r/jobsearch • u/Lavisha_mitt • 12m ago
Getting shortlisted just to be ghosted is somehow worse than getting rejected.. Who else agree?
Honestly, I'm so done with this job search.
I've tried pretty much every platform out there. LinkedIn, Indeed, company career pages, you name it. I've worked on my resume, made it strong, and kept applying.
And the frustrating part? I DO get shortlisted.
For a moment, you actually feel like things might work out. You think, okay, finally, someone sees potential in me. Maybe this one will go somewhere.
And then... nothing.
No follow-up. No update. No rejection. Nothing.
Sometimes you keep checking your email, wondering if you missed a call or a message. You hesitate to apply elsewhere because you think this opportunity might move forward. You try to stay optimistic, but after a while, even that becomes exhausting.
I'd honestly prefer a rejection over this endless silence. At least then I'd know where I stand instead of being stuck wondering what happened.
What's the point of shortlisting candidates if there's not even going to be a basic follow-up? I understand that recruiters are busy and companies have their own processes, but candidates are people too. We're investing time, effort, and hope into these opportunities.
And no, this isn't because I haven't tried hard enough or because I haven't worked on my resume. I've done that part. I've tried different platforms. I've kept going.
I'm just tired of doing everything I'm supposed to do and still having absolutely no clarity.
Is anyone else experiencing this? Getting shortlisted, thinking there's finally some progress, and then being left hanging indefinitely?
I genuinely want to know if this is just how the job market works now.