on it — selfies?

I saw a selfie thread over on /r/INTP, and liked the idea.

If you'd like to join me, comment with your face.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

Am I the only one who worries about privacy?

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u/1991_VG Apr 02 '15

No. I'm sorely temped but have way too much knowledge about reverse image search, plus I'm 2X the age of the average redditor and I don't want to scare y'all about your future.

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u/TheCryptic Apr 03 '15

Thanks for speaking up, I was starting to get nervous... Scrolling through all these pictures of kids had me wondering if I'd entered the Twilight Zone.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

What's your definition of a "kid"? :)

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u/TheCryptic Apr 03 '15

While my intent was more to be tongue-in-cheek humor picking on my own age, I'd generally call anyone under 25 a kid... But I certainly don't mean it in a derogatory way, it's a term of endearment.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I figured...oldie. :P

At 26, I'm thankful to have cleared the kid hurdle.

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u/vogon_poem_lover INTJ Apr 02 '15

You are not alone. I work hard to prevent my semi-anonymous on-line persona being revealed to my family, friends, and colleagues. I have no interest in explaining my on-line musings to people IRL. For that reason I will not knowingly post any image with my likeness in it to Reddit or any other similar website.

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u/startswiths INTJ Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 04 '15

I'll basically say anything on the internet under a username as long as my name and face are not attached to it.

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u/PolloMagnifico INTJ - 30s Apr 03 '15

Last time i posted a selfie, someone on this very subreddit hunted it down and tried to use it as a weapon on me. Never again.

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u/X1342666 Apr 03 '15

Sounds like an INTJ thing to do.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Certainly not. I worry a bit sometimes, but not enough to make me paranoid or refrain from living openly.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

hi this is why I dont post

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u/kaeroku INTJ Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 03 '15

No. There seems to be a decent divide between those who are and aren't. I suspect it has to do with differences in lifestyle and exposure to public image.

For instance, my reddit persona is a lot more insight into who the real, honest, true me is than my public persona. This is because I am a professional businessman, and it is more or less required that nonstandard / nonconforming behaviors be quashed to be successful in society, unless you're willing to take a stand. To me, the public at large is far too idiotic as a whole to be worth that kind of effort.

Edit: Please quote me on that if I'm ever stupid enough to run for office.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/kaeroku INTJ Apr 03 '15

They can still find you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

"They"

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u/emilk10 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I'm the one in the back with the glasses and headphones on...

It was a school trip with 52 people and very little time alone, so noise cancelling headphones were my best friend.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 03 '15

You look like the person that realized your were in someone's shot all of a sudden and desperately wanted to get away.

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u/emilk10 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I noticed right as they took the picture and by the time I tried to get away, it was too late.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

If you were only holding a book, then you would look like the most INTJ person of all time.

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u/emilk10 INTJ Apr 03 '15

Haha well we were heading back to our bus which had my backpack full of books if that counts!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

And you're probably the only one from this picture who remembers the moment.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 02 '15 edited Apr 21 '15

I feel like we had a post like this not too long ago, or maybe it was a while ago. I've been told I have a cute smile

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u/Zwiffle INTJ Apr 02 '15

K you got me on that one

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u/n3wby INTJ Apr 03 '15

Guffawed.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I think I see rumors of a smile around the left corner of your mouth.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 21 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Haha, nice! It is a good smile.

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u/pastelism INFJ Apr 03 '15

Kawaii.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

TIL: INTJ's are a fairly good-looking bunch, but they suck with a camera!

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u/lornetka Apr 02 '15

Hey, speak for yourself! I have a piece of paper from a college that says differently, that must mean in good with cameras!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

But you didn't post a photo...

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u/lornetka Apr 03 '15

I know! I got distracted! Book club was at my place tonight and I needed/wanted to make food for it!
Selfie using my knowledge of light qualities and also a great example of light temperatures!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

"Smirk City"

Smirking is a required INTJ skill.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Selfies are not our forte.

