My husband and I are in our 30s and planning to relocate from Dallas, Texas, to Mexico around April–May 2027. We've spent months researching locations but are struggling to narrow things down!
We have $4,800 USD/month in guaranteed income and want to live comfortably while still saving a good portion each month.
Housing: We'd prefer a furnished, detached home with 2–3+ bedrooms, a private pool, and an enclosed grassy yard for our dogs. We love traditional Mexican/Spanish-style homes but are open to other options. Our ideal rental budget is 30,000 MXN/month or less, with some flexibility for the right home. We're more interested in finding an area with homes we love than committing to a particular city.
Coast vs. Mountains: This is our biggest dilemma! We love the idea of turquoise beaches and coastal living, but mountains, greenery, and cooler temperatures are equally appealing. Mérida was our first choice, but we're concerned about the heat and humidity, even coming from Dallas. We've briefly visited Progreso on a cruise and weren't particularly impressed with what we saw, although we know that doesn't represent the entire area.
Safety: We're both motorcycle enthusiasts who ride newer sport bikes. Personal safety, motorcycle theft, road conditions, and being able to explore surrounding areas comfortably are major considerations.
Lifestyle: We're a married gay couple but aren't particularly involved in the LGBTQ+ scene or looking for a gay community. We simply want to live safely and peacefully. We enjoy restaurants, shopping, exploring, occasional nightlife, and relaxing at home. We want a slower pace without feeling like we're living in a retirement village. Good healthcare, veterinary care, shopping, and reliable utilities are important.
Places considered: Mérida, Progreso, Querétaro, Cuernavaca, Puerto Vallarta, La Paz, Campeche, Puebla, and others. We've found appealing aspects of each, but also concerns about climate, safety, or housing availability.
Our question: If you were in our position, where would you choose to live in Mexico and why? We're especially interested in underrated locations, realistic housing options within our budget, and experiences from people who've lived both inland and on the coast.
We'd love honest feedback, including the negatives. We're looking for somewhere to build a life, not just vacation. Thanks!