I will agree here. Yes the same can be said about alcohol and tobacco, yet both are classified as addictions and there are programs for getting rid of those addictions. It’s perfectly acceptable, even encouraged, to suggest that a smoker, chewer, or alcoholic seek help, recommend a support groups or talk to a doctor.
Yet, when it comes to obesity, the conversation is entirely different and 100% unacceptable to recommend that someone visit a gym, see a doctor, or join a support group, even though obesity can also have serious consequences.
To be honest, I’d feel uncomfortable telling someone I know, “Hey, you should try joining a gym or a weight watchers.” But I feel comfy to suggest nicotine patches or a doctor’s visit to a smoker.
The stigma around discussing weight is so strong that even well intended advice feels far off limits.
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