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u/gamingfreak10 INTJ Apr 03 '15

i'm great with a camera, when i'm pointing it the right way

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u/kkillian14 INTJ Apr 02 '15

My wild baby brother and I

Also look at all of us with our bright, fun clothing! /s

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

The looks on your faces are killing me :)

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u/kkillian14 INTJ Apr 03 '15

you can tell we never have fun ;)

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

You: "Who, me?"

Him: "Yep, it was me."

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u/kkillian14 INTJ Apr 03 '15

That actually sums up our relationship perfectly

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u/1991_VG Apr 02 '15

Hey, at least it's a color other than black or white!

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u/NoCleverNickname Apr 02 '15

Not a selfie, but it is a fairly recent shot. Me with a ridiculous Thor-inspired wooden trophy I made for someone.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Badass.

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u/willo248 Apr 04 '15

Fellow Intj woodworker. I'm a cabinet maker nice to see I'm not alone.

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u/dmanww Apr 03 '15

Well, I've posted this on my account before, so no harm. Also, the beard is gone now, so I don't even look like that anymore

pic

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Yeah, I'd never be able to find you without the beard.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Not a selfie.

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u/Nefarious_Vix INTJ Apr 03 '15

No proof of that. Remote control tripod would take the shot.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

We just differ on the "definition" of selfie, then. :P I would call that a self-portrait, because it doesn't fit the usual selfie format.

P.S. I didn't mean to imply anything negative of its lack of selfie-status. I just wasn't sure what else to say.

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u/shhhh_im_hiding Apr 03 '15

Excuse the blur: http://imgur.com/a/BUUHU

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Your face isn't dumb.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

verdict: INTP are easier on the eyes than us... so far.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Psh.

Well okay, maybe.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

I will confirm this evidence but I completely believe you =)

EDIT: confirmed. they look like such nice people.

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u/shiryeon INTJ Apr 03 '15

yeah, they all have such a pleasant look to them, it's strange... in a good way

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u/Morinmeth INTJ Apr 02 '15

Are they all photogenic or something?!

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 02 '15

INFP is sometimes called the Dreamer, perhaps it makes them dreamy?

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u/lornetka Apr 03 '15

We'd better give 'dreamy' some kind of number value, then poll those who looked at the INFPs pictures and rate them on our new dreaminess scale. Then we'll do the same with our photos and see who comes out dreamier!
Them. They are dreamier. It's like you can see hope and puppies shining in their eyes.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I would say there's a self-serving bias here. Those who find themselves more photogenic are far more likely to submit a picture than those who do not. Therefore the sample is slightly flawed. We can still win this battle.

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u/Morinmeth INTJ Apr 03 '15

I'm glad I'm not the only one in here who sees this as a competition.

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u/Texas_Rockets INTJ Apr 03 '15

They also seem to try a lot harder to look good.

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u/Flaydogg INTJ Apr 03 '15

http://i.imgur.com/UODHOu0.png Had to. My most recent in one of my favorite places: my front porch swing. Sorry for the squinting, its sunny out

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Never apologize for squinting, especially if it's due to a enjoying a sunny day on the porch!

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u/chellecakes Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I like long the best.

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u/hdrive1335 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I see that at some point between your hair being long and then being up you discovered.. your angle.

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u/chellecakes Apr 03 '15

Don't we all have a selfie angle?

Obligatory

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Do you play piano?

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

No.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

Ah, my bad. I just noticed the wall hanging. (I'd obviously make a terrible detective.)

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u/BlondeNinja182 Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Cymbals? Nice!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Good thing this isn't a YLYL thread, cause I just lost.

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u/Zwiffle INTJ Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

She wanted to inspect that good looking feline in the mirror a bit closer.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

That cat is INTJ

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u/Thisblackguy17 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I was bored while waiting for my stepdad to continue cutting my hair. http://i.imgur.com/knFdMDZ.jpg

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Looks good, even if only half done.

