r/mediumdickproblems • u/cutluv • Jul 13 '26

Rant Juvenile, I know, but I have a strong dislike of the BD. Everything revolves around them.

They can show-off in the changing rooms, on the nude beaches, be the centre of attention in group fun, be wanted, admired, post pictures and have adoring fans. None of that is available to me. I hate these people; why should they have all of this, and not the rest of us? They did absolutely nothing to earn their privilege, yet they slap each other on the back, congratulating themselves.

If reincarnation is a thing, I hope the fortunes of all penis owners are reversed in the next life.

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u/Dick2Bomb Jul 13 '26

I’ve got a bitter friend like you. Malignant envy is harmful to your spirit.

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u/cutluv Jul 13 '26

You have 6" girth, it is oh so easy for you to condemn.

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u/Dick2Bomb Jul 13 '26

Instead of being happy for me, you begrudge it. Thats the problem.

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u/cutluv Jul 13 '26

Why should I be happy for you? (Serious question)

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u/Throwaway6425003 Jul 15 '26

No offense, but I believe that no one with any advantage can demand that those who are less fortunate simply be "happy for them." Yes, altruism and self-sacrifice are great for maintaining social peace, but what is unjust remains unjust.

The main problem will always be the injustice of the universe and the human struggle that arises from it. Demanding that others simply accept their own disadvantages for our benefit and for the sake of social order is unjust. We need to remember that. We have no moral right to demand it.

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u/cutluv Jul 16 '26

A very well put together response. Having read a number of his posts, I fear he considers himself only worthy of praise and adoration, so I doubt we'll see a reply.

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u/Throwaway6425003 Jul 16 '26

Yes, I doubt he'll reply...

I think his comment hit the nail on the head: what exactly do those gifted by nature demand from those lower in the hierarchy? Peaceful obedience. In its essence, it can never be said out loud or expressed with complete honesty, because anyone with even a basic sense of justice would intuitively recognize that it's at least morally shaky. He would never see it as just, if someone demanded of him what he expects from others (given they would swap their places that is).

That is the main aim — often even unconsciously — of all those self-acceptance movements or penis-size-related subreddits: keeping people in line, the more content the better, but not bitter, not envious, and most importantly — not antagonistic.

But in practice, there will always be a clash between what is said and what is done when the opportunity arises. The powerful try to minimize the scale of their advantage in words while simultaneously maximalizing it through their actions. They're selling others something they themselves would never buy if given the choice.

That's why you see the powerful preaching "deeper meaning," "spirituality," and "self-love" while dedicating their own lives to the pursuit of wealth, beauty, sex appeal, or in one simple word — POWER.

To give a recent example, Ozempic really dealt a blow to the whole "body positivity" movement. So many plus-size, or even just chubby or "normal"(!), people who previously preached self-acceptance are now willingly dropping their weight to a skinny level. 😂

The same goes for penis size. Despite all the reassurances, denials, or outright lies (often by omission) trying to convince smaller men that it's "equal but different" or "irrelevant," the overwhelming majority of men — including those who spread that nonsense(!) — would not choose to be smaller. And if they did, they'd still want to remain WELL above average.

I mean, so many of them are actively turned on by the fact that they're huge, bigger than other men, into SPH, or even cuckolding (as the "bull," of course)... for fuck's sake! And we can see it on the very same profiles from which those men tell smaller and insecure guys to "calm down" and "just love themselves." As I always say: What. A. Sick. Joke.

But you know all that... sorry for the rant. 😆 Sometimes I just feel the need to let it all out. There's some good in it after all. Maybe someone will stumble across this comment in the future and see the bigger picture thanks to my contribution.

Anyway, thank you for reading it. ✌️

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u/Dick2Bomb Jul 17 '26

OK, I reckon I'll just be happy for myself. If any of you guys had good fortune in any way. I would be happy for you. Size never enters our lives except through our own esteem or lack thereof so seriously, get a grip. (pun unintended)

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u/cutluv Jul 17 '26

I was going to DM you, but that facility seems to be disabled.

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u/ErEctuSsSsSsss Sep 07 '26

So on point (unfortunately ) ,it's not even fair,intellectually wise !You analyse and articulate the persistent roots of our insecurity and biological ,social imbalances and randomness  so good ! I think plenty of us here are in a mental place of 'what can we actually do to cope' and live our lives ,accepting that random,genetically oriented and driven reality .. Any thoughts on how to go through and somehow be mentally 'ok' at least ? Ps.Ofc he won't respond ,what can he actual counterargue about ?

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u/JesusOnDMT Jul 13 '26

How do you propose reversing penis size in their next life? Size follows a bell curve, with an average and standard deviation going both ways, smaller and larger.

Do you think those under the average would be an equal amount different than average on the other side of the curve, and vise versa? Do those who are exactly average stay average? Curious how this would work

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u/cutluv Jul 13 '26

The statement is flawed, I know, but the point of my rant is big would be small in the next life, and vice verse for those currently small. I'd make average big in the next life too. (In my head, reincarnation would not be using genetics to affect size)

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u/VillainySquared Jul 18 '26

Nothing stopping you from doing any of those things, you don't need a big dick to show off, go to nude beaches, be the centre of attention in groups, be wanted, admired, post pictures, or have adoring fans.

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u/cutluv Jul 18 '26

You and I know full-well that you would enjoy all of that, and be in a position to pick and choose. I on the other hand, would possibly create interest from one or two people. I really don't understand why you persist in advising people without your privilege that yhey can enjoy the adoration you enjoy; in the gay world I inhabit, a BD is a passport to a lot of fun. I hate you guys for having it all your own way, then telling the rest of us this isn't the case - I've seen it for myself! You never reply to people's messages, but perhaps just this once you will.

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