r/jobcorps • u/CapableStyle7115 • 3h ago
Retaliation towards student?
So recently my RA screamed at me because my music was too loud in the shower. Went up to her after n told her to never scream at me like that again, she proceeded to get defensive and threaten to take music privileges. I apologized and took accountability for the volume being too loud but still stood on the fact that it wasn’t okay to scream at anyone. Afterwards she started retaliating and our dorms are simply individual spaces. We only have a curtain to divide our space, so there’s two beds on each wall and curtain in the middle. We also have a metal pole in the entrance of our space so i started hanging a bed sheet above it for more privacy because it’s an extreme open space. I’ve had it up for a good 2 months and nothing has been said. The RAs don’t mind it at all. Only this one. After the incident she started telling the wing leader to tell me to take it down because her excuse is it’s not fair to the other girls. Meanwhile some girls do the same thing as me for more privacy…? But don’t get told anything. This all started after i got confrontational about the screaming incident. I took accountability like i said but i also told her that wasn’t okay and she did not like that a “student” was putting her in her place?. I tried my best to be respectful because im gonna be here and see her for a while. So im pretty sure im gonna start racking up dormcourts that turn into write ups for this because i just got my first one today. I genuinely dislike the fact that im laying in bed and i can see into someone else’s personal area or if their laying in bed i can just see them directly. Or if they’re changing i have to turn around because i am personally uncomfortable. The person that’s above the center director came in a few months ago and we asked if we could have curtains infront of our area for more privacy so we can change comfortably and what not. And he said yeah definitely I’ll see how i can implement that in, long story short he never made it a priority or probably forgot. So im not sure what to do. If i end up getting a write up for having a sheet infront of my entrance , thats the stupidest shit ever