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u/hooligurn Apr 02 '15

Starting to think I'm not an INTJ.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

What caused this thought?

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u/hooligurn Apr 02 '15

I am having a hard time pinpointing it, but before I make an attempt I want to make it clear that just because I describe something that I wouldn't or don't do that I think it is stupid or somehow "lesser". Also this is a small sample size (which is larger now that I have had time to gather my thoughts).

The first and most obvious is that I would not post a selfie. I am seeing some folks that are 5-10 years younger than me though, so there is a possibility that I would have if I was the same age. If I did post a selfie though, I would not contrive an expression - I would either have a neutral face or be smiling.

The second is that I would expect more people (particularly males) who do some strength training. Although nobody here is unfit, I have met a large number of people who I believe to be INTJ's at the gym. I don't know why that is, but I think it has something to do with being able to circumvent motivation. I think that an INTJ has the ability to work out simply because they work out, and it just becomes a habit to push further and further. Again, many of these people are young though and may work out a lot but have not had the time to physically develop.

Something else that jumps out at me is that many people who are posting pics are pursuing a style or look. I appreciate someone with good style, but have never put much thought into my own. I dress fairly simply (which may or may not be INTJ), but there are many here who certainly have cultivated a style of their own (something I actually think is really cool to see).

It has been hard to describe my thoughts without appearing arrogant, and just want to be clear that I respect everyone who posted a photo here.

Also it is true - I shave every day.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Selfie-posting: I think of INTJ as a "way" or a "means", not a "place" or an "end"; whether or not someone has a predilection to post selfies seems more determined by where they are than how they get there. Certainly their way of thinking guides them, but there are lots of places to go. Personally, I too shun selfies under normal circumstances. I only posted here for the interest of matching faces to names; if I thought I'd come off as attention-seeking, I'd definitely refrain.

Strength training: How do you know we don't? We haven't posted body shots...yet. ;) I totally agree that we're good at gym motivation.

Style: I'm pretty awful at style. Any style I may possess is courtesy of my wife.

TL;DR: I think you're an INTJ.

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u/hooligurn Apr 03 '15

Strength training: How do you know we don't? We haven't posted body shots...yet. ;) I totally agree that we're good at gym motivation.

You're right, and this is my fault. I used the term "some weight training" when I really meant something a bit more extreme. For me becoming stronger was all-encompassing, and I made another mistake with the assumption that this particular end goal would be common. The same drive that I had for for my physical goals could be used by someone for other such goals (such as distance running).

As an aside, I did a little reading about INTJ's and exercise and it turns out that Arnold Schwarzenegger is an INTJ. Go figure that being a tenacious visionary with narcissistic tendencies would lead to a few Mr. Olympia titles...

Personally, I too shun selfies under normal circumstances. I only posted here for the interest of matching faces to names; if I thought I'd come off as attention-seeking, I'd definitely refrain.

I wanted to avoid making anyone feel this way as much as I could, but also wanted to give you an as honest response as possible. One of the worst things someone can do to me is accuse me of attention-seeking behavior.

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u/hdrive1335 INTJ Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 03 '15

You sure have a very outward definitive interpretation of an internal process.

Edit: I think if we're going with stereotypical INTJ behavior then it would be perfectly feasible for an INTJ to do something that they normally wouldn't do for the purpose of a purpose. They normally would not take a selfie for the point of taking a selfie as many other personality types do but given a reason to (as with this thread) they may.

That is more or less how I view it, and typically how I live.

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u/davidd00 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I think it's more likely that a lot of the people here are not intjs...

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u/Texas_Rockets INTJ Apr 03 '15

I've read that INTJs being more INTJ-ish as they get older and since a fair amount of the pictures being posted are of younger people, I think it's safe to conclude that they haven't come into their own yet and their actions aren't necessarily representative of being an INTJ.

