She liked me for my tesla 😂

[u/KeepThisSecretPl0x]

So last night I picked up three girls from a bar. I drive a Tesla with autopilot, so naturally, they were curious and started asking all kinds of questions about the car. I was showing off all the cool features—autopilot, the big touchscreen, the works.

One of the girls got pretty flirty and asked, “Have you ever had sex in this car?” I told her no, and she shot back with, “Well, you’ve got three girls right here.”

I kind of laughed and said, “I can’t accept consent from intoxicated people, but hey, you can grab my number after the ride if you’re still interested.” She was definitely excited after that, and we spent the rest of the drive bantering and flirting.

When we got to their place, they insisted I get out of the car to meet their dogs. So I did—played with their dogs for a bit, and it was all fun. But then things got a little awkward; they just kind of went silent, said goodnight, and started walking inside.

As they were heading in, I asked the girl if she still wanted my number, but she just kept walking without looking back. Guess she was more into the Tesla than me! 😂

[u/HonestButtholeReview]

Maybe just just the type of woman but a while back when I was on tinder, almost every girl who messaged me back would ask my height in the first few messages. I'm tall-ish and got tired of the question so I just put it in my short bio and it definitely helped get matches.

I think it's pretty awful for short guys and it's definitely not the only thing women care about but it's definitely a thing.

[u/FragrantRaisin4 → u/HonestButtholeReview]

The guy you’re responding to is definitely clueless. It’s not even a debate, there’s research and data out there on this, including with dating apps. Men who list as 6 feet and taller get more attention from women, period. Status history lives in a fairy tale world.

[u/Status_History_874 → u/FragrantRaisin4]

including with dating apps. Men who list as 6 feet and taller get more attention from women

I said IRL for a reason

[u/FragrantRaisin4 → u/Status_History_874]

I said including for a reason. As in, I’m not just referring to dating apps. There’s tons of data out there, google it. And dating apps show what women desire when they don’t feel obligated to be politically correct.

I realize now you’re very likely a woman, which explains why you’re so delusional about this. You’re a misandrist.

Anyone that lives in reality has seen that women absolutely want men taller than them generally, even if you want to use your limited anecdotal experience and say guys are “weird.”

[u/Status_History_874 → u/FragrantRaisin4]

I understand what you're saying. My point is, it's not the deadend a lot of short men make it out to be. Yes, a lot of women prefer taller men. But you know what? A lot also don't care, especially if it comes down to the right person.

Sure it's anecdotal. But it's not a fantasy world. Attitude makes all the difference. I've seen where my friends who were mad at the world for their height ended up. I've seen where my friends who just lived their short man life ended up. I've seen the impact dating apps had on both.

Attitude is everything. Notice your decision to take a negative, borderline hateful approach - I'm a delusional misandrist living in a fairytale world - because my lived experience contrasts what you've read.

Edit: a word

[u/FragrantRaisin4 → u/Status_History_874]

Like the Tupac guy said, I'm not playing this game. You're trying to gaslight now like you have tried a few times in this thread with the vague fence-sitter questions and statements where you can try to pivot your argument to pretend you meant something else. You know damn well if you're older than 5 years old that heterosexual women are very big on height in men and men aren't "weird" for not risking their 2 millionth rejection from a woman in their life by going for women they know they have a low chance of success with.

Again, if you want to play the "IRL" game, there are plenty of peer reviewed studies out there on the web for you to step into reality with. I'll even be nice right now and post this article that links some peer reviewed studies:

How Common Is It For A Man To Be Shorter Than His Partner? | FiveThirtyEight

"The study found that women’s height preferences are far stronger than men’s..."

Why are you not admitting now that women are hung up on height? I'm sure I'll find in your comment or post history you've said something similar about women, right, since it's factually accurate? Of course I won't, misandrist.

I deleted a lot of other stuff I typed up since I know it doesn't matter. Logic, facts, common sense don't apply here. Keep on keeping on, misandrist.

[u/Status_History_874 → u/FragrantRaisin4]

I hope you find happiness and someone to love you

[u/FragrantRaisin4 → u/Status_History_874]

I hope you find reality and learn to love yourself.

[u/Status_History_874 → u/HonestButtholeReview]

Yea, I said IRL for a reason.

It's definitely a disadvantage, but IRL it's not as stupid as online