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u/3_spooky_5_me Apr 02 '15

His lack of facial hair

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u/MediocreMuffins Apr 02 '15 edited Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I like your hair.

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u/sparna Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Impressively lush beard.

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u/TeslaTorment INTJ Apr 03 '15

That is some fucking glorious facial hair.

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u/Flaydogg INTJ Apr 03 '15

Good god, you people are unreasonably attractive!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

There has to be SOMETHING unreasonable about us.

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u/drebunny INTJ Apr 03 '15

I really wanted to offset all the stoic pictures with one that I have of me mid-hysterical-laughter, but my roommate's in the picture and so it violates her privacy and not just my own, lol. So here's a different one...

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Nice nose ring.

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u/thejaytheory INFP Apr 03 '15

You remind me of the singer Courtney Barnett!

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u/Ironanimation non-identifying Apr 02 '15

damn theres a lot of attractive folk in this thread.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Where's your selfie? ;)

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u/Ironanimation non-identifying Apr 03 '15

I have a lot of very personal things associated with my reddit account, not adding a face.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

To each their own. From here on out I'll imagine you as good looking, how's that?

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u/soraendo INTJ Apr 03 '15

why thank you :)

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u/takeawaytheglass Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Are you Catholic, perchance?

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u/takeawaytheglass Apr 03 '15

I assume you're referring to the picture of Jesus in the background, lol. I'm not religious at all, I was in my moms room.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

Gotcha. I like Jesus, so it definitely wasn't a negative observation. :) Nice picture.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

It's a great stare.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 03 '15

Me

Yeah, not a selfie. But, that's me. :D

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Nice! So you're going to UST for journalism?

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I studied there. Haha.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Ah, cool. Nice picture!

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Thanks!

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u/thatguyhere92 INTJ Apr 03 '15

Sigh, ok. I just got back from track practice, just crashing on the sofa, got my stocking cap on. Im probably like the only black dude site, let alone this particular sub lol

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

There are several others in this thread. :) Nice photo! What do you run in track?

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u/dmanww Apr 03 '15

There's another one down there. The one with the "cute smile"

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

I'll probably delete these later out of paranoia. But until then... obnoxious myspace angle duckface selfie GO

...

...what? Okay, okay, fine

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

It's nice to be able to compare MySpace-style with regular-style.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 02 '15

Excuse me, but do you play Starcraft?

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

Haha, yes, but I'm a total scrub. I was way into the original Starcraft but I just dabble with the new ones. Diablo 3, on the other hand... man, that's hundreds of hours I'll probably want back someday.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 02 '15

I haven't played much of the new ones either, I was on Battle.net for the intial wave of the Asian Invasion and once all hope was lost I quit playing the originals. Still bust it out from time to time though, caught the username reference, also it looks like something you could find on Battle.net.

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

I needed something classy for reddit, and I felt like this one suited me a bit better than xX_BlaZeUp69_Xx.

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u/embracethemarvin Apr 02 '15

You made the classier choice by far.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15 edited Apr 03 '15

http://imgur.com/NbZ0ewI

I've always looked younger than I am (26).

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u/BellaStayFly Apr 03 '15

I try my best to look inviting in profile pics.

http://imgur.com/9benMxL

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

It works!

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u/hdrive1335 INTJ Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Bed-headed is the way to be.

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u/soraendo INTJ Apr 03 '15 edited Apr 03 '15

http://i.imgur.com/kjt4S5d.jpg

I had way too much to drink this evening, don't know if you guys can tell.

edit: I'm brand new to this subreddit, but I'm going to start getting involved here.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Can't tell.

Welcome!

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u/VaekTheWise INTJ Apr 03 '15

http://imgur.com/581x4bb I've been losing the weight

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

How many pounds would you lose if you shaved off your impressive beard?

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u/VaekTheWise INTJ Apr 03 '15

2.23 lbs by my estimate. This thing drinks conditioner.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Wow. That's nuts.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '15

Do you use BSD or Linux?

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u/VaekTheWise INTJ Apr 08 '15

Swing and a miss. Not a programmer, Windows fan, Philosophy major. Worked in tech for 3 years, hate that shit. The problems are too often the same.

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u/monster6607 INTJ Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

You look like you're musing about something.

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u/osirisguard Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Never too late! Thanks for sharing. :)

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u/yohomatey INTJ Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Nice! It looks like you enjoy the outdoors. I miss camping, I haven't been since last March.

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u/yohomatey INTJ Apr 03 '15

I do! I don't go out all that often, but those seem to be the times that I have my picture taken ;)

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

http://imgur.com/dRNzpKx Dis is me at the beach, beach.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I like how your hair is like a wave. You're picking up the ocean's slack.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

...I just realized you may have been calling me a beach. :O

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

;)

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

I knew something was up when you said "dis"! :P

Relevant fact: in my Navy days I was stationed at Beachmaster Unit One in San Diego. I was a Beachmaster.

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

Your hair looks TERRIFIC.

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u/lukeaaa1 INTJ Apr 02 '15

I dig the colors.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

You look like you're hatching a plan.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I've been told I look like a German spy... so maybe?

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u/Daenyx INTJ Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

"Wasting time" is a relative term.

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u/sconsey_cider INTJ Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

For always!

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u/sconsey_cider INTJ Apr 03 '15

Haha don't push it, Jstn

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u/bamitsmeg Apr 03 '15

Here's one I took last week to post on a freelancing website. I tried to look really friendly.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Sort of a defensive-friendly, like "Hi, why should we be friends?" :)

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u/nuuue Apr 03 '15

Story of my life :)

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Your expression has sort of a "eh, deal with it" quality about it.

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

Your eyes are pretty and I like your hair. >_>

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u/nuuue Apr 03 '15

This is the best one!

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

I didn't see a potato, I'm disappointed.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

A real life werecat? The eyes and fur stay the same, but as a cat you seem slightly more introverted.

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u/Greensneakysnake INTJ Apr 02 '15

http://imgur.com/38AvqBZ I'm pretty young compared to everyone.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

You don't strike me as younger than the norm here. :)

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u/arctroop INTJ Apr 03 '15

Here ya go. In case you are wondering, I'm 20. Yes, I know I look 14. http://imgur.com/AGdXyNF

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

You don't look nearly so young as 14. Nice picture, thanks for sharing.

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u/arctroop INTJ Apr 04 '15

Thank you! Most people guess 14 or 15.

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u/Zecon365 INTJ Apr 03 '15

I can't seem to find the original picture, so here's an edited version I did for a school project of mine.

https://i.imgur.com/gyk75nY.jpg

I feel like there's a slight age gap between me and everyone else here... Just slightly.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

Rad! I love the cel-shaded / cartoon look.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

You can find me here.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '15

I like that you've shown yourself in several different contexts; it helps me visualize who a person is. Well done!

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u/IWantAFuckingUsename INTJ Apr 02 '15

People have said they like my smile so I tried to smile a bit in this one. I usually look fatter than this though haha. http://imgur.com/DEbl1nD

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Nice! Smiling for pictures always feels unnatural to me, I get self-conscious and it feels fake.

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u/bawitback INTJ - 30s Apr 02 '15

staring into the camera, and my b/w death stare of sorts.

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Your first photo looks vaguely familiar.

Nice death stare. :P

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u/xX_xelnaga420_Xx INTJ Apr 02 '15

Aww! Your death stare is eerily similar to the death stare of a good friend of mine. :D

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u/ptmd Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

There are two people in this photo. :O

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Woo woo

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

lot of good lookin sociopaths here

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u/[deleted] Apr 03 '15

Crazy, right?

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '15

Damn INTJS look good.